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Posted On 02.11.10

Living, working and socializing in the Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN often leaves me hungry for adventure and entrepreneurial ventures. It’s not a glamorous life, but it’s a demanding, challenging and strategic one. I crave that.

However, at this point in my life between, rent, student loans and a pending wedding, I’m not about to get caught up in a new business.

Oh, and here are some pretty reasonable reasons too:

1) My friends have enough businesses. Honestly, I feel exhausted just watching and freelancing for their sites and companies. It’s insane. They spend time with loved ones because they have an iPhone that says ‘Go home’. No, thanks. Not there.

2) My fiance is in school. I spent a year in Alaska on my radio adventure and skipped off to North Carolina for college before that. It’s time to put someone else first. And this someone needs to finish seminary. I’m dedicated to support him in his call.

3) I like BEING home. I walk in, answer emails, do yoga, blog and eat dinner. I’m not ready to be staying til 8 or 9pm. I enjoy going to our friend’s game nights and spending hours reading in the evening. Not there… yet.

4) I volunteer. No, really. Sometimes I log about 25-30 hours a week helping non-profits, small businesses and KFAI in between. I’m thirsty to serve.

5) I’m trying to build credit. I think that if I’m going to start something, it needs to be done when my credit isn’t so nuts. I’m trying to build it up- but I’m learning all about this process. It’s not easy or something I take lightly.

These aren’t the only ones, but they’re the honest main ones.

Have you taken the plunge? Why are you waiting?

I’d like to know why you don’t want to start your own business.

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02.11.10

I admire you for writing this. I worked for myself once, and I really hated it. I ended up having all kinds of other priorities, and I couldn't make it work. I felt like a failure everyday. On the other hand, I thrive at my corporate job. I'm one of those people that will take a direction, then go above and beyond. I love that. It's not for everyone, but at the moment it's for me. And that's enough...

02.11.10

Hi Kristina. I completely understand your points, but I'm going to go against the grain and comment on why I'm taking the plunge and NOT waiting to start my own business:

1)In my 32 years I've come to realize that if we wait for the perfect time to _________ (insert any action here) it'll never happen. Why? Because life happens and before you know it, life will eventually pass you by.

2)Working for somebody else's Ad Agency/Accounts/Clients is creatively draining on my soul. I've done it for years and have finally decided enough is enough.

3)Even though it's not the most practical choice I've made in my life, especially being in the midst of a recession, I've never felt more fulfilled professionally speaking. Consequently, that translates to being happier at home and in my marriage (no kiddies yet).

There are always a million reasons to NOT do something. For once in my life I ignored them and I couldn't be happier.

Great topics like this gets those conversations going and going and going... Thanks for posting. =]

02.12.10

Thanks for the comments Andrea! I know that there will never be a ‘perfect time’ for sure. I’m excited for you and what you are doing, it certainly isn’t easy. If you are getting more fulfilled with taking things on your own that really, truly is inspirational. I would like to one day. But I know I’m not ready.

Right now I’m in my mid-twenties and I still need and enjoy direction at work. I think that people like you are constant inspirations and feed my passion to be working to something more in life. Thanks!

@ Emily - I'm completely right there with you careerwise right now. For me getting a task, being able to discuss it and make it my own is amazing and I learn so much from a company's process. I think all the guidance right now is what has been driving me & I'm not in a place where I want to give that up.

02.12.10

I'm going on the record as saying starting your own business is stressful and real pain in the ass... however 9-5's are not the way to get "ahead" in life. You work harder with your own business or freelance career, but your ability to find success is only limited by your willingness to work hard and come up with great ideas.

It's DEFINITELY not for everyone.

02.18.10

I like that you've acknowledged the reasons for which starting a business isn't right for you RIGHT NOW. It's like having a child, your routine, game night with friends, and relaxing dinner would definitely be changed.

02.18.10

I completely agree with you. What people need to realize is that what works for one person may not work for another. I also chuckle when I see people refer to "9-5ers" ...Come on really...most jobs are not exaclty 9-5... I have always worked for corporations and many positions are not 9-5. Also companies now days have flex-time etc. I raised my now 25 year old son and was a manager but always had time to be there for him..Keep yourself open to choices as I think you cannot have it all...at least not all at one time. Best to you!

02.18.10

disclosure: I make my living off of entrepreneurs, that's my bread and butter.

There is little that causes me more distress as when people deprecate someone who doesn't want to be a business owner. For the life of me, I cannot understand why society has decided entrepreneurs are more valuable people. Fact is, entrepreneurs wouldn't become successful without their wage loving counterparts. It's honest work, it has integrity. It's trust, a partnership. I also would have preferred to remain an employee.

I started a business 15 years ago because I didn't have any options. Well, I had options, good ones (a six figure job in NYC) but the change in lifestyle was more than I was willing to sacrifice. In the end I traded one quality of life issue (a business rather than a job) for another (podunk NM rather than glamorous NY). Would I change anything? Not really. It's not a matter of justifying my choices because I didn't feel I really had any. NY is great but I knew I wouldn't want to live there. I would have preferred a job to owning a business but those jobs are all gone now. It's been okay. I've made a life of it. Certainly not what I expected (made a living as a writer in the end) but it's good too. After 15 years of calling the shots and doing pretty much as I please, it'd be hard to take a job now but it would still be tempting! I like being a part of an organization, I don't particularly enjoy running one.

02.18.10

@JR Moreau thanks for the comments. It's def. not for all. For me, it's just not right now. I currently have projects outside of work, those that drive me and keep my passions in check. However, it's not my stable gig that makes sure my student loans and internet bills are paid month-to-month.

@Lindsey It's nuts for me to think life won't be changed if I jumped in head first. I'm getting married and moving in with him after the wedding. I think we should focus on that. In order to be a more resilient leader in the future I need to have a support system. They don't have to agree with me, but they need to be there. That foundations needs to be created before I can jump in. :)

@lori - Well way to go raising someone on a '9-5'. My mother did too with 3 kids so kudos! It's not easy. Now she's starting her own business and honestly, if it wasn't for that '9-5' she wouldn't have the respected experince she has today that allows her to be a consultant and apply to PhD programs. :)

@Kathleen- thanks for the rocking perspective! I mean it's true. If you are running a company you need to have loyal and trustworthy people to work for you... Right? Currently, I work for a venture like that now and without some of us, it would be difficult to even do some of the basic office tasks. I'm not saying it's 'just a job' but it's a lifestyle for the worker as well. I like being part of an organization. Making all the shots would be exhausting after a while I'm sure.

02.19.10

kathleen fasanella, that's a great comment. Sometimes it's just not the right time.
One problem I with entrepreneurs (specifically serial entrepreneurs) is that it feeds the whole "people will never find a single great job for life" ecosystem that the modern world is stuck in. Then again, that's probably a bit of a stretch.

But if you look into the history of venture capital it seems that very few companies last forever. But then again, perhaps thats indicative of the whole tech industry?

02.19.10

I actually just turned down an offer from a corporate marketing firm to open, manage and operate a branch of their business because I didn't feel that the time was right (and it's not what I wish to be doing with my life and time).

Rather than focus 100% of my efforts on running and managing that business, I'm attempting to spend my time focusing on my personal and professional growth. So far, it's working, I feel much more relaxed and content, and I know I'm working back towards a point where I will have the skills and desire to run my own business once again. Great work!

02.20.10

@Justin- I agree with Kathleen too. Sometimes it's just not the right time. Oh, and about companies not lasting forever. It's true. I mean there are some that have done really well over time, and usually that's because they have changed with the times. I believe that's how people are as well. You can have career changes, because your passions change and develop... and there is nothing wrong with that.

@Jason. KUDOS! It really is about knowing what you want to do and the process of getting there. Sometimes you will have some fantastic opportunities, but I think it shows maturity that you know when they are not right for you or your future career.

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