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Ryan Stephens What book(s) are you currently reading? I'm on a Stoicism kick and reading The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius among others.

140 weeks ago from Book Shelf

Beatriz Alemar: Currently reading: Steering by Starlight (by Martha Beck) and the Gift of Fear (by Gavin de Becker)

@Ben - I loved How We Decide. I still use ...More
Currently reading: Steering by Starlight (by Martha Beck) and the Gift of Fear (by Gavin de Becker)

@Ben - I loved How We Decide. I still use some of the tips to help me make difficult decisions.

19 weeks ago
Lori Ruff: Rock The World with your Online presence... we're getting ready to release the 3rd edition so this is my focus until I deliver it to the publisher!
19 weeks ago
 
Jamie Nacht Farrell Do most people "work to live" or "live to work"? I can't understand how people work 9 - 5 jobs and are fulfilled; I guess I "live to work" and am having trouble figuring out if it may make my life easier if I "work to live"? Advice? http://bizrelationships.wordpress.com/2010/09/17/live-to-work-or-work-to...

72 weeks ago from Creatively Inspired, Ask Penelope Trunk!, Entrepreneurs, Consultants R US and Creating a Life You Love3 more

Edward Antrobus: Both viewpoints disregard the concept of balance. I definately don't "live to work" but I wouldn't say that I "work to live." I see the work to ...MoreBoth viewpoints disregard the concept of balance. I definately don't "live to work" but I wouldn't say that I "work to live." I see the work to live-ers as the ones who work a low paying job just enough hours to pay the bills and never get ahead in life. I know people like that, and I don't admire them.

Meanwhile, I don't know anyone IRL who embodies "live to work." Several (myself including in May...263 hours this year) work long hours because it's expected in their field, but their job doesn't define them. I don't know anyone who would consider his federal law clerk job what defines my one friend or his CFO position for another friend. That's what they do, enjoy, and are good at, but it's not who they are.

31 weeks ago
Megan Atkinson: I've always struggled with the 'live to work' vs 'work to live' thing. I love my 9-5 but I do find, now that I'm dabbling as an entrepreneur on ...MoreI've always struggled with the 'live to work' vs 'work to live' thing. I love my 9-5 but I do find, now that I'm dabbling as an entrepreneur on the side, that the corporate structure is less fulfilling as I find more skills and interests un-tapped in the day job. I live to work in the sense that I love to work - whether on my side-hustle or at the office. When I worked to live in the past, it left me dying for the workday to end and resenting the work life all together. I guess it's different for everyone.
29 weeks ago
 
Jamie Nacht Farrell I hate when someone looks at my career and says, "You're so lucky". Am I really? Or is it about a combination of skill, desire for continuous improvement, tenacity, etc? How do you respond when someone says, "you're so lucky"? I contend that it's not luck, but about CHOICES and what we choose to prioritize in our life at different times; Wrote about my response here: http://bizrelationships.wordpress.com/2010/08/01/how-humble-do-i-have-to... Thoughts?

79 weeks ago from Objectivists, Shotgun Startups, Creating a Life You Love, Consultants R US and Entrepreneurs3 more

Frank E. Warren: Lighten up... the two of you are both too young to place this kind of stress upon yourselves. Certainly, be proud of your accomplishments - you ...MoreLighten up... the two of you are both too young to place this kind of stress upon yourselves. Certainly, be proud of your accomplishments - you have earned it.
Working hard can be a "gift" that you offer to yourself. When viewed in this manner, hard work becomes a more pleasant experience. Think too, of all the people in the world who have never heard a kind word from their parents. It may help you appreciate your mother's pride, even if you are uncomfortable with her words.
And, since you both have made the choice to work hard, celebrate your achievement and be happy about it... and remember it is a gift that you have offered yourselves.
Peace,

77 weeks ago
Jessica Bahr: Luck happens when preparation and opportunity meet. It's not luck, its the reward for hard work.
69 weeks ago
 
TOP IDEA: Mike Ambassador Bruny Part of my leadership program involves reading books. The last book we read was "Tribes" by Seth Godin. I really like what this guy has to say and have been inspired to lead a Seth Godin Book Club starting Jan. 2011. We will read and discuss one of his books a month for the duration of the year. I wanted to send the first invitation to my Brazen Family to both join and help shape what it will look like. You in?

64 weeks ago from Boston, Book Shelf and Upstarts!1 more

Mike Ambassador Bruny: Jonette, it's not too late. April we are ready, "Purple Cow." Friend me on Facebook and I'll get you in the group.
44 weeks ago
Dawn Lennon: A terrific author to soak up: I heard Seth Godin speak at the launch of Linchpin. He was great and so is the book, just like Tribes. His daily ...MoreA terrific author to soak up: I heard Seth Godin speak at the launch of Linchpin. He was great and so is the book, just like Tribes. His daily blogs are also amazing and worth subscribing. Enjoy.
38 weeks ago
 
Monica Valentinelli Recommend me a book that helped you further your career. No title too small. No book too long. Just tell me why this book matters to you and what you hope I get out of it.

56 weeks ago from Productivity & Time-Management, Professional Development, Copywriters, Creative Writing and Professional Writers and Editors3 more

Jake Poinier: I echo Brett's comment. "Getting Things Done" is fantastic!
55 weeks ago
Cooper: I'm not a business type, but I think the only book anyone needs was written decades ago by Dale Carnegie " How to Win Friends & Influence ...MoreI'm not a business type, but I think the only book anyone needs was written decades ago by Dale Carnegie " How to Win Friends & Influence People". I was given this book by a friends father for graduation from high school. I kid you not. It's the only self help book I'll ever need.
55 weeks ago
 
Cameron Plommer What's your take on the fiscal crisis as a whole (national debt, social security, etc.)? Will anything change or can anything change for the better until we go bankrupt?

58 weeks ago from Economics and Finance

V. Holman: I agree with Steve! The Key is entrepreneurs believing in their business making a plan and executing it. This is the time!
57 weeks ago
Sam Rye: When the US has a Federal Reserve Bank lending money to the government with interest-owing, then the nation will always be running at a debt. ...MoreWhen the US has a Federal Reserve Bank lending money to the government with interest-owing, then the nation will always be running at a debt. Until the banking system is nationalised instead of privately owned (as is the case in many other countries) then as a country you will always be in the red.
57 weeks ago
 
Jessica Bahr Has anyone else used Contact Keepers? They have 8-1/2" x 11" pages which have a place for inserting business cards and medium size holders where the sheets hold the business card AND provide a place for notes. I think I'm in love with them, check them out! http://www.contactkeeper.com/

58 weeks ago

 
Jessica Bahr I have to say, for the first time I experienced a problem with tattoo's in the workplace. Not mine, but a co-workers. We work in a corporate business casual setting. A female co-worker has a tattoo on her chest and intentionally wears low cut shirts positioning it so half the tattoo is showing. She said it was so people wonder what the other half was, and therefore wonder about her shirtless. She's an intern and I'd like to point out it is going to hurt her professionally, but not sure how to.

84 weeks ago from The tattooed professional!

Jessica Bahr: She is still employed, but moved to a cube which is not on the main walk way where she was before. I am not sure if anyone has said something to ...MoreShe is still employed, but moved to a cube which is not on the main walk way where she was before. I am not sure if anyone has said something to her, but her work is satisfactory so I don't think much will happen.
69 weeks ago
Brittany Thompson: Wow, and here I have been carefully choosing my clothes and wearing my hair down so I don't have to fret about whether or not my back piece is ...MoreWow, and here I have been carefully choosing my clothes and wearing my hair down so I don't have to fret about whether or not my back piece is peaking up from behind my collar during the work day! Here's the part about your coworker that concerns me. It's not the tattoo. It's not the location of the tattoo. It's the statement she made about getting a tattoo on her chest so "people wonder about her shirtless." It's the fact that she made that comment to someone she works with (and I'm assuming she said it while she was at work?) And it also should be a red flag that she is wearing low-cut shirts, to further illustrate that she has a tattoo there (and presumably, to make coworkers wonder about her shirtless...)

If that's the case, her actions and comments in a work environment are not very work appropriate, even if the quality of her work is good.

It's so hard when you work with someone who is doing things that could interfere with their career or doing things that border on HR violations in the workplace. Then you have the internal struggle over whether or not to approach the person about it. Sometimes, I've found that it's actually easier to approach people about these issues if you are supervising rather than just working with them. Not because of power or authority but because they sometimes are more receptive. (It also depends on your approach and the level of rapport and mutual respect, though.)

In this case, it doesn't sound like you were close to this person or that you were her supervisor/manager, and now that she's moved elsewhere and is continuing to produce quality work, maybe it's not an issue anymore. I do know for a fact though that there would be many companies that would see red flags in her behavior, so hopefully she'll correct it before it hurts her down the road.

59 weeks ago
 
Jim Parker "You're overqualified." A sizable number of people applying for jobs have heard recruiters or potential employers say that to their face. Is this another way of saying you didn't get the job, is it factually correct, or an opportunity for you to adjust the conversation with the recruiter? What are your thoughts? If you have an example of a comment that caught you off guard (so others can be prepared) or how you responded and had a positive response, please share it with the group. Thanks.

60 weeks ago from Recruiters Unite!

Jessica Bahr: I've been told I was overqualified before. I had a few friends at the company and they clarified that the hiring manager thought I would be a ...MoreI've been told I was overqualified before. I had a few friends at the company and they clarified that the hiring manager thought I would be a threat to his job.

On the other side of the recruitment table, if you have an applicant who is overqualified for the position they may find the work to be uninteresting or mundane and not be satisfied in the position. Would a former CEO find working as cashier challenging and fulfilling? Probably not.

60 weeks ago
Bee: "You're overqualified" is used in the HR community as a "nice way" of telling you they don't have the $ they think you deserve to be paid and this ...More"You're overqualified" is used in the HR community as a "nice way" of telling you they don't have the $ they think you deserve to be paid and this is their way out. They forsee that you (as overqualified) would be bored with the job soon and leave, taking with you their valuable training. They are not playing hard to get. In Recruiter world this means the recruiter isn't really doing their job right. In Recruiter/Job Headhunter World it is their ultimate goal to get people into jobs and get excellent people into excellent jobs. Excellent recruiters know that skills can be transfered, skills can be taught but achievement, past history or successes and attitude can not be taught. They want people in jobs, and so do the employers who trust them to do the job. I used to get that ALOT. I had international experience, a job that travelled a lot, and a shiney new masters degree. And I wanted to move to a smaller town to be closer to friends and family. It was really rude at first, then I learned from an HR friend what "you're overqualified" means in HR lingo. I'd take it up a notch. And ask to arrange a meeting with the manager (not just HR) and have an informational interview. Managers have power even HR can't touch. And then sell yourself to that Manager. Write a new cover letter stating why you may be overqualified, but that you are perfectly qualified. You dis-arm them with rationality. What they see as "Too quaified" you then (at the second meeting) spin in your favor. And charm them with why you love their company and why this job is your dream job and is your ideal. And if that doesn't happen and you really really want that job, woo the next level up. Go to corporate. Send a letter to the site, the HR mgr eho told you this, the Mgr who passed you over and then charm the next level up.
Its also good to remember that today 30 people are applying for unadvertised jobs and over 50 apps are likely coming in for EACH single advertised job. So you have to find a way to stand out.
Sometimes "You're overqualified is legit." You may exceed their hiring expectations, but today that can be seen as a risk factor. But if, like me, you really wanted an opportunity in a smaller town because of quality of life issues that does NOT read on an application and may not be heard by HR. But if you are passionate about using your skills and talents -- you almost have to date the company you want to hire you. Be a stand out. They want to see WHY you want to work for them, not just that you (like dozens of others have a nice list of accomplishments under your name). Why you? Why this job? HR is afraid that great skills mean extra $$, but its up to you to show them that its not about the $$ (I know I know) but about loyalty to their company and that you want to be there long term. They know they can train anyone. But its tough out there. And rejection smarts. Actors are told they are a dime a dozen and they show up for "cattle calls." That same is now happening at "real jobs." And sometimes you will just never know the real reason why you are turned down. But if you want a job, go past the recruiter. Establish a relationship with management.
Think of it this way:
Would you rather have a job where TrumpHR pciked you out of a pile of people, or would you rather invest the time and energy to create a first name basis with Mr Trump himself and get a job that way?
The relationship building, it is the new hiring process.
Gramma always said "Its not what you know, honey, its who you know." It was true in 1910, 1930, 1960 and even more so today.
Best of luck! There are job out there that LOVE if you are overqualified. They LOVE the assests and experiences and education you bring to that role. And if you are overqualified a lot -- consider becoming an entrepreneur with your skillset and get paid like the expert you are. Don't give up hope!! {Whew!}

60 weeks ago
 
ken Just wanted to introduce myself. I've been on a mission since 2002 to help twenty-somethings NOT to go crazy (concerning career, parents, & love). My twenties were really hard. I wrote my first book in 2002, Real Life Notes, and a new one that came out this year, Higher Education: On Life, Landing a Job, and Everything Else They Didn't Teach You in College. (Rodale.) The book site is www.higheredgradbook.com and a TV clip. http://bit.ly/alaW83 There IS life after the 20's, in ways happier too

60 weeks ago from Book Shelf

 
Jessica Bahr created the group Book Shelf

140 weeks ago

 
Jessica Bahr I tried to send out a message in regards to the list of Brazen Careerist authors, and for some reason I kept getting an error message, so I posted the list under group description. If there are any missing please let me know!

69 weeks ago from Book Shelf

Rebecca Thorman: Dr Woody (Mike Woodward) just came out with a book - MoreDr Woody (Mike Woodward) just came out with a book - http://www.amazon.com/YOU-Plan-5-Step-Taking-Economy/dp/1599321750/ref=s...
69 weeks ago
ken: Me.
60 weeks ago
Aaron King: After reading your post, I would try to observe some of the intances that you mentioned in our company, the Debt Management. Thanks for sharing ...MoreAfter reading your post, I would try to observe some of the intances that you mentioned in our company, the Debt Management. Thanks for sharing this. I will share later how the reverse ageism look like here.

62 weeks ago
Aaron Evans: Hi Ashley,

I enjoyed your post thoroughly about the stereotypes and misconceptions that us older people have towards the younger ...More
Hi Ashley,

I enjoyed your post thoroughly about the stereotypes and misconceptions that us older people have towards the younger generations.

Those stereotypes have been used on me when I was in my 20's, or at least I felt the same frustration you feel. I think experience is what you actually experience or learn about, right? I think it is safe to say that todays young people have an opportunity to learn much more faster, and thus experience more at an earlier age. With so much interconnected now, I think this is very true.

The one thing I would like young people to harness and talk about more, is their passion and emotion! I see a passion, and a connectedness (is that a word?) with their surroundings, and the surroundings of others throughout the community that I have never seen in my generation or others. This is a very good thing! I think when people harness this passion, and this urge to do what is right for everyone on the planet, good things will happen for our planet and for the people and resources on the planet.

To all Gen Xers Yers and all others, let's focus more on what is our passion, and less about what pays the bills. If we do what we are passionate about, the bills will be paid eventually. I am just dissapointed in myself, that it has taken me so many years to understand this.

Great post, I hope to read more.

All the best,
Aaron

62 weeks ago
 
Jessica Bahr I've spent the last week knocked out on pain meds after an unfortunate root-canal complication; I feel like I've been offline for a year.

62 weeks ago

 
Jessica Bahr I am sitting at home; this is the second sick day I have taken all year. I feel so unproductive. Do you ever feel that way?

64 weeks ago

 
Scott Messinger The Walking Dead: Anyone seen this yet? I've seen the first episode...Looks promising!

64 weeks ago from Science Fiction & Fantasy

Jessica Bahr: It got signed on for a second season after the second episode. It is getting great ratings!
64 weeks ago
 
Jessica Bahr Recreated Blog, feedback anyone? It is populated with old posts, www.badpecan.com

66 weeks ago

 
Jessica Bahr Whenever I don't dress up for Halloween people think my costume is a nerd, so I should probably figure out what I'm going to wear this weekend, or just take advantage of the costume I naturally have.

67 weeks ago

 
Dan Schawbel I just spoke with Marcus Buckingham on the phone and asked him about work/life balance. His answer was the best I've heard to do. He said that balance is impossible to maintain so we should strive to be fulfilled instead.

68 weeks ago from Personal Branding, Boston and Upstarts!1 more

Oluwatosin: It all comes down to individual Priorities,thats when we can define our level of fufilment...one can only find balance in fufilment not the other ...MoreIt all comes down to individual Priorities,thats when we can define our level of fufilment...one can only find balance in fufilment not the other way round...i think the best is to be fufilled which springs up happiness and leads to success...Work fufilment and Home fufilment then a balance would be reach at the long run.
68 weeks ago
Lindsey Donner: Funny, I never thought of the two as being mutually exclusive to begin with. When I think about "work/life balance," for example, a slightly tired ...MoreFunny, I never thought of the two as being mutually exclusive to begin with. When I think about "work/life balance," for example, a slightly tired buzz phrase, I tend to imagine continuously adding and subtracting weight-- an active process, not passively waiting for one arm to drop lower. Know what I mean? Fulfillment or satisfaction being the end goal.

What's more, "balance" will be different for different people. My fulfilling mix of personal, work, and alone time might seem unusual, but it's the mix I have to keep juggling.

Hmm. Juggling is a better metaphor, maybe?

68 weeks ago
 
Julia Kious Zabell If you could get training on becoming an exceptional Gen Y leader and/or entrepreneur: 1) What would you want to be included (anything!)? 2) How would it be different than other leadership/business trainings? 3) What is your preferred format if it was online (video, articles, etc)? 4) Would you prefer to hear from other Gen Yer's who have been successful or authorities in the field regardless of age? Am looking into creating some great stuff and really want to know WHAT YOU WANT!

70 weeks ago from Ask A Coach, Entrepreneurs, Inspiring Leadership, Personal Development and Young Professional Women (YPW)3 more

Josh Allan Dykstra: @Bryon - that sounds like fascinating research. Can you share anything more about the study?
69 weeks ago
Bryon Ownby: Yes @Josh, the study indicated that for CEO's one of their top concerns was about markets. As for those GenY coming out of B-schools, the focus ...MoreYes @Josh, the study indicated that for CEO's one of their top concerns was about markets. As for those GenY coming out of B-schools, the focus was more of globization and being a responsible global citizen. To me, there is nothing wrong with generation gaps and generation differences...as long as we are open to learn from each other and take the time to understand. To me, true leadership comes from being able to manage people differences to where they are an assset to a project or a goal, not a killer.
68 weeks ago
 
Jessica Bahr I will talking to a group of college students next week about the benefits of participating in a co-op/internship. Any ideas of what I should include?

69 weeks ago from Ask A Coach, Career Rocketeer, Career Services Professionals, Corporate Talent Acquisition and Future Leaders3 more

Rebecca Thorman: Real-world experience! Ability to start practicing your people skills, which are the most important in any position. Potential to transfer to a ...MoreReal-world experience! Ability to start practicing your people skills, which are the most important in any position. Potential to transfer to a full-time position. Good luck - have fun!
69 weeks ago
 
Tony Forte Any dress sock enthusiast out there? Or accessory fanatics? What brand of socks or accessories do you prefer?

76 weeks ago from Dress Code Personal Style

Michael Scott: I am a budding dress sock lover. I have some polo dress socks which are killer. I'm a fan of argyle as well. Dress socks are quite possibly the ...MoreI am a budding dress sock lover. I have some polo dress socks which are killer. I'm a fan of argyle as well. Dress socks are quite possibly the best way to set yourself above the rest.
69 weeks ago
Jessica Bahr: Golden Toe socks, I swear by them. They are amazing. Even after thirty washes they still feel wonderful.
69 weeks ago
 
Jessica Bahr I will talking to a group of college students next week about the benefits of participating in a co-op/internship. Any ideas of what I should include?

69 weeks ago from Interns

Kieran Stanley: Dave,

Do you know of a resource where students can find out about virtual internships? I've had a quick look at youturn but haven't seen a ...More
Dave,

Do you know of a resource where students can find out about virtual internships? I've had a quick look at youturn but haven't seen a section specifically for virtual internships.

69 weeks ago
Hannah Kane: Definitely, definitely mention that an internship loses a lot of its value if you lose touch with the organization afterwards. I had a phenomenal ...MoreDefinitely, definitely mention that an internship loses a lot of its value if you lose touch with the organization afterwards. I had a phenomenal internship experience the summer after my sophomore year, but then lost touch with the organization, and while it was a nice spot on my resume, it didn't help me create connections that I later on realized are so important.
69 weeks ago
 
Dr. Woody Is "unplugging" important? Have we lost the ability to truly unplug and get away for even just a few hours? Great NYT article on unplugging and psychological health: http://ow.ly/2ADTl

74 weeks ago from Entrepreneurs, Work/Life Blur, Recruiters Unite!, Human Resources and JobSTART 1013 more

Jessica Bahr: I unplugged for three months, while it was refreshing and let me get a better grasp on my schedule, I feel like I missed so much!
70 weeks ago
Ryan Jason Mendoza: I also unplugged for about a month or so but when I got back, I felt like I had to relearn everything I got so used to doing
69 weeks ago
 
Jenn Pedde We will be introducing (yet another) brand new chat... Tuesday's 2-3pm starting October 12th called #MoveChat. It will serve as a community for anyone moving/relocating for work, fun, travel, etc. Will be a place for people to discuss experiences, resources, or questions about upcoming moves. We welcome moving companies/relocation services to provide guidance, & anyone moving who needs resources.

70 weeks ago from Relocation, Human Resources, Career Rocketeer, Brazen Careerists on Twitter and Global Careers and Business3 more

Dr. Woody: Cool idea!
70 weeks ago
Elysa Rice: sounds fun! I passed this along to a friend I know who is looking to relocate soon
69 weeks ago
Interests
blogging, building social capital, networking, boating, trivia, darts, being nerdy.
Goals
  1. Learn five languages (2.5 more to go)
  2. Start my own company
  3. Grow my own pop corn
  4. Write a book
  5. Mentor someone
Favorite Quote
"What you learn when you're young you use when you're old" -Romani proverb
Specialties
I make an amazing Parmesan Chicken.

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