Visible Advice

10.10.08
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Go to New York for the choices. Look. You can read anything even in those ten minutes when you're waiting for the subway. The thing about choices, though, is that you only need a lot of choices until you know what you like. Then you need very few choices. You just need a path, really, to get to what you like. So be at the right place at the right time: Open your world when you don't know where you're headed. And limit distractions when you know what you want.

10.09.08
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People are so high and mighty when it comes to being honest. Newsflash: It's a complicated issue. Everyone thinks they are honest, but honesty is not black and white. For example, is it honest with yourself, to your own standard? Or honest to someone else's standard? When is it okay to leave a job off a resume? Maybe always. When is it cheating to ask a friend for help on a test? Sometimes. Some cases. It's like apple pie: Some people buy a crust and some don't. Do you have to tell?

10.08.08
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Get over the fact that your life is not some dumb ad for a bottle of wine. You think you want this--the perfect drink, the perfect twosome, the perfect backdrop. But you know what is way more interesting? A spill. Maybe on a new suit. Maybe a grape harvest that didn't go so well. The interesting part of life is when things are sucking, and you're figuring out what to do. If your life is an ad for a bottle of wine, then you will just be drunk.

10.07.08
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When you see gourds, what do you think of? How about entrepreneurship? Because any farmer who has made it this far into the new millennium has beaten incredible odds to get those gourds to the farmer's market. Each farmer has survived by retooling the business model to compete with the mega-farm. If you think you have an idea, but you're too scared to try it, trail a farmer for a day to understand that it's the process of finding a good life that makes a good entrepreneur. Not whether or not your first idea works.

10.06.08
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Forget your golf game. Admit that it's a game of elitist people who have no respect for land conservation issues (Palm Springs, anyone?) or gender issues (Augusta National, for example). Admit that it takes space and time and money to be decent at golf. If you are really global, you will learn to get good at the great equalizer of all sports: Soccer.

10.03.08
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Do not be a person who picks out the sugar stuff first. It's too sweet. An adult with a self-respecting palate knows that the sugar is too much unless it's in a bit with the bland brown O's. Your work is a box of Lucky Charms. You cannot eat all charms. Gross. You'll change cereals the next day. You want work that has Os and charms and both are better with each other. Fix it so it all goes well together.

10.02.08

Some of my favorite moments of my working life were when I was an hourly worker. There are quiet moments of an hourly worker on break that you never see again when you have a knowledge worker job. I remember sitting in bathrooms reading Jane Eyre. I remember hiding in dark, quiet alleys laughing softly with co-workers. The soft spots of the workplace are hard to find. Take them when you can. You are lucky in that moment, no matter what your wage is.

10.01.08
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Spring is full of pinks and yellows and the bright, regal tulips could outshine anything that is burnt orange and odd-shapen. In the fall, the pumpkins can compete. Sure there is a leaf or two each year that makes a pumpkin look dull. But in fall, pumpkins look cheerful and fun and like one last hurrah before snowfall. Nature is a good source of product marketing lessons. And timing is so important.

09.30.08

You don't want to feel like your company has you on a leash. But also, you don't want to be so independent that no one wants to work with you. You should be compatible, but not tied down. Like, maybe you should have a collar with a removable chain. Collars, maybe are not so bad, and really, a collar is a sign that you matter to people around you.

09.29.08
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You never really know when you'll do well and when you won't. You have to try things out and see. Maybe bad financial markets will be good for you. Maybe you will love marketing even though marketing people make you wretch. Maybe you will be the flower that can survive fall frost, petals intact.