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We spend most of our lives trying to control every aspect of our lives, yet what do we really have control over? Maybe it's not about being in control, but knowing you have choices to make. Let's explore this further:
Time: We can't control what has happened to us in the past, but we can make choices today that impact tomorrow. The past is history and you can't change it, so don't dwell on it. Do something today that will create a better future for yourself.
Focus: Don't blame others for what's going wrong, concentrate on what you can change (about you). You can't control others, but you can better yourself. Directing our energy on others, takes time away from self-improvement.
Circumstances: We can't control what happens to us, but we can choose how to respond. Bad things happen to everyone, yet it's your reaction that reveals your true character. Today, choose to respond in a way that is consistent with your "brand."
It seems illogical to give up control, but we don't have much of it in the first place! Start making personal choices today that will help you to continually grow forward!
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Comments
10.07.09
"Trust is good. Control is better"
Joseph Stalin
10.07.09
I think we all have a certain amount of control over our lives depending on how we position ourselves. I also think it's a delicate balance between what you say above and trying to achieve total control which is just too time consuming, energy sapping, and unrealistic.
10.07.09
I like the idea, although I think you're making a distinction between "choices" and "control" that doesn't really exist--or, at least, isn't particularly developed.
The real trick is recognizing what you do have control over (the choices) and what you don't.
10.07.09
Good timing for the week I've been having!
10.07.09
Agree with Kate on this one.
We also have to be forewarned not to fall into the pit of complacency because we've given up the idea of control. As long as we're well in charge of our choices, and know that life doesn't happen to us all the time, we're on the track.
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