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Barbara Hall
Office Sabotage? Anyone go through this? How did you handle the situation? So far in the past 2 weeks, our UPS Acct has been cancelled and our MyFax Acct deactivated. Credit Card info and Invoice Info was needed, so I tend to think its an inside job. Gossip and jealously run rampant here.
Barbara Hall
Office Sabotage? Anyone go through this? How did you handle the situation? So far in the past 2 weeks, our UPS Acct has been cancelled and our MyFax Acct deactivated. Credit Card info and Invoice Info was needed, so I tend to think its an inside job. Gossip and jealously run rampant here.
Barbara Hall
Office Sabotage? Anyone go through this? How did you handle the situation? So far in the past 2 weeks, our UPS Acct has been cancelled and our MyFax Acct deactivated. Credit Card info and Invoice Info was needed, so I tend to think its an inside job. Gossip and jealously run rampant here.
Kristen Creager
At age 25, I sometimes find myself walking a line between optimism and cynicism. Do you ever feel the same? Read more at my latest post: http://kristencreager.com/?p=189
49 weeks ago from Work/Life Blur, I am Gen Y and Generation Y Marketers1 more
Ty Unglebower recommended this
JRandom42:
@ Regina, it's actually called "The Rose-Colored Glasses Syndrome", a variant of the Lake Woebegon Effect.
48 weeks ago
48 weeks ago
Ty Unglebower
I am an introvert and like most of them, I hate small talk. It is a waste of time, annoying, and self defeating. I expand on the nature of my deep hatred in my latest blog post. http://bit.ly/ivfGNR
50 weeks ago from Networking Tips, Creating a Life You Love, Creatively Inspired, Washington D.C. and Baltimore Brazen3 more
Barbara Hall, Kylie Schleicher and Lara Meeker recommended this
Michael Rubino:
Man it's tough to get a conversation going at meet-and-greet events, where you can almost feel everyone in the room inwardly cringing at the ...MoreMan it's tough to get a conversation going at meet-and-greet events, where you can almost feel everyone in the room inwardly cringing at the prospect of vapid chatter.
I agree with you, Ty, that getting to the point can save time, effort, and discomfort. I think that many people dislike the ice-breaker type conversation that you describe.
But, if risking a moment of small talk with a stranger could lead to a connection and more substantial conversation regarding a topic that is of mutual interest, would taking that risk be justified for the introvert?
50 weeks ago
I agree with you, Ty, that getting to the point can save time, effort, and discomfort. I think that many people dislike the ice-breaker type conversation that you describe.
But, if risking a moment of small talk with a stranger could lead to a connection and more substantial conversation regarding a topic that is of mutual interest, would taking that risk be justified for the introvert?
50 weeks ago
Ty Unglebower:
If the introvert has done their homework, (which they almost always do), I am willing to speculate that a superficial ice breaker type of chat up ...MoreIf the introvert has done their homework, (which they almost always do), I am willing to speculate that a superficial ice breaker type of chat up with a potentially influential connection would not be necessary. By that I mean that a fully engaged and relevant conversation of mutual interest between the introvert and the power-broker in question may be just as effective, if not more so than the small talk.
But let us assume for some reason that small talk would be the absolute only way to meet and engage with someone we had an interest in. I imagine each introvert would have to decide on his or her own if it was worth the "risk" of doing something they found uncomfortable or even in some cases revolting. I am sure it has happened.
For my own part, I have in general never been in proximity to someone I wanted to connect with enough to pretend to be a schmooze, though I cannot guarantee no such person exists. They would have to be a hell of an important person, though. And I'd have to be in a fantastic mood!
50 weeks ago
But let us assume for some reason that small talk would be the absolute only way to meet and engage with someone we had an interest in. I imagine each introvert would have to decide on his or her own if it was worth the "risk" of doing something they found uncomfortable or even in some cases revolting. I am sure it has happened.
For my own part, I have in general never been in proximity to someone I wanted to connect with enough to pretend to be a schmooze, though I cannot guarantee no such person exists. They would have to be a hell of an important person, though. And I'd have to be in a fantastic mood!
50 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh
Hey all you Washington D.C. people!!! I want to start creating some Twitter Lists by city to help Brazen members connect w/ each other locally. I'm starting w/ Washington D.C. because I know that you all are an engaged bunch. So leave your Twitter ID as a reply below and we will make sure to add you to the Official Brazen D.C. Twitter List.
Katrina Stanfield, Paul Blackwell, Tiffany, Doug Mitchell and Chris Paugh and 2 others recommended this
Brett Kunsch
It's very frustrating when our limited energy supply gets sucked up by things we know we'd be better off avoiding, yet, we still fall victim to some common energy killers. I recently wrote up a list of 6 ways to guarantee energy depletion. What other killers tend to steal your energy on a daily basis and what helps you manage them? http://bit.ly/iKqzPR
56 weeks ago from Personal Development, Ask Penelope Trunk!, Perfectionist Rehab, Creating a Life You Love and Work/Life Blur3 more
Rebecca Thorman recommended this
Natasha Smith:
Another energy killer: Don't focus on the project you're doing because you're so worried about everything else you have to get done, and mentally ...MoreAnother energy killer: Don't focus on the project you're doing because you're so worried about everything else you have to get done, and mentally planning how long everything will take.
55 weeks ago
55 weeks ago
Elysa Rice
according to Lifehacker Allrecipes is the Best Recipe Search Tool http://dlvr.it/7HQ29 I used AllRecipes a few years ago, then got out of the habit. I've just recently downloaded the iPhone app and back in pattern of saving and organizing my recipes in a virtual recipe box. The recipes live online until I try them a time or two. If it's a keeper I'll print 'em for my real box. What's your system for discovering new recipes?
83 weeks ago from I Love to Cook! and Brazen Foodies
Elysa Rice:
Kate i do agree that cookbooks are probably a more reliable source. You won't find 17 recipes for the same meal and have to decide which is the ...MoreKate i do agree that cookbooks are probably a more reliable source. You won't find 17 recipes for the same meal and have to decide which is the best in a cookbook!
Barbie I just got my first issue Martha Stewart Everyday Food in the mail :)
Mehnaz I don't subscribe to have tv channels so no food network watching for me :) unless it's online?
82 weeks ago
Barbie I just got my first issue Martha Stewart Everyday Food in the mail :)
Mehnaz I don't subscribe to have tv channels so no food network watching for me :) unless it's online?
82 weeks ago
Mehnaz Thawer:
Elysa. Yes, just google the food network. They sometimes have online episodes :)
76 weeks ago
76 weeks ago
Barbara Hall
Last week I overhead our "Office Manager" telling a co-worker the details of my Short Term Disability claim. OM gave info as to how much I should be expecting, what days claim was for, and that my VP allowed me to borrow vacation days into next year. I was appalled and felt violated. I immediately went to my boss. After closed door meetings, the OM was made to apologize to me. I still feel like this is a violation. Should an apology be suffice? Or is there something more that I should be doing?
Elizabeth Jarvis:
I think you need to look into your options. I'm assuming you work for a smaller company without an HR department. You can check with SHRM.org as ...MoreI think you need to look into your options. I'm assuming you work for a smaller company without an HR department. You can check with SHRM.org as to human resource laws. I don't think an apology is sufficient in this case.
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78 weeks ago
JenG:
I totally understand feeling violated, I'm sure I would feel the same. Just make sure you have clear in your mind what end result you want. I ...MoreI totally understand feeling violated, I'm sure I would feel the same. Just make sure you have clear in your mind what end result you want. I guess the question is: do you feel so violated you want the OM fired? Would you consider quitting over the incident? Are you considering a lawsuit? I wouldn't go too far with this until you know the answers to all those questions and more, as things can get out of your hands pretty quickly.
78 weeks ago
78 weeks ago
Barbara Hall
Last week I overhead our "Office Manager" telling a co-worker the details of my Short Term Disability claim. OM gave info as to how much I should be expecting, what days claim was for, and that my VP allowed me to borrow vacation days into next year. I was appalled and felt violated. I immediately went to my boss. After closed door meetings, the OM was made to apologize to me. I still feel like this is a violation. Should an apology be suffice? Or is there something more that I should be doing?
TOP IDEA:
Barbara Hall
After having foot surgery and being on crutches, I am learning a valuable lesson ... asking for help. I have a hard time with this, both personally and professionally. Even now, on crutches, I try to complete any task by myself and refuse to ask for help. I even have a hard time accepting when help is offered. And I realized this has carried over to my professional life. I just cannot ask for help. Do you struggle with this? And how do you get over it?
Elizabeth Jarvis:
I struggle with asking for help to. I have to remind myself that asking for help is also a way to expand my role and learn new things. If I ask ...MoreI struggle with asking for help to. I have to remind myself that asking for help is also a way to expand my role and learn new things. If I ask for help on something that person may have a different perspective on how to get the job done and is faster or more efficient. It's difficult to remember, but asking for help does not equal failure it equals true strength to understand your limits so you can eventually grow more.
79 weeks ago
79 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh
What's your dream Community Manager gig? Jenn Pedde and I were just discussing on Facebook. Mine would be the Community Manager for a rock band. Hers would be a sports team. What about you?
Lea Marino:
I have my own Mac and Cheese oriented Twitter, @MacCheesy, so I would love to be the Cmgr for Kraft or S'Mac (a mac and cheese rest. in NYC)
79 weeks ago
79 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh
Halloween is over and I can feel the Holidays approaching quick. I get so much anxiety around the Holidays. Mostly around gift giving and being the guy who is always running around last minute looking for presents. So I'm determined to start early this year and probably do everything online. What do you guys think is an appropriate gift for bosses and colleagues? Can you buy them booze in your office culture or do you aim for something more tame?
81 weeks ago from The Boss-Employee Relationship, Beer and Wine1 more
Philip Goetz:
Work was kind of slow the next day. We only used a skeleton crew. MoreWork was kind of slow the next day. We only used a skeleton crew. www.texasmediasystems.com
80 weeks ago
80 weeks ago
Rebecca Thorman
I am REALLY excited today because I am officially credit card debt-free! It's all paid off and I'm pretty proud of myself. My next step was going to be to pay off my student loans (which have very low interest rates) or maybe my car (which I think has a 6% interest rate), or instead, re-build my emergency fund and then start donating to my Roth IRA again. What do you all think? Get rid of all debt or save a little first?
81 weeks ago from Personal Finance, Work/Life Blur, I am Gen Y, Credit Union Folks and Fans and Economics and Finance3 more
Sarah Peck, Kelly Ashworth and Ryan Healy recommended this
Rebecca Thorman:
Wow, thanks so much everyone! This was awesome to read everyone's replies. I sat down with my spreadsheet, worked the numbers and found that I ...MoreWow, thanks so much everyone! This was awesome to read everyone's replies. I sat down with my spreadsheet, worked the numbers and found that I will be able to max out my Roth IRA, fill my emergency fund back up and pay off my car loan completely by the end of next year - so that's the goal. I'll probably do split payments between savings and car loan as many suggested, and then roll over all to savings. Thanks so much again!
81 weeks ago
81 weeks ago
Barbara Hall
I'm having a major issue at work - ongoing for 3+ yrs. 2 women - Boomers - do not like me, and show zero respect no matter what I do, or how hard I work. Its just never good enough for them. One doesn't want me to learn her duties but then complains that I don't help her. I overheard their convo today and they are planning some sort of sabotage. Also, one does payroll & disclosed my salary/raise to the other. In previous incidents, it was brought to my boss' attention, but swept under the rug.
Barbara Hall:
@Dave - I will definitely take this experience with me and learn and grow from it. And thanks for the link - its hard to believe that some people ...More@Dave - I will definitely take this experience with me and learn and grow from it. And thanks for the link - its hard to believe that some people never grow out of this childish act of bullying.
82 weeks ago
82 weeks ago
Dave Ellis:
No problem. Happy to help.
Yup. It is truly sad. They are bitter, little insecure people who deal with their fears by trying to dominate others ...MoreNo problem. Happy to help.
Yup. It is truly sad. They are bitter, little insecure people who deal with their fears by trying to dominate others to make themselves feel more stable.
So sad for them...
82 weeks ago
Yup. It is truly sad. They are bitter, little insecure people who deal with their fears by trying to dominate others ...MoreNo problem. Happy to help.
Yup. It is truly sad. They are bitter, little insecure people who deal with their fears by trying to dominate others to make themselves feel more stable.
So sad for them...
82 weeks ago
TOP IDEA:
Barbara Hall
Do you ever wish your career ended up in a completely different direction? Every year when Discovery's Shark Week comes on, I whole heartedly wish I had become a marine biologist or something, so I could work with sharks. How do you juggle your passions? I have so many! I am already volunteering for another passion of mine.
Nidhi:
Ohh .. Absolutely .. i feel this all the time .. But then I realise that may be Iam not focussed enough in one thing .i keep dwindling from one ...MoreOhh .. Absolutely .. i feel this all the time .. But then I realise that may be Iam not focussed enough in one thing .i keep dwindling from one thing to another . I do have a career background in a particular area IT but I wish I could do something different , but most of the time thr r things which push you back like money , kids , home ......
83 weeks ago
83 weeks ago
Rebecca Thorman
This week is my first week working remotely for my job (the company is in Madison, Wis and I just moved to Washington, DC). So far, so good but I can tell I'm going to miss my colleagues! I've made my boss and closest co-worker get webcams so we can video chat; we already use gchat and phone. I'm going to check out some coffee shops and occasionally work from my boyfriend's office. Are there are other suggestions to stay in the loop and not become isolated?
85 weeks ago from Productivity & Time-Management, Location Independent, Relocation, Working w/ Colleagues and Co-Workers and Washington D.C.3 more
Ryan Healy, Stephanie Springer, Becky Benishek and Rebecca Thorman and 1 others recommended this
Elysa Rice:
JRandom42: the security of wifis in a great question. my work pays for a Verizon MiFi for me to use to have internet anywhere.
83 weeks ago
83 weeks ago
Patrick Pho:
Two things:
I encourage the employees on my client team that work on-site in Detroit to contribute to employee communications like the weekly ...MoreTwo things:
I encourage the employees on my client team that work on-site in Detroit to contribute to employee communications like the weekly newsletter- so they feel more connected and we have a slice of their life as well.
Second, Northside Social is the go to place in Clarendon for coffee/laptopping but check out Java Shack in Court House for an off-the beaten path place as well.
83 weeks ago
I encourage the employees on my client team that work on-site in Detroit to contribute to employee communications like the weekly ...MoreTwo things:
I encourage the employees on my client team that work on-site in Detroit to contribute to employee communications like the weekly newsletter- so they feel more connected and we have a slice of their life as well.
Second, Northside Social is the go to place in Clarendon for coffee/laptopping but check out Java Shack in Court House for an off-the beaten path place as well.
83 weeks ago
Adam Gilbert
Staying consistent with our diet and exercise is by far the biggest challenge when it comes to getting in shape. I'm wondering what you guys find to be the biggest hurdles in remaining consistent and meeting your workout goals. Maybe I can help you overcome some of those hurdles?
83 weeks ago from Fit Freaks
Adam Gilbert:
@Becky - exactly right. When hunger socks us, we're most likely to give in to our short term, irrational mind. That's why eating every 3-4 hours ...More@Becky - exactly right. When hunger socks us, we're most likely to give in to our short term, irrational mind. That's why eating every 3-4 hours helps so much.
@Hannah - how about just plan old walking? Or dancing? And focus on how exercise makes us feel when we're done. That's the ultimate motivation - how great we'll get to feel.
83 weeks ago
@Hannah - how about just plan old walking? Or dancing? And focus on how exercise makes us feel when we're done. That's the ultimate motivation - how great we'll get to feel.
83 weeks ago
Becky Benishek:
@Adam, I've long eaten little meals throughout the day and I fully advocate that over waiting for "official" lunch and dinner times and then ...More@Adam, I've long eaten little meals throughout the day and I fully advocate that over waiting for "official" lunch and dinner times and then stuffing oneself.
@Hannah, I agree with walking. When I can, I get out over lunch with a walking buddy who really pounds the pavement, and we gab the whole time as we're looking at the scenery. It makes the hour go by fast, and at the end I really feel that I've had a workout.
83 weeks ago
@Hannah, I agree with walking. When I can, I get out over lunch with a walking buddy who really pounds the pavement, and we gab the whole time as we're looking at the scenery. It makes the hour go by fast, and at the end I really feel that I've had a workout.
83 weeks ago
Mark Dykeman
Are there many people out there who are feeling stuck, unfocused and dangerously disorganized?
83 weeks ago from Blogging Ideas, Creatively Inspired and Entrepreneurs1 more
Bryon Ownby, Robin Mills, derek johnson and Ty Unglebower and 1 others recommended this
Mark Dykeman:
Wow, thanks for your feedback, guys! I've tried to create something to help people out with this, too. You can check out my blog for more ...MoreWow, thanks for your feedback, guys! I've tried to create something to help people out with this, too. You can check out my blog for more information.
83 weeks ago
83 weeks ago
Linda A. Hamilton:
Mark -- a little late information. Hallmark Cards in Kansas City, MO. had a program where its writers' would go outdoors, spend time taking walks, ...MoreMark -- a little late information. Hallmark Cards in Kansas City, MO. had a program where its writers' would go outdoors, spend time taking walks, going to the zoo, doing different things that helped ease any writer's block or rut sticks. It proved invaluable in that writers because more prolific because they weren't confined to their desks. Many celebrity writers have created their best work on napkins in a restaurant. I wrote a poem published several times during a Christmas party between the meal and dessert; two others came while riding horseback. I always carry pen and paper with me. Working out is also great, as mentioned above. Alex Haley often washed his hands when stuck because it seemed to release his mind and open thought channels. As for a job rut, do the same things... it helps free your mind and release any stress helping you pinpoint those hidden ideas or purpose you want to achieve.
83 weeks ago
83 weeks ago
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84 weeks ago
Ryan Healy
First day in the new Brazen office DC (Tyson's Corner). Looking forward to meeting or catching up with as many of you DC peeps as possible in the next few weeks! Anyone work in Tyson's?
85 weeks ago from Washington D.C. and NOVA
Ryan Healy:
@Doug - We are here for good, so anytime we should meet up! you can email me at More@Doug - We are here for good, so anytime we should meet up! you can email me at ryanhealy@brazencareerist.com
@Carrie - thanks! Where do you live in the area?
@sean - of course, we're always open. Come on down, should be fun!
85 weeks ago
@Carrie - thanks! Where do you live in the area?
@sean - of course, we're always open. Come on down, should be fun!
85 weeks ago
Jeffrey Alexander:
If you find yourself someplace that's Metro-accessible, give a shout-out--I'm sure plenty of us would be interested to hear what you're up to.
84 weeks ago
84 weeks ago
Elysa Rice
what's the most random iPhone/Droid/BB app you have? ready go
Elysa Rice:
for the sake of posterity your random suggestions (and those from my Facebook friends) are now made into an app list on Appolicious for all the ...Morefor the sake of posterity your random suggestions (and those from my Facebook friends) are now made into an app list on Appolicious for all the world to be able to download/share your random apps :) http://appo.me/f12k7
Lindsey I can add yours if you let me know the name of it.
84 weeks ago
Lindsey I can add yours if you let me know the name of it.
84 weeks ago
Karla Mercado
Bananas were on sale, so I had to hoard them of course, though I know for sure I wasn't going to be able to keep pace with its ripening. So for the borderline overripe banana leftovers, I made this awesome banana walnut bread. http://bit.ly/aPzWU6
Christopher Olson:
Since you are only using them for baking, you can freeze the over ripened bananas for later use, too. Just in a ziplock bag is fine.
85 weeks ago
85 weeks ago
Mehnaz Thawer:
Here's a trick. If you've got a bunch of bananas and you think that they might ripen faster than you can consume them, take the bunch apart. ...MoreHere's a trick. If you've got a bunch of bananas and you think that they might ripen faster than you can consume them, take the bunch apart. Apparently separating the bananas slows down the ripening process....Interesting eh?
84 weeks ago
84 weeks ago
Tyler Durbin
I'm curious to hear exactly how much the recession has affected the lives of Gen-Y. Let's also stray from the obvious about jobs not being available or even being lost. For example, I don't feel many of the effects: I had no money in the market, no 401(k) to tank, no credit card debt. It makes my job a little more difficult but that's about it. What about you personally?
85 weeks ago from GenYJourney: Tips, Insights, Experiences For Young Professionals, Entry-Level Young Professionals and Young Entrepreneur Community1 more
Jessica Bahr:
I think a lot of people use graduate school as their backup plan when they can't find a job in their industry.
85 weeks ago
85 weeks ago
Nikita T. Mitchell:
I agree with you, I personally can't say I've felt it being that I was lucky enough to have a job right after graduating in 08. My 401K was ...MoreI agree with you, I personally can't say I've felt it being that I was lucky enough to have a job right after graduating in 08. My 401K was starting at $0, like yours as well. I had credit card debt but my situation with that didn't really change other than my increased desire to get everything paid off asap!
85 weeks ago
85 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh
I just realized how much meat I have accumulated in my freezer from the farmers market this year. I need to start doing something with it all. So as I pull out something new to defrost I'm going to ask you guys what you think I should do with it. For tonight I'm defrosting sweet sausage. Send me ideas, links, recipes, etc. I gotta use this meat!
85 weeks ago from Brazen Foodies and I Love to Cook!
Michael E Cantone recommended this
Ryan Paugh:
Just wanted to let you guys know that the recipe I mentioned above was freaking awesome! It calls for roasted red peppers. I decided to roast my ...MoreJust wanted to let you guys know that the recipe I mentioned above was freaking awesome! It calls for roasted red peppers. I decided to roast my own as opposed to buying them. Never done that before and it was easier than I thought. Give it a try sometime. Also, I have more meat in my fridge and I need to cook it, so I'll be posting here again soon. Thanks for supporting the Empty Ryan's Freezer Project :)
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