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Rebecca Thorman
I want to learn PHP, AJAX and how to build a CMS. How do I go about it? While I am familiar with code from my blog, I would like links to straight-up beginner resources. How do I set up a coding environment on my computer? What are the best tutorials and resources or even classes available on the web? Thanks in advance...
67 weeks ago from PHP, Web Development, Drupal, Joomla! and User Experience3 more
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Rebecca Thorman:
@ Ted - Right now, I am making my way through the Head First book for PHP and MySql (think I'm on Chapter 5). I am using XAMPP as well, but only ...More@ Ted - Right now, I am making my way through the Head First book for PHP and MySql (think I'm on Chapter 5). I am using XAMPP as well, but only because the group recommended it and it ended up being easier than what the book suggested. I think the book is great and is very easy and clear - plus, there are lots of great online resources that align with each chapter. For me, I like being able to mark up the book as well. Hope that helps! After the Head First book, I also have a book called PHP and MySql for Web Devlelopment which is part of the Web Developers series. It looks pretty good, but certainly more advanced than the Head First book I'm doing now.
64 weeks ago
64 weeks ago
Ben Weller:
Rebecca,
I know I'm digging up an old thread here, but how has the experience of learning PHP & MySQL been treating you?
Once you've gotten ...MoreRebecca,
I know I'm digging up an old thread here, but how has the experience of learning PHP & MySQL been treating you?
Once you've gotten some experience with the basics, I'd recommend using that experience in a true LAMP stack.
There are 2 easy (easier...) ways to move in that direction:
- virtualize a LAMP server locally (using VirtualBox, Parallels, etc.), or
- set up a virtualized server through RackSpace, AWS, or similar.
If you're planning to stick with it, it is important to break away from the Windows-based stack. Linux-based stacks tend to be more performant and robust, and don't suffer with the issues inherent in the Windows-targeted implementation of PHP. It is very likely that any professional opportunities that you'll encounter will require LAMP experience over X/WAMP experience.
25 weeks ago
I know I'm digging up an old thread here, but how has the experience of learning PHP & MySQL been treating you?
Once you've gotten ...MoreRebecca,
I know I'm digging up an old thread here, but how has the experience of learning PHP & MySQL been treating you?
Once you've gotten some experience with the basics, I'd recommend using that experience in a true LAMP stack.
There are 2 easy (easier...) ways to move in that direction:
- virtualize a LAMP server locally (using VirtualBox, Parallels, etc.), or
- set up a virtualized server through RackSpace, AWS, or similar.
If you're planning to stick with it, it is important to break away from the Windows-based stack. Linux-based stacks tend to be more performant and robust, and don't suffer with the issues inherent in the Windows-targeted implementation of PHP. It is very likely that any professional opportunities that you'll encounter will require LAMP experience over X/WAMP experience.
25 weeks ago
Heather Gaona
I'm just returning to Civilian life after 8 years in the Army... and need help with the clothes! I was fashion-challenged before wearing a uniform every day. I work in a lab, so practical clothing is a must. At some point in any day I could be crawling under an instrument or climbing a step ladder. Jeans are widely accepted, but I worry I’ll look unprofessional. My biggest challenge is tops: I tend to prefer tshirts. I welcome your suggestions!
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Regina Richardson:
NY&Company has some really nice shawl-like cardigans, and cardigan/shell combos, as do many of the clothing stores right now. Easy-care, wash ...MoreNY&Company has some really nice shawl-like cardigans, and cardigan/shell combos, as do many of the clothing stores right now. Easy-care, wash and go... :)
26 weeks ago
26 weeks ago
kathy mcafee:
Heather, I recommend that you invest in working with an image consultant. Hire a qualified one to come and do a closet audit in your home. ...MoreHeather, I recommend that you invest in working with an image consultant. Hire a qualified one to come and do a closet audit in your home. Leverage their expertise to figure out what to keep, what to tailor and what to give away. AND....get their input on what wardrobe items you need to access in your new job/career path. Your professional image is part of your visual communication. I like to think we should all strive to present our best selves (authentic and polished). Good luck in your career transition. - Kathy
26 weeks ago
26 weeks ago
Megan Atkinson
I have a few questions during my attempt to integrate some things into my blogging adventure. Any Wordpress proficient Brazenites out there that speak fluent 'moron'ese? I really need some help/answers and the forums are a bit over my head. Please don't make me give you puppy dog eyes - it's been known to be fatal.
Megan Atkinson:
I think I got all straightened away between you wonderful folks. Thanks so much, especially to Mehul!
47 weeks ago
47 weeks ago
Matthew Everett:
Like Edward said, WP.com is pretty limited in what they let you do. Also, I agree with Kelly. GoDaddy just didn't do it for me as far as hosting ...MoreLike Edward said, WP.com is pretty limited in what they let you do. Also, I agree with Kelly. GoDaddy just didn't do it for me as far as hosting was concerned.
If you want a recommendation, I moved my sites to a Baby Plan on HostGator and I'm quite happy with it. It's much more flexible than my previous GoDaddy hosting and cheaper. It does add-on domains and supports a lot of popular software like Wordpress and Drupal.
I set up a 25% off coupon for interested parties. Just enter BCGET25OFF on step 1.
47 weeks ago
If you want a recommendation, I moved my sites to a Baby Plan on HostGator and I'm quite happy with it. It's much more flexible than my previous GoDaddy hosting and cheaper. It does add-on domains and supports a lot of popular software like Wordpress and Drupal.
I set up a 25% off coupon for interested parties. Just enter BCGET25OFF on step 1.
47 weeks ago
Virginia Merritt
It's FRIDAY! Meaning Happy Hour! What are your fave spots to unwind in your town? Mine? Nobel Experiment in San Diego (http://tinyurl.com/yf3bn7p)
I mean who doesn't love a hidden speak easy in a bar that you have to go to through a secret door to get to, has gold skulls on the walls, and makes some mean REAL cocktails?! Call for reservations if more than 2 people; it's small but delightful! Tell Anthony Gin sent you!
Kelly Seiler:
Have you checked out Prohibition? MoreHave you checked out Prohibition? http://www.prohibitionsd.com/ It's hidden in the middle of the Gaslamp. Good atmostphere until it gets busy!
93 weeks ago
93 weeks ago
Dana Leavy
I often hear from people about different side ventures they've started in addition to their full time jobs as financial safety nets. It's hard to trust in the "stability" of a full time job anymore. Myself included, some are going the way of self-employment, or creating additional income opportunities for themselves for more stability. If you're one of those people, what's worked for you? Some additional thoughts in a recent article I wrote: http://aspyresolutions.com/2011/08/career-stability/
39 weeks ago from Creating a Life You Love, Advertising Professionals, Brazen Careerists in New York City, Career Changers and Entrepreneurs3 more
Shelly Pleasant:
In addition to a full time job, I also started 2 side businesses. My motivation however was not stability it was being able to control my own ...MoreIn addition to a full time job, I also started 2 side businesses. My motivation however was not stability it was being able to control my own future and the future of my children. I was finding it increasingly difficult to be available for my family while working in "corporate america". Now, my businesses take a lot of work and time, however I can work at times that work for my family. Often I am doing things at midnight, but I would rather do that then punch a clock at a 9-5. Im glad I made the choices that I did, it has worked out and benefited me in more ways than one
38 weeks ago
38 weeks ago
Dana Leavy:
@Stephey - that is GREAT advice! Sometimes entrepreneurs, or even non-entrepreneurs, don't understand or have that confidence around what it is ...More@Stephey - that is GREAT advice! Sometimes entrepreneurs, or even non-entrepreneurs, don't understand or have that confidence around what it is they do, what they can bring to the table for the audience they're trying to reach. It's something you struggle with initially going into business for yourself, in particular. But once you really tap into that it's invaluable. Thanks!
38 weeks ago
38 weeks ago
Kathryn Smith
I'm considering starting a website that will cover common misconceptions about recruiters, what they can and can't do for you, and the general agency recruiting process. As a candidate, is this something you would find helpful? Alternatively, if you are already aware of a website like this, can you provide the link? I've been unable to find one that caters to candidates.
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Nicole Bienfang:
Hey Kathryn can you become my Fan so I can PM you? I have a contact via my Linkedin profile that I think you two can benefit from knowing each ...MoreHey Kathryn can you become my Fan so I can PM you? I have a contact via my Linkedin profile that I think you two can benefit from knowing each other.Thanks!
39 weeks ago
39 weeks ago
Kelly Seiler:
Here is a question for a blog post:
What are the different ways the recruiters focus? I can take a guess based on the different job sites out ...MoreHere is a question for a blog post:
What are the different ways the recruiters focus? I can take a guess based on the different job sites out there: local area vs national, by industry, management vs sole contribuitor.
As far as a critique on the first post I'm somewhere between Nicole and Edward. The length is good, but I'd like to see more hilighting of points by using bold or color. For example, "don’t just rely on me to find your new opportunity" should be hilighted. If someone is skimming you want that to jump out at them.
another topic - the dos and don'ts of sharing salary expecations with a recruiter
Good luck!
39 weeks ago
What are the different ways the recruiters focus? I can take a guess based on the different job sites out ...MoreHere is a question for a blog post:
What are the different ways the recruiters focus? I can take a guess based on the different job sites out there: local area vs national, by industry, management vs sole contribuitor.
As far as a critique on the first post I'm somewhere between Nicole and Edward. The length is good, but I'd like to see more hilighting of points by using bold or color. For example, "don’t just rely on me to find your new opportunity" should be hilighted. If someone is skimming you want that to jump out at them.
another topic - the dos and don'ts of sharing salary expecations with a recruiter
Good luck!
39 weeks ago
TOP IDEA:
Sadya Siddiqui
Has anyone read Penelope Trunk's latest post - Blueprint for A Woman's life. I'm interested in knowing how many GenY ladies (hey even men) agree or disagree with it.
40 weeks ago from GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals, I am Gen Y, Slash Jobs, Brazen Careerists on Twitter and Ask Penelope Trunk!3 more
Morana Medved:
This might get long, but I feel the need to address it fully, as the post itself was very thorough:
1. Do both - you need to get involved in other ...MoreThis might get long, but I feel the need to address it fully, as the post itself was very thorough:
1. Do both - you need to get involved in other things while staying on top of homework. My highschool boyfriend was involved with everything but homework. That continued in college which he never finished. He's the cable guy now, and I did my homework, was moderately involved, and now have a career.
2. Sure, if there is something that really needs fixing, but from advice of a woman I respect who is in her sixties, this should be saved as a tool to stay "updated" later in life, while being healthy when young is more important.
3. Assuming everyone wants to go to business school or grad school? Why? And grad school is totally useless for most people unless they determined through at least 2 years of work experience what they want to do with their career.
4. I married at 26 and somewhat agree with this one. Don't be afraid of "settling down" although advice shouldn't be to "settle" as it almost seems to be.
5. Maternity leave is a joke in this country and should be addressed at government level. Most countries concede 1 year is a good time period, and USA should as well. But employing some of Penelope's advice could get you a bad reputation in your industry - bad advice.
6. I agree to a point. More and more men stay home or work part-time while taking care of home and kids. Mine does. Working on your marriage is important, and someone will always have a support role. But as a kid who asked my parents to please finally get a divorce when I was 15 I vehemently disagree that staying together is always better for the kids, and research is still split on this.
7. Good points - financial independence.
8. Really, everyone wants to do a startup? I worked for two small businesses ran by men and they were both horrible businessmen and ran them into the ground, in spite of putting in long hours. Partner with someone you can trust, sex is irrelevant.
9. Whatever.
10. Bad advice - homeschooling is a full time job that most people fail at. It is illegal in my home country. Find a good school district, there are plenty, and homeschool in addition if you deem it necessary (my grandfather did this with me and it was great).
11. & 12. While I partially agree with this I think that people in their forties and younger are ill-equipped to give advice to people in their forties and older and unlike Penelope I would hate to attempt it.
I think Penelope overstepped and while she had some good points she offered some really bad strategies. And based on her comments she seems to think she's addressing a much larger portion of population than she truly is - only a fraction of women share her goals, far from majority. I really believed she had a broader viewpoint of people, life and world, I'm sorely disappointed in her.
40 weeks ago
1. Do both - you need to get involved in other ...MoreThis might get long, but I feel the need to address it fully, as the post itself was very thorough:
1. Do both - you need to get involved in other things while staying on top of homework. My highschool boyfriend was involved with everything but homework. That continued in college which he never finished. He's the cable guy now, and I did my homework, was moderately involved, and now have a career.
2. Sure, if there is something that really needs fixing, but from advice of a woman I respect who is in her sixties, this should be saved as a tool to stay "updated" later in life, while being healthy when young is more important.
3. Assuming everyone wants to go to business school or grad school? Why? And grad school is totally useless for most people unless they determined through at least 2 years of work experience what they want to do with their career.
4. I married at 26 and somewhat agree with this one. Don't be afraid of "settling down" although advice shouldn't be to "settle" as it almost seems to be.
5. Maternity leave is a joke in this country and should be addressed at government level. Most countries concede 1 year is a good time period, and USA should as well. But employing some of Penelope's advice could get you a bad reputation in your industry - bad advice.
6. I agree to a point. More and more men stay home or work part-time while taking care of home and kids. Mine does. Working on your marriage is important, and someone will always have a support role. But as a kid who asked my parents to please finally get a divorce when I was 15 I vehemently disagree that staying together is always better for the kids, and research is still split on this.
7. Good points - financial independence.
8. Really, everyone wants to do a startup? I worked for two small businesses ran by men and they were both horrible businessmen and ran them into the ground, in spite of putting in long hours. Partner with someone you can trust, sex is irrelevant.
9. Whatever.
10. Bad advice - homeschooling is a full time job that most people fail at. It is illegal in my home country. Find a good school district, there are plenty, and homeschool in addition if you deem it necessary (my grandfather did this with me and it was great).
11. & 12. While I partially agree with this I think that people in their forties and younger are ill-equipped to give advice to people in their forties and older and unlike Penelope I would hate to attempt it.
I think Penelope overstepped and while she had some good points she offered some really bad strategies. And based on her comments she seems to think she's addressing a much larger portion of population than she truly is - only a fraction of women share her goals, far from majority. I really believed she had a broader viewpoint of people, life and world, I'm sorely disappointed in her.
40 weeks ago
Christian Adams:
I read it. I liked it. I haven't read this thread but wanted to say that Ms. Trunk is a great writer and in my humble opinion a brilliant thinker.
39 weeks ago
39 weeks ago
TOP IDEA:
Sadya Siddiqui
BEST Brazen post 2010: Here are the best blog posts in my opinion to be featured on Brazen.
JEN GRESHAM- Career Design, Part 1: Why Three Jobs Are Better Than One http://bit.ly/fj1g2X
CAMERON PLOMMER- http://howtobeextraordinary.com/the-sex-and-cash-theory-keep-your-day-job/
JAMIE NACHT FARRELL- What Kind of Wall Will You Build? http://bit.ly/idf925
Consultants Why Some Make it &some CRASH http://bit.ly/hV1dTQ
74 weeks ago from Ask Penelope Trunk!, Brazen Careerists on Twitter, GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals, Entrepreneurs and Slash Jobs3 more
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Sadya Siddiqui:
and since I'm cringing over how mangled & badly formatted the text above looks i'm adding Penelope trunk's Perfectionism is a disease Moreand since I'm cringing over how mangled & badly formatted the text above looks i'm adding Penelope trunk's Perfectionism is a disease http://bit.ly/eQByyC
74 weeks ago
74 weeks ago
JenG:
Thanks, Sadya, for the mention. But my personal favorite is YOUR guest post on my blog, Much Ado About To-Do Lists MoreThanks, Sadya, for the mention. But my personal favorite is YOUR guest post on my blog, Much Ado About To-Do Lists http://bit.ly/aX1WxJ
That's the one that gets my vote!
74 weeks ago
That's the one that gets my vote!
74 weeks ago
Kelly Seiler
joined the group Mentors & Mentees
40 weeks ago
TOP IDEA:
Linda A. Hamilton
Religion is such a passionate belief for people, yet on many web pages I find sections dedicated to Religion. Links lead to pieces on Zen, agnostics, atheists, New Age; everything but Christianity. What are your thoughts and how do you think it would be received if someone submitted posts about Judeo-Christian beliefs? People seem to attack that religion far more than any others, but I seldom see the same negative attitude toward other beliefs. We're neutral here--anyone want to share?
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Linda A. Hamilton:
Kelly, power indeed corrupts! One of my favorite quotes is
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give ...MoreKelly, power indeed corrupts! One of my favorite quotes is
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. --Abraham Lincoln, 16th president of US (1809 - 1865)
54 weeks ago
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give ...MoreKelly, power indeed corrupts! One of my favorite quotes is
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. --Abraham Lincoln, 16th president of US (1809 - 1865)
54 weeks ago
Kristen Syme:
There is a culture war in this country, and I have been on both sides of it as an Evangelical teenager and a non-religious adult. From my ...MoreThere is a culture war in this country, and I have been on both sides of it as an Evangelical teenager and a non-religious adult. From my experience, there are those on both sides that persecute, and consequentially, both sides view themselves as being persecuted and victimized.
44 weeks ago
44 weeks ago
Linda A. Hamilton
I have a web site on WordPress that includes my blog. My question is do I need a plugin to link my WordPress blog and site to LinkIn, Facebook and Twitter, or is there another method to get the icons placed on a sidebar? I've reviewed my menus but don't see anything? Anyone have suggestions or experience with this?
Rachel Howe:
Most of these answers are rather technical and over complicated if you aren't as "technically savvy." I suggest adding the "social media widget" ...MoreMost of these answers are rather technical and over complicated if you aren't as "technically savvy." I suggest adding the "social media widget" as a plugin. You'll get all you need there besides Linkedin I believe, which you can do a simple search for and add as well. Drag this widget to your side bar and you're set. You can take a look at my blog, http://rmhowe.com as an example.
44 weeks ago
44 weeks ago
Linda A. Hamilton:
Thank you Rachel, I added the social media widget and it worked. That is exactly what I was looking for. My email is giving me issues, but will ...MoreThank you Rachel, I added the social media widget and it worked. That is exactly what I was looking for. My email is giving me issues, but will work that out. Thanks, too, to everyone else. I'm referencing your feedback and will keep it as I get more tech savvy. I'm remembering many of what I forgot after being away from it for so long. I look forward to being about to maneuver through things again without issues. Very much appreciated everyone's input and help.
44 weeks ago
44 weeks ago
MissCheska
Hello all! New to BC and this group, and need advice! I'm a first-year middle school teacher at an all-girls school and am trying to build up a professional wardrobe. My wardrobe challenge: I'm 26 yo, 4'8" tall and look quite young, which translates to often being mistaken as one of my students by everyone. How do I best create a wardrobe that allows me to look my adult age, exudes professionalism, but also doesn't make me look like an old-school marm? TIA!
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MissCheska:
Wow, thank you everyone for your replies and suggestions!
@Kelly, I haven't thought about getting a "professional haircut"; what a great idea! ...MoreWow, thank you everyone for your replies and suggestions!
@Kelly, I haven't thought about getting a "professional haircut"; what a great idea! I've mostly kept my hair in a long-layered bob for easy low maintenance, but maybe adding low lights/high lights will add some oomph into it.
I went through my closet briefly after reading the replies, and what I've noticed is that I have a lot of the basics (blazers, trousers, pencil skirts, button down shirts) but they all seem to look like a "uniform". My accessories are almost nonexistent, they mostly consist of a watch and earring studs! I'd like to inject more color and style, so I do appreciate your suggestions and I'll definitely check out those forums/blogs!
45 weeks ago
@Kelly, I haven't thought about getting a "professional haircut"; what a great idea! ...MoreWow, thank you everyone for your replies and suggestions!
@Kelly, I haven't thought about getting a "professional haircut"; what a great idea! I've mostly kept my hair in a long-layered bob for easy low maintenance, but maybe adding low lights/high lights will add some oomph into it.
I went through my closet briefly after reading the replies, and what I've noticed is that I have a lot of the basics (blazers, trousers, pencil skirts, button down shirts) but they all seem to look like a "uniform". My accessories are almost nonexistent, they mostly consist of a watch and earring studs! I'd like to inject more color and style, so I do appreciate your suggestions and I'll definitely check out those forums/blogs!
45 weeks ago
Leona:
I used to feel like my clothes were a "uniform" too and I was such a minimalist with accessories - but things like scarves, belts, pins, head ...MoreI used to feel like my clothes were a "uniform" too and I was such a minimalist with accessories - but things like scarves, belts, pins, head bands, jewelry, etc help differentiate things. Also, try reading blogs which have done 30x30 clothing challenges (30 outfits with 30 clothing pieces). Kendi Everyday is not a petite blogger, but she's got an easygoing yet polished style that I love and she's done the 30x30 challenge.
45 weeks ago
45 weeks ago
TOP IDEA:
James Biskey
How can professional organizations (IEEE, etc.) stay relevant now that so much networking and industry knowledge can be found outside those orgs for free?
I'm an IEEE chapter chair and I see sections struggling to reach younger electrical engineers who are more web savvy and do their own networking outside of IEEE. What unique things can professional orgs bring to the table? How can they be more useful to younger, web savvy people in their fields? How do you encourage change in orgs like this?
94 weeks ago from Engineers
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Russell Friesenhahn:
@multiple - I didn't mean the research blog would necessarily be linked to IEEE. It was just kind of a random thought and maybe not quite on ...More@multiple - I didn't mean the research blog would necessarily be linked to IEEE. It was just kind of a random thought and maybe not quite on topic. I was imagining the early days of wikipedia.
I just don't think everything should be behind a paywall.
@James - re "IEEE making itself useful" IEEE sends a ton of email about conferences and their deadlines or perhaps I just happened to sign up for those notifications. I think IEEE does a decent job of providing information that I might not otherwise find. So kudos for that!
94 weeks ago
I just don't think everything should be behind a paywall.
@James - re "IEEE making itself useful" IEEE sends a ton of email about conferences and their deadlines or perhaps I just happened to sign up for those notifications. I think IEEE does a decent job of providing information that I might not otherwise find. So kudos for that!
94 weeks ago
Ian Pereira:
Networking events.
When I lived in Toronto, our chapter organized networking breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and "Engineering Eqtiquette" events ...MoreNetworking events.
When I lived in Toronto, our chapter organized networking breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and "Engineering Eqtiquette" events with guests from companies around Toronto. These went over quite well for interested students, recruiters, and the recruited alike and many participants landed summer or post-grad jobs at these firms.
Costs were usually highly subsidized by industry and supplemented by our engineering and computer science departments.
45 weeks ago
When I lived in Toronto, our chapter organized networking breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and "Engineering Eqtiquette" events ...MoreNetworking events.
When I lived in Toronto, our chapter organized networking breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and "Engineering Eqtiquette" events with guests from companies around Toronto. These went over quite well for interested students, recruiters, and the recruited alike and many participants landed summer or post-grad jobs at these firms.
Costs were usually highly subsidized by industry and supplemented by our engineering and computer science departments.
45 weeks ago
46 weeks ago
Kelly Seiler
Check out this reddit discussion from a hiring person at a large multinational tech company who regularly hires woman for 65% to 75% of what males make. http://bit.ly/kOEx80
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Rose:
Wow. Thanks for sharing that. I'm still just starting out, and that's something I need to absolutely keep in mind. Doing the research and ...MoreWow. Thanks for sharing that. I'm still just starting out, and that's something I need to absolutely keep in mind. Doing the research and finding out what salary ranges are appropriate is so important.
I'm curious, though - how flexible is this advice? Do you find it in most environments, or does it really depend on the industry sector? Is quoting too large a figure a dealbreaker in some sectors?
46 weeks ago
I'm curious, though - how flexible is this advice? Do you find it in most environments, or does it really depend on the industry sector? Is quoting too large a figure a dealbreaker in some sectors?
46 weeks ago
Jason H. Parker:
Negotiate your first and every salary thereafter. It's so important. There's a great daily worth article (I can't find it right now) that ...MoreNegotiate your first and every salary thereafter. It's so important. There's a great daily worth article (I can't find it right now) that describes the long-term effects of this unfortunate phenomenon.
46 weeks ago
46 weeks ago
Jamie Nacht Farrell
People always talk about the upside of networking, but what about the downside? I have trouble keeping up with all of my colleagues and friends in person - doing so remotely has taken up hours and hours. Does anyone else have issues with this? How do you decide who to spend time on or not? I developed a list of criteria for myself in order to "trim the fat" and not spread myself too thin. Is this a good or bad idea? Any other options? Criteria here: http://bit.ly/fFnkBb
71 weeks ago from Ask Penelope Trunk!, Entrepreneurs, GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals, Creating a Life You Love and Consultants R US3 more
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Billy Mayfield:
I feel that on any given day a person you've crossed paths with may need you or vice versa. After a year or so if you still have that business ...MoreI feel that on any given day a person you've crossed paths with may need you or vice versa. After a year or so if you still have that business card(and no correspondence) transfer the data to a digital archive and trash the card.. That way you can create file categories according to your needs. That may help a little..
71 weeks ago
71 weeks ago
Kim Luu:
I handle my relationship similar to Kelly. I don't worry about maintaining so much. We only have so many hours in a day. I set expectations with ...MoreI handle my relationship similar to Kelly. I don't worry about maintaining so much. We only have so many hours in a day. I set expectations with people as well such as "give me a call whenever you're in town" or "chat with you again when we run into each other years from now".
Does it hurt my network? I don't think so. We have an unspoken agreement. I've picked up with people 5 years later and get help. The reverse is true as well with friends of friends calling me up and using someone's name. I always double check first that it is a valid connection before I help.
The only insane thing that I deal with is Holiday cards because I start writing the months in advance personalized notes to get all my 1500 cards done by Christmas. I handle this by keeping a stack of cards on hand and writing a joke or comment when someone comes to mind. Then the card is done.
I have a strict definition of true friends vs. casual friends (there are 4 layers). The only people I make strong efforts to stay in touch with are family and true friends. These are the people that I would drop everything and move the earth to come running if they need help.
71 weeks ago
Does it hurt my network? I don't think so. We have an unspoken agreement. I've picked up with people 5 years later and get help. The reverse is true as well with friends of friends calling me up and using someone's name. I always double check first that it is a valid connection before I help.
The only insane thing that I deal with is Holiday cards because I start writing the months in advance personalized notes to get all my 1500 cards done by Christmas. I handle this by keeping a stack of cards on hand and writing a joke or comment when someone comes to mind. Then the card is done.
I have a strict definition of true friends vs. casual friends (there are 4 layers). The only people I make strong efforts to stay in touch with are family and true friends. These are the people that I would drop everything and move the earth to come running if they need help.
71 weeks ago
Leena Chugh
I find myself jumping from screening resumes to checking email to online networking just so often that I'm beginning to think-could it be ADD? Is anybody else in the same boat? Time management is my biggest challenge right now. I made a schedule and can't stick to it. The resumes come in my email so I can't close my email. A candidate calls and I do have to leave everything and take the call. Then there are the admin tasks. I think I can do better. How do you manage your 8 hours?
83 weeks ago from Recruiters Unite!, Brazen Careerists on Twitter and Consultants R US1 more
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Much of the problems in time management are derived from our own mental ideal of how our process "should be". Let go of yourself a little bit and ...MoreMuch of the problems in time management are derived from our own mental ideal of how our process "should be". Let go of yourself a little bit and allow yourself to be more flexible in your approach to planning your day. We often find ourselves swimming upstream in an effort to meet an unrealistic goal of how things "should be" instead of how things "could be". Give it a shot =)
77 weeks ago
77 weeks ago
Jamie Nacht Farrell
I hate when someone looks at my career and says, "You're so lucky". Am I really? Or is it about a combination of skill, desire for continuous improvement, tenacity, etc? How do you respond when someone says, "you're so lucky"? I contend that it's not luck, but about CHOICES and what we choose to prioritize in our life at different times; Wrote about my response here: http://bizrelationships.wordpress.com/2010/08/01/how-humble-do-i-have-to... Thoughts?
94 weeks ago from Objectivists, Shotgun Startups, Creating a Life You Love, Consultants R US and Entrepreneurs3 more
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Frank E. Warren:
Lighten up... the two of you are both too young to place this kind of stress upon yourselves. Certainly, be proud of your accomplishments - you ...MoreLighten up... the two of you are both too young to place this kind of stress upon yourselves. Certainly, be proud of your accomplishments - you have earned it.
Working hard can be a "gift" that you offer to yourself. When viewed in this manner, hard work becomes a more pleasant experience. Think too, of all the people in the world who have never heard a kind word from their parents. It may help you appreciate your mother's pride, even if you are uncomfortable with her words.
And, since you both have made the choice to work hard, celebrate your achievement and be happy about it... and remember it is a gift that you have offered yourselves.
Peace,
92 weeks ago
Working hard can be a "gift" that you offer to yourself. When viewed in this manner, hard work becomes a more pleasant experience. Think too, of all the people in the world who have never heard a kind word from their parents. It may help you appreciate your mother's pride, even if you are uncomfortable with her words.
And, since you both have made the choice to work hard, celebrate your achievement and be happy about it... and remember it is a gift that you have offered yourselves.
Peace,
92 weeks ago
Jessica Bahr:
Luck happens when preparation and opportunity meet. It's not luck, its the reward for hard work.
84 weeks ago
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Melanie Monek
Its great to see data that clearly shows the importance of women in the workplace... especially data that shows a real impact to a businesses bottom line. http://www.larsonallen.com/EFFECT/Develop_Your_Generation_Y_Women_to_Imp...
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Dana Leavy:
Interesting data Melanie - thanks. I think a lot of companies are trying to understand how to best engage Gen Y workers in the workplace. Not ...MoreInteresting data Melanie - thanks. I think a lot of companies are trying to understand how to best engage Gen Y workers in the workplace. Not only do they seek a new, flexible type of workplace, but they have new, innovative skill sets and expertise that they're bringing to the table. Always interesting to see how willing companies are to shift their operational and hiring models to retain good talent.
51 weeks ago
51 weeks ago
Eric Sforza
I'm currently working on 3 startup projects that are looking to create websites. Since all of these companies are lean, I'm trying to find the most cost effective solutions. Each company does something different (social venture, small business w/ online store, consulting) so I'm looking for a variety of options. For example: Is it better to use a site builder - if so, which ones and why? Is there better value at getting a freelance graphic designer to build a few pages? Thanks in advance!
53 weeks ago from Shotgun Startups, Freelancing, Social Entrepreneurs, Web Development and Web Startups3 more
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Kelly Seiler:
@Eric - you might need to tweak the CSS in your theme so that content shows up the way you want (fonts, size, center, left, etc) consistently ...More@Eric - you might need to tweak the CSS in your theme so that content shows up the way you want (fonts, size, center, left, etc) consistently across the site. When you update you shouldn't be doing much - if any formatting.
Of course I'll caveat that with the advice to never copy stuff out of Word directly into Wordress. They don't play nice. Copy text into Notepad or a similar program that strips away the formatting then copy into Wordpress.
50 weeks ago
Of course I'll caveat that with the advice to never copy stuff out of Word directly into Wordress. They don't play nice. Copy text into Notepad or a similar program that strips away the formatting then copy into Wordpress.
50 weeks ago
Sadya Siddiqui:
Outsource it, so that you can focus on building your business and your clients. Try out Brazen Careerist Lindsey Donner
50 weeks ago
50 weeks ago
Cameron Plommer
When i graduated from college I wish I knew that anything worth doing will take a long time. In school everything is in quarters or semesters chunks, 3 months at a time then it's over and on to the next thing. Information on tests is only important for a couple weeks.
Since graduating I've realized it takes far longer to do anything in the real world. Much more work is involved over a long period of time. Since I'm not used to this I often get frustrated and feel like giving up.
91 weeks ago from What I Wish I Knew Then, Brazen Undergrads, Creating a Life You Love and Personal Development2 more
Mike Ambassador Bruny:
My man Cameron, I'm actually putting a program together with a partner that is focused on what we are calling GOLD (Grads Of the Last Decade) and ...MoreMy man Cameron, I'm actually putting a program together with a partner that is focused on what we are calling GOLD (Grads Of the Last Decade) and we were just talking about how everything in school can be so structured and then you graduate with no more structure. We're hoping what we create can help the people. On the note of things taking longer, one of the things I had to get used to is counting on others to get things done. I did my part and i'm ready to go, but must wait (which usually means follow up) for someone else. I'm usually so ready to move on to the next.
Your Ambassador,
Mike Bruny
90 weeks ago
Your Ambassador,
Mike Bruny
90 weeks ago
Laura Scheppler:
Cameron, it is frustrating. Don't give up though. You might not want to limit yourself to exactly what your degree is in. I know that if I ...MoreCameron, it is frustrating. Don't give up though. You might not want to limit yourself to exactly what your degree is in. I know that if I strictly stuck to my major I would be languishing teaching history somewhere. Try to think outside the box as painful as that may be (it certainly is for me).
I think this venue is interesting; in fact my husband and I were discussing how little guidance we got from school (and family), regarding career choices. We are still "finding ourselves" although it is kind of like trying to locate things in an oversized paper bag without a real entry or exit in place.
Sometimes, it may be a case of "Be careful what you pray for, you may get it."
90 weeks ago
I think this venue is interesting; in fact my husband and I were discussing how little guidance we got from school (and family), regarding career choices. We are still "finding ourselves" although it is kind of like trying to locate things in an oversized paper bag without a real entry or exit in place.
Sometimes, it may be a case of "Be careful what you pray for, you may get it."
90 weeks ago
Noel Rozny
Have you ever gotten a promotion and then wondered how in the world you were going to execute your new tasks? How did you survive and thrive in your promotion? (Here's a few of our tips: http://j.mp/eAqDOg)
58 weeks ago from myFootpath
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Tanya Veleva:
great ideas everyone. I'd add keep learning, make new mistakes and beware of upper limit problems. What gets you one promotion is not the same as ...Moregreat ideas everyone. I'd add keep learning, make new mistakes and beware of upper limit problems. What gets you one promotion is not the same as what will get you the next one.
57 weeks ago
57 weeks ago
Noel Rozny:
@Cobin--that's a great tip to remember, and so true!
@Tanya, Yep, as you grow, there is always a new skill to acquire and a new obstacle to ...More@Cobin--that's a great tip to remember, and so true!
@Tanya, Yep, as you grow, there is always a new skill to acquire and a new obstacle to overcome. But I think that's what makes it fun. :)
57 weeks ago
@Tanya, Yep, as you grow, there is always a new skill to acquire and a new obstacle to ...More@Cobin--that's a great tip to remember, and so true!
@Tanya, Yep, as you grow, there is always a new skill to acquire and a new obstacle to overcome. But I think that's what makes it fun. :)
57 weeks ago
Linda A. Hamilton
I am attempting to update by web site by adding my business name in the Header. Can anyone provide insight on how this is done? I've researched some forums, but don't find anything that clearly explains how this is done. Thoughts?
Linda A. Hamilton:
Thank you Matthew. I will look tomorrow as I recall seeing that HTML in the php.
@Kelly -- I'll see where I can fine Firebug and see how it ...MoreThank you Matthew. I will look tomorrow as I recall seeing that HTML in the php.
@Kelly -- I'll see where I can fine Firebug and see how it works. If I play with it enough I should figure it out, but will let you know. Thanks everyone for your tips and help!
54 weeks ago
@Kelly -- I'll see where I can fine Firebug and see how it ...MoreThank you Matthew. I will look tomorrow as I recall seeing that HTML in the php.
@Kelly -- I'll see where I can fine Firebug and see how it works. If I play with it enough I should figure it out, but will let you know. Thanks everyone for your tips and help!
54 weeks ago
Linda A. Hamilton:
SUCCESS!!! I was able to design and upload a banner for my web site and it is now updated. Feel free to review these updates and see the ...MoreSUCCESS!!! I was able to design and upload a banner for my web site and it is now updated. Feel free to review these updates and see the changes, then feel free to provide any feedback. Thank you!
53 weeks ago
53 weeks ago
Megan Atkinson
Ridiculous amounts of student-loan debt, soaring unemployment rates, tough financial times - I say, don't bother going back to school. Educate yourself. Create your own curriculum and textbooks and learn what's really relevant now. My energy job curriculum sample is here: http://wp.me/p1kAA3-5R What are your thoughts on self-education?
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JRandom42:
@Mark, and don't forget all those who attempt to game the certification"system, by such things as cheaters, brain dumps and so on. This is rampant ...More@Mark, and don't forget all those who attempt to game the certification"system, by such things as cheaters, brain dumps and so on. This is rampant in IT, where you have your "paper MCITP"
or "paper CCNA" who has studied and passed the tests, but has no clue of what he was being tested on and ends up being less than useless to an IT manager.
54 weeks ago
or "paper CCNA" who has studied and passed the tests, but has no clue of what he was being tested on and ends up being less than useless to an IT manager.
54 weeks ago
Megan Atkinson:
@Mark, the CEM certification is, by far, the most prestigious and universally accepted cert in the field. Good call :) Certifications can be a ...More@Mark, the CEM certification is, by far, the most prestigious and universally accepted cert in the field. Good call :) Certifications can be a fantastic alternative to the traditional classroom. I like that route personally because the info is more focused to my core objective. Piling on a bunch of pre-reqs for a new degree is just too hard for me stomach.
54 weeks ago
54 weeks ago
Jamie Nacht Farrell
I've always felt like (and now it's been documented numerous times) I only want to work with people I can have both professional AND personal relationships with. Although I've been told numerous times (by boomers) that you need to separate work and personal. What are your thoughts? Do you separate the 2 or do you have personal relationships with people you work with? What would you rather have? http://bit.ly/i6lZ23
57 weeks ago from Ask Penelope Trunk!, I am Gen Y, Creating a Life You Love, Creatively Inspired and Professional Development3 more
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Jamie Nacht Farrell:
@dawn - gotcha -makes perfect sense. ty.
@Kim - phenomenal explanation.
@Jrandom ( ; going to read now - thanks.
56 weeks ago
56 weeks ago
Tatiana Christian:
I think that because we spend so much time at work, it's difficult not to make friends with the people you work with. But what I've experienced ...MoreI think that because we spend so much time at work, it's difficult not to make friends with the people you work with. But what I've experienced however is that it's difficult to maintain relationships with former employees because all we ever talked about was work. So once the work was gone, there was nothing left to discuss. So if you want long lasting work friends to become personal friends, you have to make a greater effort to spend time together outside of the workplace. But I don't mind either way. I've always managed to make at least one friend whereever I worked.
56 weeks ago
56 weeks ago
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