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How do you repay generosity? You can't. Accept it with gratitude and humility, then give the same to others when the opportunity arises.
Recently, I've been on the receiving end of some very generous people. It's made a significant impact on my life. In the past, my ego would say, "You worked hard - you deserve this." Today, I realize I've done nothing to "earn" these acts of kindness and it makes me truly thankful for the people God has put in my life.
A generous man will prosper;
he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.
~ Proverbs 11:25
As an entrepreneur, I'm learning we can only do so much, then it's up to God and His timing. Since I've made a shift in "trust;" the results have changed. I work hard, but don't put added pressure on myself to make things happen. For example, instead of trying to "sell myself" at networking functions, I wait for the opportunity to talk one-on-one and see what happens. Sure, it might take longer, but it's genuine and who I am.
Receiving generosity has opened my mind and heart. It has motivated me to give to others when I have the chance. Like the verse earlier says, "I can't wait to refresh others!"
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Comments
10.29.09
I truly believe that opportunity is everywhere, you just have to be open to it. Your post is a great reminder to just focus on doing good things, rather than on the expectation that good things SHOULD happen to you because you "deserve them".
10.29.09
Thanks for your kind words Keely. It's hard to get our expectations up when we have no idea what is going to happen (plus it's out of our control). I've been told over and over that if I keep doing the right things - I will be successful. It'd be nice to have a timeline on it, but that's life!
03.26.10
Instead, what I've seen - honestly - is a widespread belief that judging is more like curating a series of snapshots of what we're proud of as an industry at this point in time.
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03.26.10
Keep in mind that in order for someone to be generous, there must be a receiver. We all take turns in both roles. Many people are uncomfortable in the receiving role. If you find yourself feeling this way, just remember that by receiving, you are allowing someone else the opportunity to give. You know how good it feels to give, right? Don't let your pride rob someone else of that same good feeling. You will both be blessed!
03.26.10
Agreed Cyndie, we have to allow others to help us. I always say, nothing great is accomplished alone!
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