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For full disclosure, I am a Sabbath keeping Christian. I am very passionate about my religion.
A few days ago, I watched the documentary Jesus Camp. I was worried that it would be critical of religion, and make Christians seem like, well, freaks. But it was a surprisingly interesting take on the situation of politically active Christianity. It showed the church's efforts to train the next generation of members, an attempt to ensure the survival of their brand of Christianity. One of the most difficult things to do for a religion is to ensure that they retain the younger members of their faith. A particularly compelling moment in the movie was when a young girl walked up to a young lady at a bowling alley and told her about Jesus. I was surprised by her courage. And it made me question what I am doing as a Christian to spread what I believe. And what a delicate line there exists on matters of religion at work.
I first thought about the careful lines between work and personal belief during the election. Most of the lawyers hid their political leanings as if they were deep dark secrets. This is true even more for the religious persuasions of the people I work with. I find out about them from people who know them outside of the office. And sometime the revelations are shocking: I could not understand, for example, how a particular coworker was Catholic and their behavior is, well, inconsistent with their religion.
Furthermore, as a Christian I feel the need to share my beliefs. It was easy to do when, as a criminal defense attorney I was asked by inmates to pray with them, or asked how I could be so kind in such a difficult situation. However, things are different in the corporate world. The situation is even trickier if one wants to share their religion. I would not recommend sharing one's religion directly; it can create a hostile work environment for people who do not believe the same things. However, there are subtler ways to share one's beliefs, a way that improves the workplace.
As a Christian, I believe in a few things. One of which is that I am required and mandated to be a kind person. Some people hold the belief that being kind at work is one way to ensure that people will walk over you. But being kind is not being a pushover. Being kind is a different animal entirely. Being kind means you bite your tongue when a cruel word could be spoken (i.e. a critical and unnecessary barb at a difficult coworker). I am also required to turn the other cheek, and to ignore an insult as if it never happened. I had a meeting once where I realized I could have said a lot of true things in defense of an accusation made against me that was, well, unfounded. I did defend my position. But instead of saying what I wanted to say (which was that the person was completely delusional and incompetent), I took the rather rudely given criticism in stride, provided my explanation, and looked for positive ways to integrate the information I was given and make it constructive criticism.
A final mandate that I find particularly important as a Christian in the work place is to be a forgiving person. This isn't an easy thing to be, but it does make you a much better coworker. Not remembering every fault or misdeed done to you is a real asset, especially in an industry that is small, and the power dynamics between people change continually. In the legal industry, a subordinate today might be a desired client tomorrow, or a government attorney in a position to make or break a client's attempts at avoiding a federal investigation. Forgiveness is a very useful trait, that protects relationships and allows someone to be the bigger person in a very meaningful way.
In the Bible, there is a sermon given by Jesus with the mantras that every Christian is encouraged to live by. These are: humility, compassion, mercy, good intentions, and peacefulness. These mantras are very useful in the workplace, make an employee a much more like-able person, and are an easy way to be a good Christian without preaching a sermon. Whatever your personal religious persuasion (or lack thereof), it is important to develop your mantra that shows your faith (or world-view), and use it to make you a better employee, and to make your workplace a better workplace.
If you're a person of faith, I think it's more than likely that you practice your belief in all aspects of your life. Work included. And that shouldn't be a problem.
I think problems arise in work-related setting when people feel that ideologies are being pushed onto them. This IS a problem.
I don't think you should ever feel inhibited by your beliefs in the workplace, and it sounds very much to me that you aren't. Kudos.
It sounds like you're doing a good job of living your beliefs. I agree with Scott that the best way to evangelize is by example; I would not be comfortable with someone explicitly telling me about their faith in the workplace, although you have provided a couple of examples that show how the context often matters.
I see there is a lot of passion in your words about your faith. That's amazing that you have such a strong connection to it. I do not. I lost my faith in religion years ago and follow the "don't be a jerk" mantra. Although not religious, I try to act in the professional manner while at work. However, I'm from a rural part of Iowa with a very German last name and now living in Dallas. Co-workers often assume that I'm a good Lutheran or Catholic girl. People's assumptions about my faith often include them bringing god and prayer into conversation. It's painful and awkward, and I hate it. I don't think it's professional to push religion into work conversations. How do I say to a client, "Good for you, but no thanks for me..." ??
Thank you for being a non-pushy Christian in the office and for bravely putting this passionate issue out there as a discussion topic.
Interesting post. My problem is when Religion affects peoples train of thought. I personally recognize a lot of the traditiionaly religious values as natural values instilled in us through evolution and not through religion. I forgive others because I would like to be forgiven .... not because Jesus told me too. I'm not saying you're wrong for having these morals because of your religion ... I'm just saying it's possible to have these morals without it.
I also think that we shouldn't be required to be to nice people but instead should recognize that we benefit from it as a community if we are all nice to each other.
As far as Jesus camp goes? I did 8 years of it and loved every second. However, at times, it would have been nice to worry about normal things like girls and transformers at that age instead of being afraid I was going to hell if I didn't praise the lord.

Beautifully articulated and well thought out Beth. Thanks for sharing and encouraging us all.
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