
Realizing your inner strengths can be a difficult process when you're early in your career. You can do it the hard way by struggling through years of crappy work until you find something you're good at, or you can find a career coach.
I've had career coaches throughout my life during times when I was feeling lost. J.T. O'Donnell was one of my earliest mentors and helped me find clarity when Brazen Careerist was first getting started. Another coach, Jenny Ferry, helped me become a better goal setter through the art of meditation. Whatever your need might be, there's a coach out there for you, but the good ones are hard to find.
On Wednesday, we're hosting another Speed Coaching event on Network Roulette to introduce you to a hand-selected group of coaches. In preparation, some of the coaches who will be attending have shared their best advice for young professionals when seeking out a coach.
Tracy Brisson
Look for a coach who is pragmatic AND believes that you can have the career you want. A good career coach will honor your big goals and help you detail every step you need to achieve them while providing innovative ideas.
Website: The Opportunities Project
Twitter: @oppsproject
Lynn Dessert
A coach helps you to understand who you are and how others might perceive you by identifying your “blind spots”. Successful coaching helps you to discover your passions, set attainable goals, maintain focus and learn life lessons within a trusted relationship.
Website: Elephants at Work
Twitter: @LynnDessert
Lauree Ostrofsky
Look for someone who has a fresh perspective. Your coach needs to listen and appreciate who you are, then challenge what you think is possible. If you're slightly scared, it's a good sign that big things can happen.
Website: Simply Leap
Twitter: @SimplyLeapCoach
Kat A. Lessin
A coach should be someone who helps provide accountability and doesn't allow you to play small in what you are creating with your actions. They should push you and challenge you just enough to help shift your perspective.
Website: Life by My Design
Twitter: @katlessin
ChaChanna Simpson
Ask yourself if you trust this person, do they match your level of energy, and if you enjoy speaking with them. Coaching is a relationship and if the chemistry is not there, this person is not the coach for you.
Website: Twentity.com
Twitter: @ChaChanna
Brett Kunsch
You will want to write out a list of things you want from a coaching relationship so you have a "map" for your search. When you see or hear those qualities, values, development approaches, etc. in a coach you meet, you can make your investment with more confidence. One core criteria: ask if the coach has successfully partnered with a person similar to you in the past.
Website: Kunbre Life Coaching
Twitter: @GenYCoach
Scott Asai
Chemistry. There's a lot of great coaches out there, but it comes down to "fit." You have to believe your coach can take you to the next level.
Website: Growing Forward
Twitter: @growingforward
Dana Leavy
It's important for young professionals to work with a coach who really understands the different dynamic, circumstances and challenges with which Gen Y enters into the modern job market today.
Website: Aspyre Solutions
Twitter: @danaleavy
Elise Foster
Young professional should look for a coach that is going to challenge them, not one who offers a quick fix. Identifying and securing the right career takes hard work and significant input from the person who will do the job, not the coach.
Website: Leadership Potential Consulting
Twitter: @elisefoster
Laurice Gajda
A good Coach match is someone you feel comfortable with, enough to open up about anything because everything is connected to your progress. Look for a Coach to offer tools, techniques or perspectives that are effective for you to assist you in finding out your own answers.
Barbara Healy
Look for someone you can build a supportive partnership with, where the focus is exclusively on you. Look for someone who holds a strong belief in your potential, someone who fosters self-management and self-responsibility in you and helps you consistently reach for more.
Website: Barbara Healy Associates
Twitter: @bbhealy
Tim Murphy
Young professionals seeking a coach, like anyone looking for a relationship, need a good active listener. A coach with tons of professional or personal success, who can't ask questions and listen to understand your particular needs and challenges, isn't going to help you.
Website: ApplyMate
Twitter: @ApplyMate
Rikk Hansen
Pay attention to how you feel after your first conversation with a potential coach. Do you feel more centered and confident in your own instincts & ability to navigate the changes?
Website: Rikk Hansen on LinkedIn
Twitter: @rikkhansen
Paul Basile
Your coach is your honest champion, someone who tells you the truth and cares about you, works on your side in your interest. Your coach ideally has a broad, even eclectic background enabling her/him to have seen and experienced a wide range of organizations, cultures, behaviors, trends.
Website: Matchpoint Careers
Twitter: @psbasile
Shawn MacDonell
Someone who has a ton of clients and no time for any of them is not a good coach. Look for someone who has dedication and has produced results-ask for testimonials.
Website: Creativision Coaching and Consulting
Twitter: @passiontoaction
Josh Ploch
When a young professional is looking for a coach, they should look for someone who they can connect to, and someone who genuinely wants you to succeed.
Website: WorkOfALifetime
Twitter: @joshploch
Michael Bruny
When looking for a coach, young professionals should test drive a couple before they buy. Focus on finding someone you have chemistry with and someone who focuses on your action as well as your learning. Lastly, look for someone who is going to challenge you.
Website: Run The Point
Twitter: @ambassadorbruny
Dana Dwyer
Know the outcomes you seek? When you know what you want, it will be much easier to identify the coach with the necessary skills, knowledge and experience to guide you in the direction you want to go.
Website: Working Miracles
Shawn Graham
Experience and fit. Does the coach possess a proven track record of success working with clients who have faced similar issues or concerns and does his or her style match with your coaching and interpersonal needs? If the answer is “no” to either or both questions, keep looking.
Website: Courting Your Career
Twitter: @ShawnGraham
Shannon Short
They want to look for a coach who will stretch them outside the comfort zone, the very thing that is likely making them stuck or unclear, to see different perspectives and new possibilities they weren't able to or willing to see on their own.
Website: Spark!
Twitter: @girlsgetreal
Nailah Blades
You should always talk with them before signing up. Make sure you feel a good connection with them and that their style lines up with your needs. If you work with someone you like and respect, you'll get much better results!
Website: Polka Dot Coaching
Twitter: @nailahblades
What did our coaches miss? Think about the following questions and leave some of your own ideas in the comments section below.
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When selecting a coach, look for someone who:
1. Asks good questions and then has the good sense to shut up and listen.
2. Cares enough about you to tell you the truth. Will they, for example, tell you on the 1st meeting that your fly is unzipped or something similar?
3. Can credibly explain, with a crayon, what the coaching process will be like, and what each of you has a right to expect.
Bill Catlette
All of my colleagues above are well spoken in the best ways to find a good career coach. Good chemistry, connection, experience, fit, honor, integrity, etc., are all important parts in finding the right person.
I'd like to add that it's important to work with someone who can help you realize how amazing you are--someone who can "squeeze the juicy parts" of you and your career to speak to effectively and include into your communications strategy.
By communications strategy I refer to what you tell people when they ask you why you're currently looking, what makes you stand out among other candidates, and what you say on your resume to highlight the contributions you've made in your previous positions. Remember: this ain't the place to be humble! A good career coach can help you shine!