Get over the fact that your life is not some dumb ad for a bottle of wine. You think you want this--the perfect drink, the perfect twosome, the perfect backdrop. But you know what is way more interesting? A spill. Maybe on a new suit. Maybe a grape harvest that didn't go so well. The interesting part of life is when things are sucking, and you're figuring out what to do. If your life is an ad for a bottle of wine, then you will just be drunk.