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Jason H. Parker I worked from home yesterday morning and accomplished a ton of work. Seems like I'm always able to focus when I'm working from home. Is this rare--I feel like I'm in the minority here?

43 weeks ago from Freelancing, Location Independent and Washington D.C.1 more

Pamela J Carter: I don't think so...if you're comfortable in your home and have work space set aside there, often you'll find you're more productive there than at ...MoreI don't think so...if you're comfortable in your home and have work space set aside there, often you'll find you're more productive there than at the office. And you don't have the drive time there and back to worry about daily.
18 weeks ago
JRandom42: Here's the thing: I'm an infrastructure engineer, which means I work on and with the company's infrastructure, which includes, switch, routers, ...MoreHere's the thing: I'm an infrastructure engineer, which means I work on and with the company's infrastructure, which includes, switch, routers, servers, cabling and so on. Kinda hard to do from home, especially when a lot depends on the high-end hardware and software that never leaves the facility, not to mention the 10Gbit network throughout the facility. Remote connections suck, especially with the security involved and the narrowness of the bandwidth pipe.
18 weeks ago
 
TOP IDEA: Brett Kunsch I've read countless personal development books, but I always come back to the conclusion that a lot of times we don't seek out self-help books to help ourselves, we seek them out so they can do the work for us. As part of my coach training, I've had 3 coaches myself, and it seems the only thing that *sticks* is regular work with another human being who holds me accountable. Yet the self-help industry booms, while coaching is still trying to find a name for itself. Brazen thoughts?

59 weeks ago from GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals, Professional Development, Productivity & Time-Management, Personal Development and Ask Penelope Trunk!3 more

Regina Richardson: perhaps it comes down to a financial aspect...along the lines of the budget cannot support sessions with a human coach, but it can allow a ...Moreperhaps it comes down to a financial aspect...along the lines of the budget cannot support sessions with a human coach, but it can allow a one-time amount on a book that MAY help me find my way.
38 weeks ago
Noel Rozny: I think this is related to the points Tim Murphy makes in his great entrepreneurial article (to the right): sometimes reading such a book FEELS ...MoreI think this is related to the points Tim Murphy makes in his great entrepreneurial article (to the right): sometimes reading such a book FEELS like you're making a change or evolving, when you're really not doing the work you need to do. I know I'm definitely guilty of this.
38 weeks ago
 
Jamie Nacht Farrell I hate when someone looks at my career and says, "You're so lucky". Am I really? Or is it about a combination of skill, desire for continuous improvement, tenacity, etc? How do you respond when someone says, "you're so lucky"? I contend that it's not luck, but about CHOICES and what we choose to prioritize in our life at different times; Wrote about my response here: http://bizrelationships.wordpress.com/2010/08/01/how-humble-do-i-have-to... Thoughts?

79 weeks ago from Objectivists, Shotgun Startups, Creating a Life You Love, Consultants R US and Entrepreneurs3 more

Frank E. Warren: Lighten up... the two of you are both too young to place this kind of stress upon yourselves. Certainly, be proud of your accomplishments - you ...MoreLighten up... the two of you are both too young to place this kind of stress upon yourselves. Certainly, be proud of your accomplishments - you have earned it.
Working hard can be a "gift" that you offer to yourself. When viewed in this manner, hard work becomes a more pleasant experience. Think too, of all the people in the world who have never heard a kind word from their parents. It may help you appreciate your mother's pride, even if you are uncomfortable with her words.
And, since you both have made the choice to work hard, celebrate your achievement and be happy about it... and remember it is a gift that you have offered yourselves.
Peace,

77 weeks ago
Jessica Bahr: Luck happens when preparation and opportunity meet. It's not luck, its the reward for hard work.
69 weeks ago
 
Andrew Shell If you've started (or are starting) a company, where did the idea for your company come from? Did you already know your target demographic before you started or did you find it as you went along?

79 weeks ago from Nomadic Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurs, Consultants R US, Web Startups and Upstarts!3 more

Patricia Stewart: Hey Andrew, you should like at a business that gives you passive, residual income. You don't want to be self-employed and you be the system and ...MoreHey Andrew, you should like at a business that gives you passive, residual income. You don't want to be self-employed and you be the system and always be tied down by that business if you aren't there. You should look at network marketing it is the business for the 21st century. Read, Napolean Hills, Think and Grow Rich. David Schwartz's book, The Magic of Thinking Big. Also, Robery Kiyosacki's book The Business for the 21st Century.
79 weeks ago
Lindsay Browning: I started a company over 5 years ago and sold my shares 2.5 years later. The idea came from being in the industry already and I spotted a gap in ...MoreI started a company over 5 years ago and sold my shares 2.5 years later. The idea came from being in the industry already and I spotted a gap in the market for what I went on to do. Regarding target demographic this grew as the business expanded and we managed that growth. As the business flourished in growth we always developed into new services. Personally you start of with an idea and you cannot help but develop into new markets/services. Whatever works and makes the customer happy! Plus making profit helps
79 weeks ago
 
Dana Leavy For those who are entrepreneurs or self-employed, do you regularly take on 'side gigs' to supplement your income, either during startup or slow times? Or are you solely focused on your core product? What practices around this are finding work best for you?

36 weeks ago from Entrepreneurs, Advertising Professionals, Freelancing, Brazen Careerists in New York City and Career Changers3 more

Sussu Laaksonen: My side gig has taken over my life! It's great for money, but my main project has suffered. I am taking a three month break from the money gig so ...MoreMy side gig has taken over my life! It's great for money, but my main project has suffered. I am taking a three month break from the money gig so I can focus on finishing my project and getting back on track.
36 weeks ago
Morgan Barnhart: Honestly, I get bored if I'm only stuck with one single type of project. I only have a couple different types and I'm extremely passionate about ...MoreHonestly, I get bored if I'm only stuck with one single type of project. I only have a couple different types and I'm extremely passionate about them both, so I'm able to schedule them in efficiently while not stressing myself out. I make sure to create balance so one doesn't overshadow the other.
36 weeks ago
Rachael Stanford: It was definitely an awesome way to meet people!
37 weeks ago
Jason H. Parker: @Beth, @Noel, @Ruth, @Rachael. Don't worry, WordNerds! @Steph has agreed to host another session real soon. Be on the lookout!
37 weeks ago
 
Dana Leavy For job seekers and career changers, networking is at the top of the list for effective search tools, and I hear constant stories of success, both online and offline. Yet many people are intimidated by networking still, as it doesn't seem as tangible as applying to an advertised job. What have been your success stories with networking, and did you trust in the process, or was it by chance that it worked out for you?

43 weeks ago from Young Professional Women (YPW), PR & New Media, Work/Life Blur, Boston University Alumni and Students and Advertising Professionals3 more

Raquel Elle Bell: I think if you are going to get a job by networking you need to have a strategy. Create a profile of the company you want to work for. Do some ...MoreI think if you are going to get a job by networking you need to have a strategy. Create a profile of the company you want to work for. Do some research to find out who hires in those companies and what type of events the person hiring goes to. Everything you want to know about a potential employer is visible and accessible online.. But you have to do your homework. I think networking blind for a job is a shot in the dark. I think with any type of sales or marketing you need to hone in on your target and go after it.
43 weeks ago
Steph Auteri: Before I start singing the praises of networking, I'd just like to point out that applying to a job ad is one of the *least effective* job search ...MoreBefore I start singing the praises of networking, I'd just like to point out that applying to a job ad is one of the *least effective* job search methods, both because the competition is fiercer, and because many employers use job ads only as a last resort. So don't let that be the only thing you're doing to secure a job!

Phew! Okay. Moving on. I think that many of the people who are intimidated by networking envision it as consisting solely of awkward cocktail parties and networking events when, in reality, networking is about organically building and maintaining new, authentic, personal connections, no matter where you are.

As a freelance writer and editor, I feel as if I'm at a point where 95% of my work *comes to me*. This is because of the connections I've made at previous jobs, at internships, at continuing education classes, on Twitter, etc. Which is pretty darn awesome, and makes life a lot easier for me.

So what do I suggest for those looking to do more networking? Don't go into it looking for what so-and-so can do for you. Go into it looking to make friends. Or to help out others. Or both. When you build authentic, give-and-take connections, the good karma will eventually come your way.

43 weeks ago
 
Vickie Elmer What's the best internship you ever had? How was it exceptional and what would you recommend to this year's internship coordinators? Vault.com lists the top internships each year, including this year for the first time those found at non-profits. (http://www.vault.com/wps/portal/usa/topinternship?year=2011 ) Thoughts on finding a great internship please!

47 weeks ago from We're Hiring, Career Rocketeer and Slash Jobs1 more

Steph Auteri: It's been awhile since I've interned anywhere (in fact, I'm now an internship coordinator at a small web magazine), but I always loved interning ...MoreIt's been awhile since I've interned anywhere (in fact, I'm now an internship coordinator at a small web magazine), but I always loved interning at smaller companies. Though I sometimes brewed the coffee (a mutual benefit, I assure you), the small sizes of the companies I was with always afforded me the chance to take on greater responsibilities, and to get a clearer picture of how all departments worked together.

As an intern, and as an internship coordinator, I'd also like to point out that an internship is what you make of it. Don't just sit back and do as you're told. Take initiative. Throw out ideas. And take advantage of where you are. Schedule informational interviews with those at the company you're interning for.

Also, as an internship coordinator, I conduct midpoint (and end-of-internship) interviews so I can get a feel for what an intern would like to learn more about, or what they're struggling with. One of the things they always mention is that they're hungry for more feedback from the people who are giving them work. I know that people struggle for time, but it's something to be mindful of.

Hope this helps!

47 weeks ago
Dave Ellis: My best internship was my very first... I worked in the Marketing Department for a minor League baseball team. It was unpaid... well in a monetary ...MoreMy best internship was my very first... I worked in the Marketing Department for a minor League baseball team. It was unpaid... well in a monetary sense... I did get to take home the leftover hotdogs and BBQ chicken from the games. That was plenty good enough for me at the time!

I now work for a start-up company, but looking back I see that baseball internship was a lot like a start-up in itself... with such a small staff, I was involved in the whole company: marketing, customer service, batting practice, maintenance, sales, PR and retail.

As Steph said, above, "the small sizes of the companies I was with always afforded me the chance to take on greater responsibilities"... I couldn't agree more. My current start-up helps entrepreneurial-minded candidates connect with start-ups and small businesses through internships. We encourage candidates to view internships at these smaller companies over those at large corporations for that very reason Steph mentioned - because you get to wear so many hats out of necessity... you learn SO much more.

47 weeks ago
 
Allan Chang What are good ways to solicit HONEST feedback on a business idea? I've noticed that people are more upfront when the idea is in conception phase, but once the idea been developed there is more reluctance for people to provide constructive feedback for improvements. It's great to receive encouraging words, but sometimes it's hard to differentiate between genuine support and fear of critiquing.

55 weeks ago from Ask A Coach

Timothy Johnson III: You might want to ask other entrepreneurs, or utilize a network like MoreYou might want to ask other entrepreneurs, or utilize a network like www.behance.com to get some feedback.
55 weeks ago
Allan Chang: Thank you all for your thoughts - I think i'll pick up a few new tactics that i haven't tried before to test the avenues. 1. I'm going to ...MoreThank you all for your thoughts - I think i'll pick up a few new tactics that i haven't tried before to test the avenues. 1. I'm going to establish a focus group to get feedback 2. I'll find a cocky new MBA (i like the suggestion Stefan) 3. I'll look for a few Entrep's as a good sounding board.

@Kim - very noteworthy comment about handling critique
@Mario - special thanks to you for digging into my project and provide direct feedback

54 weeks ago
 
Ryan Paugh Would/could you ever go back to an office job? I think I could, and would, if the opportunity was right for me. I really enjoy working location independent, but part of me misses the more distinct separation between my work life and my life life.

56 weeks ago from Location Independent and Coworking

JESS Kalinowsky: "location independent" is a great phrase! In our industry people say "home based" and I think that sounds so cheesy, like doing business out of ...More"location independent" is a great phrase! In our industry people say "home based" and I think that sounds so cheesy, like doing business out of trunk of a car! When people ask me where my office is located, I hold up my Blackberry or Laptop, whichever is closest! Then I say I am "totally virtual". With the great weather we have in Los Angeles about 333 days a year, I can be in a cafe`, or in a park, or "anywhere" and still take care of my clients! They love they can reach me about 12+ hours a day, 365 days a year!
54 weeks ago
JESS Kalinowsky: AT&T has filed a petition with the Federal Govt. to discontinue home landlines, and "force" everyone to have a cell. We are a very mobile ...MoreAT&T has filed a petition with the Federal Govt. to discontinue home landlines, and "force" everyone to have a cell. We are a very mobile society, so it is not necessary to have a "brick and mortar" address. PLUS, with a POBOX, you can move 3-4-5 times a year, and no one needs to know!
54 weeks ago
 
Allan Chang What are tips that work-from-home people have on staying "sane"? I have a friend that started freelancing full-time from home recently, but is having difficulty adjusting to the lifestyle. Limited human interaction, limited availability to leave from the house, etc... How have others managed this transition?

55 weeks ago from Entrepreneurs

Steph Auteri: I'm an introvert, so I may not be the best person to answer this question but, I must admit, the first time I tried working from home full-time, ...MoreI'm an introvert, so I may not be the best person to answer this question but, I must admit, the first time I tried working from home full-time, the lack of human interaction left me depressed. I also worked ALL THE TIME, rather than placing boundaries between my work and personal life.

Now, I'm at home full-time again, and loving it. I keep active on the social networks. I go outside for a half hour walk daily. I do yoga in my living room either in the afternoon or in the evening. I take a hoop dancing class on Wednesday mornings and a callanetics class on Wednesdays evenings. It's all about scheduling non-work time... time to do things for you.

I also make sure to make social plans AT LEAST once a week. I don't want to become a TOTAL recluse. ;)

55 weeks ago
LY Gian: Steph, your work from home schedule sounds great!
54 weeks ago
 
Leona How did you know that you wanted to be a life/career coach? What were your career steps? I've always enjoyed helping my peers with their job/internship searches, resumes, etc. Of course, I'd like to gain more work experience before helping others, but I can picture myself doing life/career coaching someday!

54 weeks ago from Ask A Coach

Steph Auteri: Right before the economy went kablooey, I was rocking my first year as a full-time freelance writer and editor. Then the daily newspaper that was ...MoreRight before the economy went kablooey, I was rocking my first year as a full-time freelance writer and editor. Then the daily newspaper that was my main source of income folded, and it became clear that in order to survive, I would have to diversify further.

At this point, I had also been writing my own freelance blog for about a year, and I regularly received e-mails from writers looking for advice. It gave me the warm fuzzies to be able to help, and it occurred to me that this could be a good career path to explore.

I researched career coaching and career counseling programs. I sought out informational interviews from people in both professions. Then, once I thought I had settled upon a program I liked, I sought out MORE informational interviews from those who had been through the program. (I was certified through CCI: the Career Coach Institute.)

And now I'm working on building Career Coaching for Word Nerds! Always fun and always a learning experience.

54 weeks ago
Laurice Gajda: Hello Leona,
As a kid, I wanted to be a Therapist. During schooling I found it wasnt my path and just knew the path was somehow to help people. ...More
Hello Leona,
As a kid, I wanted to be a Therapist. During schooling I found it wasnt my path and just knew the path was somehow to help people. I did a lot of personal growth work over the years and many people came to me for a listening ear, praising me for my calm demeanor and grace under pressure way of being. One Job I had asked me to design and implement a coaching program at work. I did this for 3 years with no formal Coaching Training to great success. When I moved away I decided to continue with it and to get certified. When I went for training workshops I felt like I was home. I was in a space that was completely in alignment with my purpose and had positive feedback from others I respected to know the difference.
A few people have mentioned CTI's fundementals course. Its offered in many cities worldwide and I agree its a great chance to step in and see if coaching is a fit for you. At the very least you will meet like minded people as you and where you are at sorting it out.
Wishing you all the best
Laurice

54 weeks ago
 
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56 weeks ago

 
Rebecca Thorman Does anyone do a blog editorial calendar? How do you organize all your ideas?

58 weeks ago from Productivity & Time-Management and Blogging Ideas

Moses Sena: I had been completely blown apart by the ideas picked up here, just a few minutes after signing up(even my profile is not fully completed yet). I ...MoreI had been completely blown apart by the ideas picked up here, just a few minutes after signing up(even my profile is not fully completed yet). I plan writing a blog on different subjects and themes starting this year and just found the answers to my past blogging nightmares.
57 weeks ago
Steph Auteri: @Ruth: Oh god, I'm obsessed with GQueues. They should start paying me for all the promotion I do. ;)
57 weeks ago
 
Sam Rye I had a rather sweeping change in life - from Business/Marketing/Design to Environmental Conservation. How? Volunteering. It gave me the safety of trialling another industry and way of life, when no one would've paid me to get this experience. Has anyone else made a similar shift + how did you go about it?

59 weeks ago from Career Changers

JRandom42: The best thing to do for career change? Save money NOW. Because you'll never know when you need to rely on that financial cushion between careers!
59 weeks ago
Brittany Thompson: @JRandom42 - good point, I agree! Although I also believe it's important to have a financial cushion at just about any stage in life. You never ...More@JRandom42 - good point, I agree! Although I also believe it's important to have a financial cushion at just about any stage in life. You never know what unexpected expenses might pop up!
59 weeks ago
 
Ty Unglebower Nobody should be expected to do their work for free. Consultants and freelancers included. But I think sometimes we need to be careful not to be too bitter when people ask for our advice over and over. I don't think it always means people are seeking "free work". People ask a car mechanic for advice on their car when he isn't working on them, but that isn't considered "free work".Some people may just be trying to talk about what you do as a consultant, not trying to rob you of labor.

60 weeks ago from Freelancing, Baltimore Brazen, Washington D.C. and Professional Writers and Editors2 more

Dr. Paul D. Giammalvo: @Steven S-
I think your approach is somewhat naive. Having lived and worked in SE Asia for nearly 20 years now, I can assure you that many local ...More
@Steven S-
I think your approach is somewhat naive. Having lived and worked in SE Asia for nearly 20 years now, I can assure you that many local companies will have you make presentation after presentation, which people gladly do, hoping to win work and after about the third presentation, you have given them all they need to know and they end up giving the project to their brother in law or cousin, who will implement your ideas.

Not to be too crude, but we are in many ways, like prostitutes. The value of our services varies in direct proportion to the real or perceived need. When they need (or want) us, they are willing to pay a premium but once provided, they no longer need us..... Until NEXT time.....

Tough world out there and getting tougher by the day....

BR,
Dr. PDG, Jakarta, Indonesia
http://www.build-project-management-competency.com

60 weeks ago
Jonathan S. Ross: I've got to largely agree with Dr. Paul. Especially in these down economic times, and this notion of "crowdsourcing" ideas (i.e. getting others to ...MoreI've got to largely agree with Dr. Paul. Especially in these down economic times, and this notion of "crowdsourcing" ideas (i.e. getting others to do work for you for either nothing or vague promises of some future benefit), there are a tremendous number of bottom-feeders that want something for nothing.

To some extent, the cost of doing business can include providing some free advice, but if you want to be taken seriously as a professional, you have to know when to inform a prospect that the meter needs to start unless you are agreeing to perform pro-bono work.

59 weeks ago
 
Riley Carson I've written a short (fiction) story. I'm now looking for two things: A literary agent that will take on an unpublished writer, and/or a writer's workshop that will help me develop my craft. I'm having a lot of trouble deciphering between the real thing and scams because to an amateur like me, there seems to be a hair's breadth worth of difference!

68 weeks ago from Write a Book!, Brazen Fiction Writers, Creative Writing, Professional Writers and Editors and Blogging Ideas3 more

Alex Vilchynskaya: Check out this blog MoreCheck out this blog http://guidetoliteraryagents.com/blog. It has a lot of info on literary agents and agencies. Also, there are a lot of literary agents on twitter. Some of them have their own blogs with plenty of useful advice and info. Hope this helps.
67 weeks ago
Monica Valentinelli: Sorry about being late to this party, but you don't need an agent to publish your short story. In fact, I would strongly recommend that you avoid ...MoreSorry about being late to this party, but you don't need an agent to publish your short story. In fact, I would strongly recommend that you avoid querying agents for this short of a form. Check out www.ralan.com and www.duotrope.com for starters. Writer's Beware, which is owned by Victoria Strauss, is a great place to check out.http://www.sfwa.org/for-authors/writer-beware/

It's very common for new writers to be worried about scams, but most publishers aren't. Just remember one thing and one thing only: Money flows to the writer.

60 weeks ago
 
Blake I would love any feedback on my resume...I'm not getting many calls. I'm not wedded to my current field, but do I need separate resumes for different areas like teaching, corporate training and professional writing, or do I just need to change my objective? Here's my resume: https://docs.google.com/leaf?id=0B2J2wAnRpoPuMjMzOTFmOGEtYjNjYS00YmZiLTg...

61 weeks ago from Resume Feedback

Aaron Evans: What are your thoughts about including keywords within your resume? I wonder, especially with technology jobs via interent submission, if a full ...MoreWhat are your thoughts about including keywords within your resume? I wonder, especially with technology jobs via interent submission, if a full page of keywords (like for a search engine) would help people get more hits on their resume.

Many of these sites use OCR anyway, weed out the thousands of applications, maybe that is why you have so few relevant hits.

Sending resumes can be so frustrating! I think the success rate is 1 hit for every 50 or more submitted in todays market (locally).

The best way is to build relationships, and have something to offer others, and they may offer work to you. This takes time and effort.

I feel your resume pain, everyone goes through this frustration! It seems so unfair to put in all of the tweaking and specializing, and not even get a response from prospects to say "hey, thanks, we have received your resume."

I would like to see the job application landscape changed. Too many talented peope are doing irrelevant work.

Good Luck!
Aaron

61 weeks ago
Linda A. Hamilton: Blake: What you have is called a Functional Resume, it provides Core Competencies up top then the list of Work Experience below. Most employers ...MoreBlake: What you have is called a Functional Resume, it provides Core Competencies up top then the list of Work Experience below. Most employers prefer the Chronological type where the details are listed within the job listing itself. Functionals aren't as popular today and for your needs probably isn't the format style you need to use.

Keywords are crucial to your job search. Reference the job description for your pending job. Pick out keywords that relate to your skills and work them into the content of the Summary of Qualifications at the top, and into the Work Experience as they apply. OCR tools are used to filter out non-applicants but also pinpoint key words and store your name in the database for fast retrieval once needed.

Electronic submissions on web sites like CareerBuilder and Monster need to be referenced at least once a week to maintain visibility. Like the SEO, electronic databases get so many hits that unless you actively show an interest in your submission it will get lost within the millions of others looking for the same job. Even if you access it to simply view the resume, it shows you're working your page and it generates a crawl.

Yes, in some fields it is difficult to pinpoint accomplishments and successes, but when reviewing your resume I thought of several ideas to present your strengths in a transitional way that leverage your skills toward a career-change. It can be done, normally just takes more thought; and writing your own makes it harder because EVERYTHING seems important!

Yes create a new resume for each field you pursue. Customizing for career choice is as important as customizing to leverage skills for proper positioning.

Let me know if you want some person help. All the above ideas are good; you'll find out what works best as you pursue your transition.

All the best, Linda

61 weeks ago
 
Ty Unglebower What do you think is the best way for writers to network in casual settings? That is to say at a party or other non-networking social event, (where most networking happens.) When you tell most people you are a writer, they say, "oh!" and nod, and that is the end of it. They probably think I am up in an attic surrounded by papers and liquor. (I'm not.) So how can a writer discuss what he does, and what he wants to do in the future, with "lay people" in an interesting way?

63 weeks ago from Baltimore Brazen, Washington D.C., Professional Writers and Editors and Networking Tips2 more

Thursday Bram: I've found that it helps when I sound excited about what I do. It's easy to say 'I'm just a writer,' and that tells your networking prospect that ...MoreI've found that it helps when I sound excited about what I do. It's easy to say 'I'm just a writer,' and that tells your networking prospect that what you do is fairly boring. If you can convey your enthusiasm — 'I'm lucky enough to be a writer!' — it's easier to start a conversation about it. I also really like asking what other people do and talking about writing projects that I've worked on that are related to their industry.
62 weeks ago
Heidi: I am a strategy consultant and a writer. I actually have more interest at events when I tell people I am just a writer! What seems to work is if ...MoreI am a strategy consultant and a writer. I actually have more interest at events when I tell people I am just a writer! What seems to work is if I can tell them what I am working on or what I have worked on. I get bonus points (i.e. a longer conversation) when I can tie in what I am writing/have written to the nature of the event or the personality of the person I am speaking with.

Heidi

62 weeks ago
 
elizabeth This may seem like a very no brainer question, but how does one, if they have several internet startups at one time, budget their time and juggle all of them?

63 weeks ago from Productivity & Time-Management

Aaron Evans: Hi Elizabeth:

I think every successful person goes through this at least a couple of times during their career. I have read through the posts, ...More
Hi Elizabeth:

I think every successful person goes through this at least a couple of times during their career. I have read through the posts, and you have been given some excellent advice! (I will have to try some of these)

Throughout my day, I have noticed that other peoples problems have somehow become MY problem. Does this happen? Are you pulled in so many directions doing tasks for other people.. what others deem important?

These e-mails and interuptions can really take us off track from the task we are currently working on. Usually what is critical to someone else, isn't really important to you or your goals. If this is the case, take some steps to do what is important to you.

You can still be the "goto" person in your business, but set up boundaries and limitations to your interuptions. They can really kill your momentum. Setup a time that you can be reached or interrupted. Setup specific parameters for replying to non urgent e-mails. At first this was hard, but now, I give people better focused attn at specific times, whereas before, I was frustrated about interruptions and often forgot about the requests.

Let me know if you would like some more information about how I did this at my business. I apologize for the long message!

Cordially,
Aaron

63 weeks ago
elizabeth: Thanks everyone sooo much for the excellent advice.
63 weeks ago
 
Steph Auteri There are so many things that terrify me about networking events. I agonize over the best way to approach people, and then don't approach them. I worry that I'm lame for cowering in the corner. I worry that I'm boring, or that my social awkwardness turns people off. I'm an introvert, with social anxiety. What do you struggle with the most when it comes to networking, and how do you cope? http://ow.ly/37zQ2

65 weeks ago from Professional Writers and Editors and Freelancing

Caitlin: Meeting people at an event where you don't know anyone is so hard! One of my friends recently blogged about this: MoreMeeting people at an event where you don't know anyone is so hard! One of my friends recently blogged about this: http://gearsandshifts.com/2010/introverts-pain
64 weeks ago
Jake Poinier: I'm an extrovert, but primarily when I'm with people I know -- so, networking requires a concerted effort. My approach is kind of like the Dog ...MoreI'm an extrovert, but primarily when I'm with people I know -- so, networking requires a concerted effort. My approach is kind of like the Dog Whisperer recommends when walking an unruly dog: You just need to pretend and carry yourself like you're a famous celebrity! Just in a friendly and bold way, introduce yourself to some people -- odds are, they're just as shy about networking as you are.
64 weeks ago
 
Katrina Grant I have been actively looking for full time employment for close to a year now. I am looking in the areas of TV production, journalism, public relations, or web media. I have applied to major companies like E! News, CNN, and NBC, and others, as well as smaller organizations for entry-level positions and have heard nothing. All I get is automated responses to my resume. Does anyone know how to get around this to at least get a person to respond to my resume?

68 weeks ago from Journalism and Journalists

Mehnaz Thawer: Have you tried to just approach a company and just say, I'd like to write for you/ pitch to you? It might not be exactly what you want to do, but ...MoreHave you tried to just approach a company and just say, I'd like to write for you/ pitch to you? It might not be exactly what you want to do, but it might get you in the door.
64 weeks ago
Caitlin: If you haven't already I would try going to the office in person to give them your resume-especially with the smaller organizations. When I worked ...MoreIf you haven't already I would try going to the office in person to give them your resume-especially with the smaller organizations. When I worked in newspapers we had a staff of seven people at our office (and we were one of the larger offices). You may not meet the person in charge of hiring, but you might get the chance to talk to someone who could make sure your resume gets read.
64 weeks ago
 
Kelly N. Perry What are some books that you have read which helped you in your career?

65 weeks ago from GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals

Miranda Brock: My picks are The Wealthy Freelancer, Never Eat Alone and Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office. I really want to check out Rework.
65 weeks ago
Adam Porche: Coach anyone about anything 1 and 2 by Jed and Germaine Niederer. They are amazing and help anyone learn how to speak, manage, and coach. Great ...MoreCoach anyone about anything 1 and 2 by Jed and Germaine Niederer. They are amazing and help anyone learn how to speak, manage, and coach. Great reads for anyone in any field.

65 weeks ago
 
Rebecca Thorman I am REALLY excited today because I am officially credit card debt-free! It's all paid off and I'm pretty proud of myself. My next step was going to be to pay off my student loans (which have very low interest rates) or maybe my car (which I think has a 6% interest rate), or instead, re-build my emergency fund and then start donating to my Roth IRA again. What do you all think? Get rid of all debt or save a little first?

66 weeks ago from Personal Finance, Work/Life Blur, I am Gen Y, Credit Union Folks and Fans and Economics and Finance3 more

Elizabeth Williams: Congratulations!
66 weeks ago
Rebecca Thorman: Wow, thanks so much everyone! This was awesome to read everyone's replies. I sat down with my spreadsheet, worked the numbers and found that I ...MoreWow, thanks so much everyone! This was awesome to read everyone's replies. I sat down with my spreadsheet, worked the numbers and found that I will be able to max out my Roth IRA, fill my emergency fund back up and pay off my car loan completely by the end of next year - so that's the goal. I'll probably do split payments between savings and car loan as many suggested, and then roll over all to savings. Thanks so much again!
66 weeks ago
 
Steph Auteri Being an editor and a writer is interesting. As an editor, I need to make the copy the best it can be, in a way that fits the publication. As a writer, I know what it's like to be attached to your words, and I try to run things by my writers when I’ve made extensive edits, as I don’t want to misrepresent them in any way. To all the editors out there: How do you find a balance between editing and respecting someones work? Writers: Any good/bad stories to share about the editors you have had?

67 weeks ago from Professional Writers and Editors

Mehnaz Thawer: I'm on both sides of that fence regularly. As an editor, I try and maintain the integrity of voice. If the piece is having major issues with ...MoreI'm on both sides of that fence regularly. As an editor, I try and maintain the integrity of voice. If the piece is having major issues with information, I will ask for a rewrite or a clarification. Sometimes when there is a huge discrepency in how the writer reguarly writes and the editor's work, it can be obvious. I try and avoid that pitfall where I can.

I do hate it when the tone of my article gets edited. It's happened to me, and I think it comes more from a lack of understanding of your spin than anything else.

67 weeks ago
Lawrence Tabak: OK, I know I said above that I shouldn't get started...but here's one of many interesting editorial interactions. I submit what I consider to be ...MoreOK, I know I said above that I shouldn't get started...but here's one of many interesting editorial interactions. I submit what I consider to be an extremely tight 1200 word personal essay to a national journal -- sized to their normal well. After sitting with them for many months I am surprised to receive a positive response. However, could I edit it down to 900 words? In two days. Fine, I torture it down to 900 words, at some expense to the piece. Send it in. Three week later I get a frantic call -- an adverstiser has dropped at the last minute. Any way I could expand my essay to 1,200 words? And no, they no longer have my original submission...That said, I've also had many wonderful editors.
67 weeks ago
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choral and classical singing, belly dancing, hoop dancing, wine tasting, book nerding, cats
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  1. Build my career coaching practice to the point where it is my main source of income.
  2. Finish my Job-Hopping for Word Nerds e-book.
  3. Write a proposal for a book that is tied in with my sex writing story.
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