To most people, L.A. is a joke. An overly-tanned, smog-filled, traffic-jammed superficial joke. For me, it’s been the most exciting adventure of my life.
When I enthusiastically respond to the question “how are you liking L.A.?” I get the feeling that most of the time, people think I’m exaggerating. That I’m justifying my choice to move here. That I have to keep convincing myself that I made the right decision. Really, who loves L.A.?
I do.
I’ve had experiences here I couldn’t have had anywhere else. I got to work as an artist escort on the Grammy red carpet where I literally ran into the biggest names in music (sorry, Tony Bennett). I listened to Kirk Douglas reminisce about his experiences making the epic Spartacus. I worked on a studio lot where everyday, I walked by movies and television shows in production. I’ve watched friends play a show at the Roxy on Sunset. I’ve gone to tapings of “The Tonight Show With Jay Leno” and “Deal or No Deal” on a whim. I watched Kid Rock open a bottle of beer in his mouth backstage at a Kenny Chesney concert. I’ve listened to the producer of Roman Holiday tell stories about Ronald Reagan, John Wayne, and the Golden Age of Hollywood. For someone working in the entertainment industry, Los Angeles is it.
In L.A. I feel like I’m on vacation 11 months out of the year. It’s not unusual to make a trip to the beach in January. I can’t remember the last time I wore real shoes instead of flip-flops. When I wear a scarf, it’s because the air conditioning in my office is too cold.
I’ve noticed that L.A. gets a bad rap for lack of culture. What signifies culture? Museums? Visit the J. Paul Getty Museum and see for yourself the brushstrokes of Van Gogh’s “Irises” and various works by Monet, Manet, and Renoir – for FREE. Educational institutions? ULCA and USC (among others) infiltrate the city with their academic pursuits. History? The abundance of historic missions give insight into California’s development. Or go a little farther into the past by perusing Ice Age fossils at the La Brea Tar Pits. Architecture? Go admire the many buildings designed by Frank Gehry or Frank Lloyd Wright. Artistic communities? North Hollywood is a creative conglomerate of Bohemian locals pursuing acting, art, and writing. For the performing arts, catch the L.A. Philharmonic at the world-renown Walt Disney Concert Hall, or be part of an act’s live album recording at the Greek Amphitheater in Griffith Park – one of the largest urban parks in the country.
One of the best things about Los Angeles is that living in the city is about as urban as you can get, but at the same time you don’t have to go far to get away from it all. There are numerous canyons to hike, state parks to camp in, and trails to bike. Take a short drive north on the Pacific Coast Highway and suddenly it’s just you and the vast expanse of the Pacific Ocean.
As glamorous and surreal as some of my experiences have been, I’m also aware of the realities of living in Los Angeles. It is expensive. I pay three times in rent what I would at home in Seattle or at school in Nashville. Gas is consistently 25 to 50 cents more per gallon than most parts of the country. Traffic is bad, but it’s predictable.
Is L.A. superficial? If you hang out in Beverly Hills or spend weekend nights in line outside the club du jour then sure, you’ll find people who buy into the L.A. “image”. But I can honestly say that 95 percent of the people I’ve met here are intelligent, down-to-earth, interesting, and genuinely kind.
I’ve lived in the Pacific Northwest, the Midwest, and the South and have great affection for the other cities I’ve spent time in. But if you’re looking for adventure, nothing comes close to L.A.
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I enjoyed your post. Andrea Zak also wrote one about Los Angeles, which was enjoyable as well. Its interesting - if I were asked to write something about L.A., it would be very different from your take. Not entirely, but I've had a completely different experience. I'm sure most cities are this way - you can take three different people (in this case, three women - you, andrea, and myself) of about the same age and get completely different insights on the same town. Mine might also be because I'm a native and not trying to get into the industry.
I'm glad you like it here. I meet a lot of people who don't. For some people, it isn't their cup of tea. Others who want to get into the industry might not get the experiences you've had - being backstage at a concert, listening to Kirk Douglas, etc. Others hate the weather. Yes, I've met people who hate the weather here. But that's fine. LA is crowded enough as it is - they can take the places that have the winter and I'll enjoy the sunshine. :-)
As a native of Los Angeles, I can't thank you enough for helping to dispel the overwhelming stereotype we have of our people. I'm neither blonde nor tanned, and I am definitely a deeper thinker than given credit.
I did like what you listed for our culture - accurate enough to pass fact-checking with flying colors. You might also then be interested in the subcultures that lie underneath those; the independent rock bands and artist communities of Echo Park and Silverlake, the neo-hippies at Venice Beach, the hidden bar scene in downtown.
As you've written, there's something for everyone, it is just hidden under a maze of freeways and suburbs. Glad to see you've found your way around - many transplants don't get that far!
There really is something for everyone. In the winter we even go snowshoeing, and don't have to drive more than about 90 minutes total to do so. But if there's a way to edit your post, it's "UCLA." I've lived a lot of places all over the country, and I, too, love L.A.
I can't agree with this anymore! I fell in love with LA at first sight, if not before that and it's been nothing but wonderful to me. There's something for everyone, it's not just the industry (although that's where my ambition lies) but many other industries have strong presences in LA. There's so many diverse types of people here not just in race but in points of view and personalities-shallow is DEFINITELY not the only thing. LA is the land where dreams and possibility live, where creativity is valued right at the top and where discovery can be found if you go out and find it. The beautiful weather of course helps, why experiencing the pains of cold when you could look up and see the beautiful sun shining warmth on your skin as palm trees dot the sky.