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Ryan Paugh Hey guys -- I'm heading to Cape Cod on Saturday but not before I have a quick lunch in Boston to show my girlfriend around the city. I'd eventually love to live in Boston someday and I want to convince her to come with me. If I only have a 2-hour window to show her around what would you recommend that I do?

92 weeks ago from Beantown Bloggers and Boston

Michael E Cantone: Take a walk through the Boston Commons & Garden, relax.
91 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh: Thanks for all of the tips you guys. I ended up not having a ton of time in Boston so we went to Quincy Market and hit up the Oyster House for ...MoreThanks for all of the tips you guys. I ended up not having a ton of time in Boston so we went to Quincy Market and hit up the Oyster House for dinner. It ended up being great because there was a lot of different things going on and my girlfriend loved it.

I'm definitely going to try to come back out to Boston soon to visit some friends and get my girlfriend acquainted with the softer side of Boston. Quincy Market wouldn't be one of our normal hangouts if I lived out there.

Any ideas?

90 weeks ago
 
Kim Luu Cheating is everywhere. What happened to true personal pride? I saw an interview with students regarding the Florida business school cheating scandal. Students were saying that cheating is normal in life and everyone cheated at the school. They felt that highlighting cheaters and punishing them is just a witch hunt. I thought it was rather sad that holding someone to a basic standard is now considered to be bullying. Do you set a higher standard for yourself than the world demands?

79 weeks ago from Work/Life Blur, Entrepreneurs, Economics and Finance and Blogging Ideas2 more

: ISTM, the article Jeremy points to fully validates my point. If the article is accurate (you never know), the students were using ...MoreISTM, the article Jeremy points to fully validates my point. If the article is accurate (you never know), the students were using publicly-available material to prepare for an exam, without warning not to. This is, to use Ioannis's definition, not "dishonest". They were just trying harder. Yes, they obtained an advantage. Good for them. People who try harder *should* obtain an advantage.

If you didn't think of this for yourself, you would probably feel bad. Accusing people of wrongdoing, because they thought of a way to achieve that you didn't, is a gross misuse of the word "cheating". It's also a common use. As Jeremy notes, people will often accuse others of "cheating" just because the alleged cheater had an advantage they didn't think of. Claiming that advantage was unfair or "dishonest" is just a way to reduce the playing field to the lowest of the low.

Ioannis: I see you as the police officer. Good is good; bad is bad; good people are good people; bad people are bad people, and there can never be any blurring of the lines or crossing thereover. As you can tell, I think you're wrong. I also think history shows you are wrong: the 6 shelves of my (tiny) law library, and the 300,000 volumes of my law school library, show that life is never so simple.

My job (I'm an attorney, and I have 25 years experience) involves frequent accusations of nearly criminal behavior by people who really were only (1) skirting the line, (2) merely in error, or even (3) not paying attention. The distinction between "right" and "wrong", at least in the realm of human behavior, is quite grey. Human acts are not engineering.

Moreover, when two parties (or institutions) have a fuzzy line drawn between them, it is in both of their interests to take actions to see if the line was really crossed. You can see this frequently yourself in what people deduct on their taxes, on what is allowed in antitrust law, in what is considered a "reasonable" search or "reasonable" use of force, and at least 100 other examples. See, e.g., International Conflict for Beginners (Roger Fisher).

And Ioannis, your definition, while appearing clear, includes many hidden normative statements which allow the accuser to include legally and morally correct behavior within "cheating". Just what does *dishonest* mean, for example? As Jeremy points out, much "dishonest" behavior serves a higher cause. And I will point out that quite often, "dishonest" behavior is merely dishonest in the ear of the listener.

As an amusing grace note on this, I note a religious interpretation I find hilarious in its effort to reconcile honesty with social peace. It is a commonplace to say on a wedding day that "the bride is beautiful". But this is not always factually so. Accordingly, at least one school of thought declares that, on their wedding day, *all* brides are beautiful, just for being brides. Now, who is being dishonest here?

74 weeks ago
Ioannis Kremezis: A classical definition of "cheating" and wishful thinking!!!
You have understood wrongly my thinking.
@Jeremy: "Also that definition..." I didn't ...More
A classical definition of "cheating" and wishful thinking!!!
You have understood wrongly my thinking.
@Jeremy: "Also that definition..." I didn't mean that. You apply totally wrong and see everyone as a cheater.
@Steven: I don't see everything as on/off but you forget that on/off also exists between many levels of grey.
"My job.." and "Moreover,..." paragraphs are the bitter reality.
"And Ioannis..." paragraph I didn't make any law and any accuser. In order to be precise I use a dictionary meaning.
Another difficult choice among grey zone:
Who is the bad guy, the one with good purpose and bad manner or the one with bad purpose and good manner?
As an another attorney said: There are people like angels with dark secrets and people like devils who sometimes act in a honest way.

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Jamie Nacht Farrell On the wordpress.com platform, where can I find the list of people who subscribe to my blog? I used to have it and now can't find it; drawing a blank. Pls advise ( ;

75 weeks ago from Wordpress Bloggers

Latoya J. Williams: Jamie, I spent a day on wordpress.com. Then I got my own hosting of Wordpress through Godaddy. I've been building and managing websites for the ...MoreJamie, I spent a day on wordpress.com. Then I got my own hosting of Wordpress through Godaddy. I've been building and managing websites for the past 11 years for clients. So, I wanted more flexibility with my own hosting.

I still have my Wordpress.com account. I did a quick search and found this link:
http://en.support.wordpress.com/blog-subscriptions/#troubleshooting . This page has a link to "Manage Blog Subscriptions and "Subscription Settings." Hopefully, one of those areas is what you're looking to find. Also, here's a general page about the blog subscription widget: http://en.support.wordpress.com/widgets/blog-subscription-widget/

74 weeks ago
Latoya J. Williams: Jaime, It looks like subscribers are listed under the "Site Stats" section in the Dashboard area of the left-nav panel as shown on this page: MoreJaime, It looks like subscribers are listed under the "Site Stats" section in the Dashboard area of the left-nav panel as shown on this page: http://en.support.wordpress.com/blog-subscriptions/

74 weeks ago
 
Jamie Nacht Farrell I just got the offer I've wanted 4ever-2 investors willing to financially back my business model; in location of my choice. This would mean me being CEO of a 100 person, $70 million / year organization. That said, I'm hesitant to accept; and don't know WHY. My GUT has never steered me wrong b4, but I'm wondering if fear can hamper your "gut" instinct? Any opinions / experience with this? For some reason, I'm not ECSATIC like I've been every other time I've been offered a role in a start up

76 weeks ago from I am Gen Y, Inspiring Leadership, Creating a Life You Love, Ask Penelope Trunk! and Entrepreneurs3 more

Aaron Evans: @Jamie: That is SanFrantastic! Best of both worlds I guess. You can still boast about the your awesomeness, and not have to waste anymore effort ...More@Jamie: That is SanFrantastic! Best of both worlds I guess. You can still boast about the your awesomeness, and not have to waste anymore effort on the worry and stress! Congratulations once again!

Aaron

76 weeks ago
Spencer Harding: A good friend of mine is often reminding me that fear and excitement feel exactly the same. Something worth keeping in mind.

Otherwise, I suppose ...More
A good friend of mine is often reminding me that fear and excitement feel exactly the same. Something worth keeping in mind.

Otherwise, I suppose I would suggest you write out a list of the pros and cons of accepting the offer, to help you get perspective.

76 weeks ago
 
Beatriz Alemar What are THE 3 blogs you would recommend to anyone? They can cover any topic. Can't wait to read your recommendations! Mine: Spin Sucks - www.spinsucks.com Life After College - www.lifeaftercollege.org Nerd Fitness - www.nerdfitness.com

77 weeks ago from I am Gen Y and Social Media

Michael E Cantone: Those are 3 great choices! My 2 top choices are Seth Godin who is #1 in my eye and Chris Brogan who is actually #!.
77 weeks ago
Michael Dvorscak: The few blogs, I read are the few I would recommend. My selections are HR Capitalist by Kris Dunn. The blog focuses on Human Resources. The blogs ...MoreThe few blogs, I read are the few I would recommend. My selections are HR Capitalist by Kris Dunn. The blog focuses on Human Resources. The blogs at Harvard Business Review (HBR). The HBR blogs have to be some of the best writing on management, personal development, strategy etc. out there. If you are not reading their blogs, you should be! Once in a while, I check out 37 signals.


77 weeks ago
 
Mehnaz Thawer Hey Ryans: Wondering if there is any way that Brazen can notify you when you sign on to see who has become a fan since the last time. I get the email notifications and sometimes have to click through each email to become a fan of people that have added me. A Facebook-type "notification" system might make that easier. Just a thought.

79 weeks ago from Brazen Community Feedback

Michael E Cantone: Thanks for paying attention and helping me out I know your busy.
79 weeks ago
Mehnaz Thawer: Ryan - that's a good temp fix for sure....something to close the gap...mine seems to be growing bigger :)
79 weeks ago
 
Alexandra Levit If you could choose one workplace skill you wish you'd learned while you were in college, what would it be?

81 weeks ago from JobSTART 101

Brett Kunsch: I wish I had learned that doing the uncomfortable was the best pathway to becoming indispensable. Doing the tough things no one wants to do (or ...MoreI wish I had learned that doing the uncomfortable was the best pathway to becoming indispensable. Doing the tough things no one wants to do (or doesn't think to do because it's "outside of their job description") secures your place in the workplace, and leads to great possibilities and fulfillment. The BA or MA doesn't teach that.
81 weeks ago
Alexandra Levit: These are really cool responses, guys. Thanks so much!
80 weeks ago
 
Chris Parker I am currently working with Ex-Offenders. I was hoping to hear from others why if an ex-offender has paid their due, gone to classes or treatment that no one will hire them. What does everyone think? Are there places that will hire these individuals and that do not have a Bias against individuals who have made a mistake and paid their due?

82 weeks ago from The Career Hot Seat! and Job Resources and Career Coaching

Chris Parker: Bonnie, I agree but I am even talking about Janitorial positions or some positions that others might not want. I realize that the economy has a ...MoreBonnie, I agree but I am even talking about Janitorial positions or some positions that others might not want. I realize that the economy has a lot to do with things also, I just keep running into a lot of Bias when trying to help my participants.

Rebecca I posted it there, thanks for the link up.

Jason that is a good link I have one to share from my area also.
http://www.louisvillereentry.org/

82 weeks ago
Chris Parker: Jason, I love the site, but since there is a lot of Bias there are not many if any at all programs that are transitional to work programs because ...MoreJason, I love the site, but since there is a lot of Bias there are not many if any at all programs that are transitional to work programs because no one wants to put the funds into it so learning a trade is a bit harder.
82 weeks ago
 
TOP IDEA: Elysa Rice with over 400 comments this post is a must read & is likely to inspire action from you! -- Things I Don’t Have to Think About Today http://dlvr.it/7HVg3

83 weeks ago from Young Professional Women (YPW), Creating a Life You Love and Creatively Inspired1 more

Michael E Cantone: I'm so lucky to have that parking spot next to the door? I love when folks say that to me.

When I was younger and still on crutches I use to ...More
I'm so lucky to have that parking spot next to the door? I love when folks say that to me.

When I was younger and still on crutches I use to get pissed when people held a door for me now I'm pissed that no one dose.

I have to park in the HP parking when I take my wife shopping because people get pissed when I use their spot.

I get the dirty looks because I don't have that placard that 9 out 0f 10 folks don't really need. (Then they see the license plate)

83 weeks ago
Elysa Rice: sometimes all it takes is something so simple, yet so obvious to pull on your heart strings
82 weeks ago
 
Amy Pschierer Does having knowledge = power? Or does action based upon knowledge = power? What are your thoughts? http://amypschierer.wordpress.com

84 weeks ago from Blogging Ideas and Creating a Life You Love

Amy Pschierer: Linda, well said!
"One must have knowledge to gain power, but that knowledge will lead to actions that will bring the power." I agree whole ...More
Linda, well said!
"One must have knowledge to gain power, but that knowledge will lead to actions that will bring the power." I agree whole heartedly.
My thoughts are that both knowledge and action are needed for power. Knowledge is necessary and important for power gain, but is it enough without action taken?
Michael, I will respond to your comment on the blog.
Thank you for the responses.

84 weeks ago
Art: Knowledge by itself does not do anything, some kind of action is required
84 weeks ago
 
Michael E Cantone I'm being denied access anyone know what is going on?

84 weeks ago

 
Michael E Cantone I'm being denied access anyone know what is going on?

84 weeks ago

 
Ryan Paugh Who is attending our Network Roulette event tonight for bloggers? What types of people are you hoping you get a chance to connect with? Developers? Editors? Inspirational people? What kind of person do you need in your life right now to help you grow as a blogger?

85 weeks ago from Blogging Ideas, Blogging, Brazen Bloggers, Wordpress Bloggers and Brazen Community Feedback3 more

Jamie Giedinghagen: I got connected to myself a lot. I guess we have a lot in common! :)
85 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh: Thanks again to everyone who showed up for our Network Roulette beta last night. We're already working on improving the feature thanks to all of ...MoreThanks again to everyone who showed up for our Network Roulette beta last night. We're already working on improving the feature thanks to all of the great feedback we received. If you didn't get to fill out our survey we would still love to hear from you. Here's a link: http://bit.ly/cvIDP5
85 weeks ago
 
Ryan Paugh I just realized how much meat I have accumulated in my freezer from the farmers market this year. I need to start doing something with it all. So as I pull out something new to defrost I'm going to ask you guys what you think I should do with it. For tonight I'm defrosting sweet sausage. Send me ideas, links, recipes, etc. I gotta use this meat!

85 weeks ago from Brazen Foodies and I Love to Cook!

Ryan Paugh: Just wanted to let you guys know that the recipe I mentioned above was freaking awesome! It calls for roasted red peppers. I decided to roast my ...MoreJust wanted to let you guys know that the recipe I mentioned above was freaking awesome! It calls for roasted red peppers. I decided to roast my own as opposed to buying them. Never done that before and it was easier than I thought. Give it a try sometime. Also, I have more meat in my fridge and I need to cook it, so I'll be posting here again soon. Thanks for supporting the Empty Ryan's Freezer Project :)
85 weeks ago
Sean Masters: Sounds like yet another network to me, Ryan ;)
85 weeks ago
 
Ryan Paugh If we held a Network Roulette event during the day, who would come? We haven't scheduled a daytime event yet because we're scared nobody will be able to make it. So prove me wrong. Would you be able to make a Network Roulette daytime session?

85 weeks ago from Brazen Community Feedback and Networking Tips

Jessica Bahr: If it was during a lunch time period I would totally do it!
85 weeks ago
Michael E Cantone: It would be preferred.
85 weeks ago
 
Tyler Durbin I guarantee this is something us Gen-Y's never even think of: Disability Insurance. (Don't stop reading yet!) We feel untouchable when it comes to injury & sickness and thus have no desire to invest in disability insurance..But man..wonder if something DOES happen? How are you going to pay your bills if you can't work? ...including the medical bills you just incurred. Here's some great advice to get you thinking about disability insurance and how important it really is: http://ow.ly/2PfWg

85 weeks ago from GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals

Tyler Durbin: Absolutely...I think many things we learn is a function of our environment.

I was lucky that when I joined my organization that about a month ...More
Absolutely...I think many things we learn is a function of our environment.

I was lucky that when I joined my organization that about a month later the HR Services Provider for the company came in and did a half-day seminar on our benefits, options, answered questions, etc. That was huge.

It's also helped that I have made friends that are financial planner who have been able to hit home the important of things like insurance.

85 weeks ago
Michael E Cantone: I had a disability from having polio as an 13 month old infant. I had a desire to keep going anyway my whole life. What I'm saying here is if ...MoreI had a disability from having polio as an 13 month old infant. I had a desire to keep going anyway my whole life. What I'm saying here is if the job is not physical and you are talking a temporary disability just take it easy and go back to work. If it is worse, then remember if you pay taxes you have SSDI. I worked in a factory for 23 years, slipped and fell then they laid me off soon after that but I found more money being a temp using my wife's health insurance. If where your working has no insurance then find another job that does. No matter how great or healthy a person thinks they are eventually they will go down. Your employer having insurance for you is not lucky it is the LAW.
85 weeks ago
 
Michael E Cantone Can't wait to change to my October head shot. Do not let it scare or scar you just remember to appreciate your life.

86 weeks ago

 
Michael E Cantone Not one email from BC?

87 weeks ago

 
TOP IDEA: Michael E Cantone All Aboard! Just to let you know how I built my list here on BC. Everyday, because of all of the networks I signed up for, anyone who has anything to say there's an email with your name on it in my email box which I do read. I then become your fan if I already know and follow I delete after reading your stuff if not I save you in my BC box. When you get a chance check this out it's a little rough around the edges but get back to me http://route66boston.blogspot.com/ I be on the road for 3 weeks.

102 weeks ago

Jerry Clifford, Word Guru: After enjoyably perusing your "About Me", I arrived at the shocking realization of how I tenuously exist in mortal fear of misspelling werds, ...MoreAfter enjoyably perusing your "About Me", I arrived at the shocking realization of how I tenuously exist in mortal fear of misspelling werds, feloniously grammar committing, and most paramount, that I must scrap my black turtleneck & suede elbow patched sports coat.

Best regards,
Jerry, the Word Guru...

96 weeks ago
Marie Kazalia: You blog reminds me of many road trips! I am your first follower! (after you).
I have a blog Artist Marketing Resources More
You blog reminds me of many road trips! I am your first follower! (after you).
I have a blog Artist Marketing Resources http://ArtistMarketingSalon.wordpress.com

Will you support my project?:

http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/2146291558/painting-series-to-comple...

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90 weeks ago

 
Erica Ruedas Why networking is important to the professional belly dancer, and how to do it: http://bellydancingdiva.com/2010/06/bellydance-networking-101/

94 weeks ago

 
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92 weeks ago

 
Sid Trying to get back in the Web Dev game. Have people who want simple sites done, my graphic skills lack. Tips on where I should start at? Utilize templates? Learn specific languages? Photoshop tutorials? Point me in the right direction!

93 weeks ago from Web Development

Elisabeth Ericson: I'm not a professional, so take this for what it's worth, but in my experience graphics skills are more about vision and aesthetics than they're ...MoreI'm not a professional, so take this for what it's worth, but in my experience graphics skills are more about vision and aesthetics than they're about technical expertise. So my advice would be to look at sites (or even artwork, architecture, nature, whatever inspires you) and take note of what you find visually appealing, then figure out what's attractive about it. When you know what you want your designs to look like, experiment with the software to see how you can achieve it, and search for specific tutorials when you get stuck or if you need a particular effect.

Sounds a bit fuzzy, I know, but "training your eye for what looks good" and "practice" are the best tools I can recommend.

93 weeks ago
Jenna Tollerson: I know this might not be what your are looking for but after years of trying to get better at graphics I sought out and found a fantastic ...MoreI know this might not be what your are looking for but after years of trying to get better at graphics I sought out and found a fantastic freelancer to send my graphics work to. Now I just send him everything and no more worries. I get back PSDs that I slice up and turn into fancy websites.
93 weeks ago

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