Going to college and living with new people is a living and learning experience. It’s the first time you’re living with people whom you share the same ambitions, interests, and of course, fears. While having roommates is an exciting part of your college experience, it’s important to maintain a civilized relationship with them, so that the living situation is comfortable for everyone. According to The College Board, “You’ll find that sharing space builds character.” Your exposure to this lifestyle will help you learn how to deal with people better, as well as help you to become more patient and learn about different people and ways of life.

You want to know who you’ll be dealing with on a daily basis. Here are some pointers for dealing with your new roommate(s):

• Communication. Very essential. Confer each other’s preferences so that issues are less likely to arise in the future. Perhaps you like to listen to music while doing homework, but your roommate(s) do not. Discuss your daily habits, whether or not you’re a morning person, and what time you want to go to bed during the week. You must say what is on your mind, as your roommates don’t have the ability to read your mind.
• Tidiness. It isn’t just your room. You’re responsible for maintaining a shared living space. Make sure to gather your laundry, dispose of your trash, make your bed, and keep your books and materials organized. If necessary, write down some rules and boundaries, print a few copies, and post them around the room as a memo for you and your roommate(s).
• Respect. Don’t use your roommate(s) belongings without their permission. And unless it’s a serious emergency, don’t disturb your roommate(s) when sleeping. Sleep is very important for college students, and can often be a major deprivation for many. When your roommate(s) need quiet to study, give them that respect. Use headphones when listening to music, and take your conversations elsewhere.
• Security. This is equally beneficial to both you and your roommate(s). Always lock doors and windows when leaving your dorm. How would you feel if your roommate(s) laptop got stolen during the minute it took you to run next door and bum a cigarette? Or vice versa? And don’t think that just because it’s broad daylight that theft on campus won’t occur.
• Spontaneity. You may be a city folk and your roommate(s) may be from the boondocks, or even from another county. Your willingness to accept new experiences and opportunities will help you to meet new people, discover new hobbies and interests, learn how to manage time well, and even improve your social skills.