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ENFP's

The Inspirer

As an ENFP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system.

ENFPs are warm, enthusiastic people, typically very bright and full of potential. They live in the world of possibilities, and can become very passionate and excited about things. Their enthusiasm lends them the ability to inspire and motivate others, more so than we see in other types. They can talk their way in or out of anything. They love life, seeing it as a special gift, and strive to make the most out of it.

ENFPs have an unusually broad range of skills and talents. They are good at most things which interest them. Project-oriented, they may go through several different careers during their lifetime. To onlookers, the ENFP may seem directionless and without purpose, but ENFPs are actually quite consistent, in that they have a strong sense of values which they live with throughout their lives. Everything that they do must be in line with their values. An ENFP needs to feel that they are living their lives as their true Self, walking in step with what they believe is right. They see meaning in everything, and are on a continuous quest to adapt their lives and values to achieve inner peace. They're constantly aware and somewhat fearful of losing touch with themselves. Since emotional excitement is usually an important part of the ENFP's life, and because they are focused on keeping "centered", the ENFP is usually an intense individual, with highly evolved values.

An ENFP needs to focus on following through with their projects. This can be a problem area for some of these individuals. Unlike other Extraverted types, ENFPs need time alone to center themselves, and make sure they are moving in a direction which is in sync with their values. ENFPs who remain centered will usually be quite successful at their endeavors. Others may fall into the habit of dropping a project when they become excited about a new possibility, and thus they never achieve the great accomplishments which they are capable of achieving.

Most ENFPs have great people skills. They are genuinely warm and interested in people, and place great importance on their inter-personal relationships. ENFPs almost always have a strong need to be liked. Sometimes, especially at a younger age, an ENFP will tend to be "gushy" and insincere, and generally "overdo" in an effort to win acceptance. However, once an ENFP has learned to balance their need to be true to themselves with their need for acceptance, they excel at bringing out the best in others, and are typically well-liked. They have an exceptional ability to intuitively understand a person after a very short period of time, and use their intuition and flexibility to relate to others on their own level.

Because ENFPs live in the world of exciting possibilities, the details of everyday life are seen as trivial drudgery. They place no importance on detailed, maintenance-type tasks, and will frequently remain oblivous to these types of concerns. When they do have to perform these tasks, they do not enjoy themselves. This is a challenging area of life for most ENFPs, and can be frustrating for ENFP's family members.

An ENFP who has "gone wrong" may be quite manipulative - and very good it. The gift of gab which they are blessed with makes it naturally easy for them to get what they want. Most ENFPs will not abuse their abilities, because that would not jive with their value systems.

ENFPs sometimes make serious errors in judgment. They have an amazing ability to intuitively perceive the truth about a person or situation, but when they apply judgment to their perception, they may jump to the wrong conclusions.

ENFPs who have not learned to follow through may have a difficult time remaining happy in marital relationships. Always seeing the possibilities of what could be, they may become bored with what actually is. The strong sense of values will keep many ENFPs dedicated to their relationships. However, ENFPs like a little excitement in their lives, and are best matched with individuals who are comfortable with change and new experiences.

Having an ENFP parent can be a fun-filled experience, but may be stressful at times for children with strong Sensing or Judging tendancies. Such children may see the ENFP parent as inconsistent and difficult to understand, as the children are pulled along in the whirlwind life of the ENFP. Sometimes the ENFP will want to be their child's best friend, and at other times they will play the parental authoritarian. But ENFPs are always consistent in their value systems, which they will impress on their children above all else, along with a basic joy of living.

ENFPs are basically happy people. They may become unhappy when they are confined to strict schedules or mundane tasks. Consequently, ENFPs work best in situations where they have a lot of flexibility, and where they can work with people and ideas. Many go into business for themselves. They have the ability to be quite productive with little supervision, as long as they are excited about what they're doing.

Because they are so alert and sensitive, constantly scanning their environments, ENFPs often suffer from muscle tension. They have a strong need to be independent, and resist being controlled or labelled. They need to maintain control over themselves, but they do not believe in controlling others. Their dislike of dependence and suppression extends to others as well as to themselves.

ENFPs are charming, ingenuous, risk-taking, sensitive, people-oriented individuals with capabilities ranging across a broad spectrum. They have many gifts which they will use to fulfill themselves and those near them, if they are able to remain centered and master the ability of following through.

Jungian functional preference ordering for ENFP:

Dominant: Extraverted Intuition
Auxiliary: Introverted Feeling
Tertiary: Extraverted Thinking
Inferior: Introverted Sensing

Network Leader: Eugene Yee
 
Eugene Yee I'll be honest, i waver between ENFP and ENTP :P

106 weeks ago from ENFP's

 
Eugene Yee @Cynthia: First of all, it's "competitive". (lol, irony?) Secondly, "winning" an arguments has very little to do with who gets the last word in, and more to do with how both parties treat each other after the argument. lol~ If you want to end an argument, just agree with them~ If you let them win the battle, and if you guys still like each other afterward, you both win the war. erf erf :P

106 weeks ago from ENFP's

 
Cynthia Welch Hi fellow ENFPers. So I thought I'd pose my career question on this post because we share personality traits and maybe you can understand why my current situation troubles me. So there is a very competative person in my workplace. Every meeting turns into a competition on who's better. I dont enjoy this, nor do I want to spend all waking hours over compensating and working extra hard to try to "show up" anyone on the next meeting. I prefer to stay out of conflict. Any advice?

106 weeks ago from ENFP's

 
Em I've got a question has anyone be able to do this yet, "if they are able to remain centered and master the ability of following through?" Wow am I the worst with that!

111 weeks ago from ENFP's

Jung Fitzpatrick: That is an interesting pull-out quote. I don't feel like I'm not centered when I follow through with things. Obviously, it's easier for me to ...MoreThat is an interesting pull-out quote. I don't feel like I'm not centered when I follow through with things. Obviously, it's easier for me to complete projects/tasks when I enjoy them or am excited about them. From a meditation perspective, being excited about something is not the same as being centered, so in that case, I'm not fulfilling the question's dilemma!
111 weeks ago
Em: And your comment about sums up our personality profile LOL. There is something there though with the staying excited part. The thrill of ideas is ...MoreAnd your comment about sums up our personality profile LOL. There is something there though with the staying excited part. The thrill of ideas is a great way to fuel a project! Has anyone been able to stay excited about a single project all the way through?
111 weeks ago
 
Jane Dedek Hi Cynthia, Personally, I'm a technology trainer, presales, and best practice consultant, recently dabbling in social media and marketingish areas... I'm the "SME" who's good at warm and fuzzy client interaction without having to get too bogged down in the details or politics. But it took me ages to figure out these were my strengths. :)

117 weeks ago from ENFP's

Cynthia Welch: "not getting bogged down in the details or politics" Love that! I think I'm at my most discouraged when I present a "great" idea that will make ...More"not getting bogged down in the details or politics" Love that! I think I'm at my most discouraged when I present a "great" idea that will make things soo much better just to have my boss say... we need to enter a change management and get it approved by the CCB and run it by operations.
116 weeks ago
 
Cynthia Welch Hi fellow ENFPs or is the correct term fellow ENFPers? I am curious as to what you do for a living and if you are happy in your chosen profession. Many thanks-hope to hear from you soon

117 weeks ago from ENFP's

CaroLyn Jimenez (Schneider): Hi Cynthia. I manage a tech help desk at a university. I LOVE my work. I do a lot of writing, coaching and some geeky stuff, but I'm not stuck in ...MoreHi Cynthia. I manage a tech help desk at a university. I LOVE my work. I do a lot of writing, coaching and some geeky stuff, but I'm not stuck in a room with a computer all day. I spend a lot of time advocating for my customers (faculty, staff and students) as well as interpreting policy and legislation as it applies to our customers. Every day is interesting and often challenging.
117 weeks ago
Jung Fitzpatrick: Heya ENFPeepz...I do communications and marketing for a nonprofit and I think the role and sector are a good fit for me. Like Jane, I like the ...MoreHeya ENFPeepz...I do communications and marketing for a nonprofit and I think the role and sector are a good fit for me. Like Jane, I like the warm and fuzzy client interaction and wish I had more on a daily basis. Politics can frustrate my harmony seeking sensibilities. Details of big projects can definitely overwhelm me--I'd rather coordinate or manage! I'm applying for grad school so I can fast track into management and foster great working environments and relationships!
115 weeks ago
 
Jane Dedek When I first read the description, I nearly fell off my chair laughing. It's so pointedly true, it's almost scary!

117 weeks ago from ENFP's

 
Jung Fitzpatrick Heck yeah, I'm an ENFP! Hello all!

119 weeks ago from ENFP's

 
CaroLyn Jimenez (Schneider) ENFPs unite! Blogged about my ENFP test awhile back: http://is.gd/47Ch9

121 weeks ago from ENFP's

 
Eugene Yee Just because nobody made one yet.

122 weeks ago from ENFP's

 

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