5 Networking Tips For Shy Or Introverted People

Great topic Rich. Being more of an introvert myself, I've created a spreadsheet on excel with different degrees of separation, dates contacted and type of contact (phone, e-mail, in person, etc.). That form of discipline has helped me. I believe you have to be who you are & figure out what works for you. No formula works for everyone when it comes to networking (personally I like to call in "connecting" instead)

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Last one is really good. Introverts are so in their heads all the time, that they forget they're not smiling. I do this. A lot. It's simple, but it just brings the approachability notch up a bit.

Another idea, inspired by #2 above: Don't think of yourself as shy. Tell yourself, "I'm a listener." That way you're playing to your strengths, not making yourself feel like that's somehow a weakness.

Wow,everyone. Great comments.

Anna: Redbull Vodka is surely my favorite drink as well!
Ken: Thanks for thinking of my post!
Jason: agree with you 100%
Mehnaz: Smiling definitely helps. It's so simple, yet so critical for the approachability factor
Kate: Can you imagine how loud and annoying it would be if it was all extroverts! yikes. Also, great point about thinking as oneself as a listener.
Mr. Radio: I used to try to talk on anything I could, and possibly sounded like a "doofus" so i know what you mean. I really feel people should keep their mouth closed till they can sound like an expert!

Aweseome post, Rich. I love these tips.
I like a nice glass of wine beforehand!

Hey Andrew, wine can certainly be a man's best friend!

Steve - thanks for the comment. The internet surely helps, and then at some point you can take that internet experience and apply it to a live group!

Great article. I've been in a form of subtle sales all my life. I love back end work, but don't particularly feel in the mood all the time to be in front of people or deal with people. Social networking does help that some, but on the other hand, how does anyone get any work done filling their days with socializing! Catch 22 I guess.

WOW! Nice tips, tnx for sharing :).

Very rich subject you spoke about in here .. congrats on your article ...

Even if some points are quite evident and "classic" , but I found myself not following some of them, so I'll consider your article a good reminder on how to approach social networking area.

PS: I like structured articles like this one, easy and effective.

keep up the good work.

# 3 point is valid point.The fruits of networking will not occur in one day, or a week or a month. One needs to make a plan and set daily goals to network for the long run. I created a networking system that I try to follow daily. It's called the "Big 5ive." Who are the 5 people who I need to e-mail, 5 people that I need to call, send a letter, a thank you card. Keep on doing these and never give up! If you must, take a short break, but keep the good fight of networking.

If you are truly introverted, don't try to match extroverts in their networking results or techniques. Instead focus on your strengths, and realize that you may not ever acheive the number of contacts that your extroverted colleagues will. However, your contacts will more valuable to you.

I'm an introvert, but my particular personality type means that I have trouble with small talk. However, I can be very chatty and animated when talking about subject I am interested in. So I have resigned myself to the fact that my networking contacts will only be people interested in the same things I am, rather than a wide range of people.

Really valuable points.. loved #1.

@The Ability Project: Yes, everyone is capable of communicating, but not everyone is equal in deriving enjoyment from it, or finding it easy.

Absolutely Rich. I've seen communicators that rarely talk, but they're input is highly valued. I agree, an introverted personality is simply a communication style that needs development - much like any other communication style.

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