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Growing up Asperger's

How do you deal?

Network Leader: Another_1

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Another_1 Only if you have a prescription

126 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

Another_1 But I am here, and I can provide a shortcut! No error, just try and see it working!

126 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: Can I have some of Pirelli's Miracle Elixir with that?
126 weeks ago

Another_1 And how does one determines which is which?

126 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: Trial and error, inconvenient though it is — error, mostly.
126 weeks ago

: I don't remember where this comes from, but "Good judgement comes from experience, which comes from bad judgement."
126 weeks ago

Another_1 why a person cannot modify his behavior to make his life easier? Is it because he is unable, or because he is unwilling?

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: Most things can be changed, some are easier than others, and some things shouldn't have to.
127 weeks ago

Another_1 Here is a pattern - he complains of a difficulty with his classmates, I suggest smth - he explains to me why this would not work. I am stuck

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: This is indeed a tough one, and he's only going to get better at it; though this pattern is by no means unique to aspies.
127 weeks ago

: You might argue that he's being unscientific; it isn't science if you don't try it.
127 weeks ago

Another_1 But this is interesting, that you cannot be convinced to change your behavior. But if you -think- it hurts you?

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

Another_1 He does know that other children think that he is weird, and he is concerned. Conversations are one-sided, and this is a problem, too.

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: Finding people with similar interests is a problem I've never grown out of, but it gets easier as peers get older and begin to specialize.
127 weeks ago

: If everyone thinks your weird, just hang out with the people who think that's a good thing.
127 weeks ago

Focus on behaviors that can be real impediments: asking strangers for what he wants/needs (ordering food), being comfortable in crowds, etc.

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: Another important one: knowing who to cooperate with (authority figures) and who not to (everyone else), and polite non-cooperation
127 weeks ago

Another_1: Crowds are not a problem as far as I can see. He just ignores it ;)
127 weeks ago

Another_1 Mostly advices on how to behave as not to come across as "weird". Do I ask him not to "walk funny", or will this "stifle his creativity"?

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

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: Coming across as "weird" becomes more advantageous in adolescence and adulthood, as long as he can carry a conversation.
127 weeks ago

: Eccentricity that children would insult can range from being impressive to mysterious to endearing in a well-adjusted adult.
127 weeks ago

Another_1 ..after giving some more thought to it I realized that my goal is not to discuss parenting at all. Living and working with Asperger's is it.

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

Another_1 Jeremy, my goals do not have to define what this group is used for. I hope it can be useful in more than one way.

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

: Agreed; but it will be disappointing if it isn't useful for at least your goals.
127 weeks ago

What does going back in time have to do uniquely with Asperger's?

127 weeks ago from Growing up Asperger's

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: So you're goal for this group is to discuss parenting Asperger's, rather than living and working with it?
127 weeks ago

: What help does this child need, if saying so doesn't disclose individually identifiable health information?
127 weeks ago

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