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Ryan Paugh Do you swear on your blog? Just read an article on NPR (http://n.pr/8Xtpst) about the emotional impact that profanity can have when used by authorities. They mentioned Yahoo CEO Carol Bartz and President Obama as examples. They also mentioned that strategic profanity doesn't work for every personality and that it should be used with discretion. I've dropped an F-bomb or two on my blog. I try not to do it a lot. What about you guys?

7 weeks ago from Blogging Ideas and Brazen Bloggers

Jake LaCaze: I use words like "damn", "ass", "smartass", etc., but I shy away from F-bombs and S-bombs. In my personal life, my language can be fairly ...MoreI use words like "damn", "ass", "smartass", etc., but I shy away from F-bombs and S-bombs. In my personal life, my language can be fairly colorful, but in a professional setting, I tend to be more reserved. Although I don't want my blog to have a corporate feel, I try to keep it somewhat professional.
7 weeks ago
Jamie Nacht Farrell: Fuck yea, I curse on my blog! ( ; Ok, I agree with @Jake. It would seem that there are certain words that are "more acceptable" to use in our ...MoreFuck yea, I curse on my blog! ( ; Ok, I agree with @Jake. It would seem that there are certain words that are "more acceptable" to use in our everyday conversation and those are the words that most use on blogs.

That said, I have cursed / used the F bomb on my blog; only twice. Both times, I think the point hit home.

7 weeks ago
William Bryan: I drop the f-bomb and ass on a couple, but I think if you use in discretion you are fine. But if all your blogs are curse words then idk what you ...MoreI drop the f-bomb and ass on a couple, but I think if you use in discretion you are fine. But if all your blogs are curse words then idk what you are trying to promote on your blog. Just my opinion. And it depends on the blog as well. If it is emotional than yea with discretion again.
7 weeks ago
Becki Howard: I don't curse regularly in my every day life, but I will for emphasis or humor occasionally. On my blog, I don't know that I have a huge audience, ...MoreI don't curse regularly in my every day life, but I will for emphasis or humor occasionally. On my blog, I don't know that I have a huge audience, but I do know that some younger family members read the blog and I try to be sensitive and respectful of that. If there's a way I can get my point across without cursing I'll take that road.
7 weeks ago
Paul Balcerak: I stick to mostly late-night TV standards, though I am partial to using "shitstorm" every now and again. I've dropped F-bombs, but only when I'm ...MoreI stick to mostly late-night TV standards, though I am partial to using "shitstorm" every now and again. I've dropped F-bombs, but only when I'm quoting someone (I hardly ever censor anything) because, like Jake said, I like to keep things relaxed but professional.

Good topic! :)

7 weeks ago
Jake LaCaze: To build on Paul's point, the only time I've dropped an F-bomb on my blog was when I referenced the documentary "Refused Are Fucking Dead," but ...MoreTo build on Paul's point, the only time I've dropped an F-bomb on my blog was when I referenced the documentary "Refused Are Fucking Dead," but even then, I called it "Refused Are F***ing Dead".
7 weeks ago
Bill Bass: I really try to avoid profanity altogether. There's no moral or religous basis. It's just more intelligent and ultimately garners more respect to ...MoreI really try to avoid profanity altogether. There's no moral or religous basis. It's just more intelligent and ultimately garners more respect to have a command of language such that profanity is not necessary. Obama's "kicking ass" comment was comical and came only after media outcry that he wasn't being tough enough. Although a great speaker, his strong suit will never be showing emotion of any kind. Languages are wonderful things and resorting to profanity seems like sort of a short cut and taking the easy way out. Before we had kids, my wife and I cussed like sailors. Now we are the ultimate hypocrites (i.e. doing our job) in insisting that our teenagers tow the line on profanity. In a highly competitive world, having a strong command of language is an easy way to set yourself apart. As far as influence goes, no one has ever motivated me by flaming. Really just the opposite. So, while not offended by profanity, I just deem it unnecessary. Do I live by my standard? Yes - in writing or voicemail - because I'm creating a permanent record. On the golf course or hanging out with friends, it's much harder.
7 weeks ago
Sharalyn Hartwell: I have to say I'm with @Bill here. Profanity on your blog, particularly dropping the F bomb with regularity, to me, exhibits a lack of ...MoreI have to say I'm with @Bill here. Profanity on your blog, particularly dropping the F bomb with regularity, to me, exhibits a lack of intelligence and extreme lacking command of language. If that is really the only adverb or adjective you can think of, then you probably aren't the writer you think you are.

I can see the validity of a well-timed profane word or two (I have my pets words I default to in frustration), but when it's the norm on blogs, entertainment (comedians, movies, late night TV, etc) or IRL, I can't help but question why they (the author, the person, etc.) can't come up with anything better.

7 weeks ago
Emily Jasper: I have done it a few times, usually when it doesn't seem like any word will do, or it's part of a phrase. Someone did mention it to me once that ...MoreI have done it a few times, usually when it doesn't seem like any word will do, or it's part of a phrase. Someone did mention it to me once that she was so surprised. Since it is pretty rare, she thought that it showed how I really felt because I didn't sugar coat the issue. Now, I try to keep those posts pretty far apart, because like swearing in conversation, it can make you come across in a manner you wouldn't want.
7 weeks ago
Ty Unglebower: I use them sometimes, as any regular reader of Too XYZ will note. Usually in my less formal posts. It gives them a sense of personal connection, I ...MoreI use them sometimes, as any regular reader of Too XYZ will note. Usually in my less formal posts. It gives them a sense of personal connection, I think. Like I am talking to someone in the room.


7 weeks ago
Raquel Elle Bell: I think it works for some people. There are some blogs that I read where it would seem strange without it, and then there are others that ...MoreI think it works for some people. There are some blogs that I read where it would seem strange without it, and then there are others that completely make me feel uncomfortable. I personally do not use the big words in my writing... personal life around friends yes...

@Ryan ~ I think if I read the F-bomb in your blog I might be a little shocked. Your professional nature doesn't seem to lend to that type of language. Perhaps if we were sailing port to port it might be appropriate.

7 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh: Great thoughts everybody. Keep 'em coming!

@Raquel -- Because I'm so active from a professional standpoint on Brazen Careerist I try ...More
Great thoughts everybody. Keep 'em coming!

@Raquel -- Because I'm so active from a professional standpoint on Brazen Careerist I try to make my own blog a bit more personal. One thing I struggle with a lot is just how personal I should allow myself to be.

Beyond debating with myself about when I should use profanity I always wonder how personal I should get. I talk about drinking sometimes. I haven't ever talked about sex, but I might if I thought it would be interesting to people.

When it comes down to it I want to tell a good story to people. I'm willing to take risks here and there, but with discretion.

7 weeks ago
Raquel Elle Bell: @Ryan - Hope you didn't think I was busting your chops... No worries I am a proponent of being yourself. If I don't like it someone else will and ...More@Ryan - Hope you didn't think I was busting your chops... No worries I am a proponent of being yourself. If I don't like it someone else will and if I don't well them who cares. Again you can't be all things to all people.
7 weeks ago
Thursday Bram: I've made a decision to try to limit my profanity in online venues. But a well-placed four-letter word can drive home a point in a way that ...MoreI've made a decision to try to limit my profanity in online venues. But a well-placed four-letter word can drive home a point in a way that nothing else can.
7 weeks ago
Grace Boyle: This is interesting! I swear sometimes on my blog, I would say about 40% of the time, but usually it's the lower-level swear words (if you will). ...MoreThis is interesting! I swear sometimes on my blog, I would say about 40% of the time, but usually it's the lower-level swear words (if you will).

However, everytime that I type and then publish that swear word, I'm cognizant it's there. It's not just a mistake. With that being said, I remember my audience and I think a lot of my blogging friends that swear make it a habit, it's part of their audience, their style and blog.

In general, I would rather hear eloquent words and thoughts, versus a post peppered (constantly) with swear words.

7 weeks ago
Ryan Paugh: @Raquel -- Nah, I didn't think you were busting my chops :)

Good point. You can't be all things to all people. The important thing ...More
@Raquel -- Nah, I didn't think you were busting my chops :)

Good point. You can't be all things to all people. The important thing is that you know who you are and go with it. As pointed out in the article I linked to from NPR, some personalities shouldn't use profanity. It looks inauthentic.

7 weeks ago
Mike Bennett: If it's in context, such as quoting conversation, then I'll use it but I can't recall using it any other time on my current blog. That stems ...MoreIf it's in context, such as quoting conversation, then I'll use it but I can't recall using it any other time on my current blog. That stems mostly from changing my mindset to use my blog as personal branding, so tend to keep it pretty clean.
7 weeks ago
Maggie McGary: F*ck yeah I do! Sometimes ;)
I've been blogging for over 5 years now and have made probably $10. I figure if blogging isn't going to be a ...More
F*ck yeah I do! Sometimes ;)
I've been blogging for over 5 years now and have made probably $10. I figure if blogging isn't going to be a money-maker for me, at the very least I should be able to say what I want to say and not worry about if people are going to think badly of me or not.

That said, as I've started blogging more about topics related to my profession, I admit that I watch my vocab more. On my professional blog; I still cuss on my personal one. ;)

7 weeks ago
Raquel Elle Bell: @Maggie - awh hahah LOL. That post totally cracked me up!
7 weeks ago
Taylor Mathis: I try really hard not to. I do not want to offend any of my readers who may find swearing offensive.
7 weeks ago
Elizabeth Marling: I may on occasion, but I "bleep" out the word with characters and just write the first and last letters of the word. Adults will know what it ...MoreI may on occasion, but I "bleep" out the word with characters and just write the first and last letters of the word. Adults will know what it means, a kid wouldn't unless they knew the word already, and I use them for humor only. I think using profanity in anything with a serious message undermines the authority of the author. Pretty poor vocab if you pick that word to actually describe what one thinks/feels.
7 weeks ago
Jake: I try hard to reframe from cursing, a few come out, but not a lot.
7 weeks ago
Marian Schembari: Always. Because that's how I am in "real life" and if people don't like my language online they probably won't like me in person either.
7 weeks ago
Ty Unglebower: Great point, Marian.

So much talk fills the internet about "having nothing to hide." That there should be ZERO difference between ...More
Great point, Marian.

So much talk fills the internet about "having nothing to hide." That there should be ZERO difference between who you really are, and what people see online. (Hence the push to have all privacy preference shut OFF on Facebook so that potential employers can check in on everything you are up to.) And yet to suddenly get modest when it comes to swearing on a blog? Whatever happened to being online the same way you are in real life? Do people who swear in person but don't in their blogs have "something to hide"?

I personally don't think it has to be one way or the other. I am just surprised by the dichotomy that sometimes exists in some people between, "let in all hang out online" and "but never swear on your blog...that's just not professional."

7 weeks ago
Raquel Elle Bell: Personally I really like the f-word and I use it a lot, but I don't around my parents, in church(if I went which I don't, but you get the point), ...MorePersonally I really like the f-word and I use it a lot, but I don't around my parents, in church(if I went which I don't, but you get the point), during business meetings with people I don't know.. ETC. I think that there is a time and place for everything and with the Internet as an open forum I think that perhaps filtering yourself is not such a bad thing. Just because you don't spout off like a sailor on your blog or in your writing doesn't mean that you are not being yourself or being real. It's simply taking into account that there are all kinds of people out there and it's not going to hurt to be a little respectful. It's different when you are standing in front of someone and you drop the f-bomb in context, but in writing people don't always know who you are, or what the true context is. It's writing and things can be misconstrued then who you really are is irrelevant. Cursing may be your thing, but it may also be a part of your personality that comes across when you are face to face with someone and may not in a blog.
7 weeks ago
Kyle Hendrickson: This is a really good thing to be discussing and I'm glad you brought it up, Ryan.

I have absolutely no issue with people who swear ...More
This is a really good thing to be discussing and I'm glad you brought it up, Ryan.

I have absolutely no issue with people who swear on occasion; particularly to drive a point home or sharing humor. But when things get to the point that it's every other sentence, I do feel that it is both irritating and displays a lack of intelligence.

I look at it this way: I don't want to read the same word over and over, no matter what it is. For instance, if some people think they may swear too often in their blogs, try this exercise: replace the swear words in your blog with the word "elephant".

Okay. Now go back and read your blog.

Are you sick of reading the word elephant yet? Do you feel like the most prominent thing you communicated was that you have elephants on the brain?

Overuse of profanity communicates a laziness or inability to effectively communicate without using the same words time and time again.

To me, people that swear constantly communicate more like cavemen than the rest of us, so yeah, it does give the impression of being a less intelligent person.

Having come from a community of online video game reviewers, I cannot begin to express how annoying it is, the extent to which they abuse profanity in order to bring in laughs or views. As a writer and content creator, it has driven me absolutely bonkers in the past.

7 weeks ago
Mehnaz Thawer: I never use the big ones. that being said, I don't really swear when i speak either, so it's just natural for me not to be profane. I'll have ...MoreI never use the big ones. that being said, I don't really swear when i speak either, so it's just natural for me not to be profane. I'll have my days, but if anybody is combining a personal and professional blog, it's probably not the greatest idea.
7 weeks ago
Lindsey Donner: This coming from the person who just wrote a long ode to "crap," I have to say that I appreciate profanity immensely when it's funny, or in ...MoreThis coming from the person who just wrote a long ode to "crap," I have to say that I appreciate profanity immensely when it's funny, or in genuine outrage, but rarely for any other reason. And although I use a fair amount of colorful language when speaking, I try not to when I write, unless there's a strong reason for it. More often than not, there isn't.

Gifted writers and communicators can interject any word they like and make it work. Lazy and/or poor writers and communicators use the f-bomb as a preposition, adjective, adverb, and so on, ad infinitum, simply because they didn't have the energy to think of a real word.

That said, I do "like" "What the F--- Should I Make for Dinner" on Facebook. Part of the humor? They are making fun of the word's over-use. By overusing it. Gotta love it!

7 weeks ago
Cooper: Despite most swearing on blogs being emotive in nature the referential meaning of the words are often considered vulgar. I say no because of ...MoreDespite most swearing on blogs being emotive in nature the referential meaning of the words are often considered vulgar. I say no because of this.

The more words you know the less likely you are going to need to use profanity to convey your meaning. So, unless your audience is on the low end of the literate scale I'm not convinced it's a good idea to swear on a blog if your online presence and blog is meant to be significant to your career.


7 weeks ago
Annabel Candy: I will second Thursday! Surely ass isn't a swear word though... it's a bit childish but not profane? Some bloggers have built their careers on ...MoreI will second Thursday! Surely ass isn't a swear word though... it's a bit childish but not profane? Some bloggers have built their careers on cussing and good for them. Got to speak to those readers in the language they use:)
7 weeks ago
Marian Schembari: Alright, y'all, I got really excited yesterday reading all these responses so I wrote a blog post about it. Will be curious to see what you have ...MoreAlright, y'all, I got really excited yesterday reading all these responses so I wrote a blog post about it. Will be curious to see what you have to say: HELL NO I Won't Censor My Blog http://bit.ly/dpG9V8
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