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Posted On 06.22.09

As a 27 year old single girl, I spend most of my time going out with my friends. And when I say 'going out,' what I really mean is partying.

Recently, I went to a bar one night, and almost everyone was in college. I've never felt so old! So of course, my girlfriends and I totally lied and told everyone we were 21, which is pretty believable. And let me tell you, I haven't had that much fun since... well, since I was 21. But I couldn't help but wonder, am I too old to be doing this? How old is 'Too old' to party?

While some people may say yes, I am too old to party, I disagree! You are only young once. Go out and party while you still can. And who cares if you have work the next day. Who cares if you're tired. You can sleep it off when you're 40. I say, if you're not settled down yet, then you have every right to go out and party your pants off. Because once you're married, trust me, the party's over!

So you go out there and party your pants off. And don't forget to invite me!

Cosmo's anyone?

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06.23.09

While I agree that there is no age that is "too old" to party in the general sense, going out and getting hammered is something that certainly lost it's luster over time.

And I can remember when I was in my early 20's, partying hard, and seeing the folks in their mid 30's trying to do the same thing. In all honesty, it looked...sad.

06.23.09

I think there is such a thing as too old to party. While it's fine to head out to a pub with some friends for drinks, or for a night of dancing, getting sauced, as andrew said, is probably a bit much at this point.
After all, you want your 20's to be memorable, and not one nauseous blur.

06.23.09

Eh, the question is probably more about increased responsibility as you get older. There are some 27 year olds who are married with 2 kids - saying that they are still young is true, yes but going out and partying a ton is probably not an option.

Besides, you can still party at 40 - just a different kind :)

06.23.09

How old is too old to party? I say never!

Well, unless you are bringing your baby to the bar, then you may be past the cutoff line. Or if you are throwing your bad hip out while doing keg stands, it may be time to retire the lampshade hat.

But until then...I say shake what your mama gave you!

Tiffany Joiner
06.23.09

There definitely is a limit but its not all true that you can't still party with a family under your belt. What if you meet someone who likes to party just as much as you do? And kids don't stay that way forever. As Andre pointed out, the older you get, the word "party" starts to mean something a little bit more different than before. My mom is in her 40's and has been partying since she was in her teens. I don't think it'll ever stop! But one night when she tried to hang with the younger crowd and get hammered, she found herself sleeping in her mini-van halfway through. LOL. That's what you have to look forward to. LOL. Good post!

Nan Marie
06.23.09

If you're still partying hard after age 30 (i.e. where alcohol = fun), it's called alcoholism.

06.23.09

I don't think we should be so quick to judge or generalize. I am married and in my mid 30's and I still go out with my husband and my friends to "party". Don't get me wrong, I don't get hammered every day, but I like to let loose on the weekends and have a good time.

You are as old as you think you are! And if you take care of business-emotional and professional-Go crazy! There is no age limit on having a good time.

Leslie
06.23.09

In typical 22-year-old fashion (that I'm not proud of), I judge people out at bars who look like they should be home with their family. If you're 35, look hip and are with friends or a date, that's cool. If you're 45 and keep talking about your kids, why are you at the bar trying to flirt with me?

Don't feel bad about being 28 and "partying" with friends. I think getting completely trashed is inappropriate at any age; going out and having fun with friends is appropriate at any age.

06.23.09

A friend once told me that you are too old to party when you wake up one morning and utter the phrase "Man, I just can't party like I used to."

Made me chuckle when I was younger (he's 5 years old than I am) but I started to understand it in the past year or so. My partying has definitely changed, I loved to go out with the girls and then hit the late clubs and then... I can't explain exactly what changed (I like to say my liver finally called "ENOUGH!") but now hanging out with friends while being out is good for me. I still have a good girls night out or house party occasionally, but they are few and far between and I am most definitely a bit less hijinky than I used to be!

06.23.09

This might draw some heat, but if you've got to lie to fit in, you might be "too old."

06.23.09

I feel that one is never too old to party, but that some scenes might be arguably too young for the 25+ crew.

After all, if you're still single+looking and trying to ply your trade in the nightlife, then you need to hunt, I mean hang out, where your prey, I mean target market resides. When you're 22, the college bars are your scene - when you're 32, you have to shift the type of bars and clubs you hit up in order to find people your age.

A 30 year old can definitely drink and hang out with friends at any college bar, but things fall apart when they start unsuccessfully spitting game on people a decade their junior.

Some people approach 30 and start describing themselves using excuses like "mature" or "responsible" but I think they are looking for the words "boring" or "in a relationship."

06.23.09

I don't think 30 is too old to party, but once you leave college, I think it is time to redefine the word party. There is nothing more pathetic than seeing grown men and women acting like freshmen on spring weekend. It baffles me that some of our peers haven't moved past that stage. I am recently married, but I still love getting together with my girlfriends and having a good time. No one says you can't have a few drinks, dance and laugh while still maintaining your dignity. Not to mention, there is always the possibility that you will run into someone important, say your boss or a client, when you are out partying. You never want to put yourself in a compromising situation for the sake of proving that you are not "old" yet. This is especially true in the age of facebook, when compromising pictures seem to have a way of appearing in unwanted locations.

Deadhedge
06.23.09

How does marriage end the partying? Having kids ends the party days. Compared to kids, marriage is still party time.

And yeah, I've got to agree with Holly. Lying about your age is sketchy. The least sexy thing out there is someone who can't be upfront about who they are.

06.25.09

Too old? Maybe not.

You might not be as great as you once were, but you can be as great once as you ever were, even if it takes a week to recover from the night before. :)

07.01.09

I think the lines begin to blur post-college, when it comes to age. I am 23, but I have great friends that are 30 and still go out with me to bars/partying.

With that being said, there are also people who aren't single or have families young so their party life changes.

I do agree that you're never too old to be playful, goofy and enjoy party time with friends. I also think that you should be your age and be happy that you're 27, still in your prime, single and enjoying going out. Being "young" isn't all its cracked up to be, especially because you've already been there done that. Good thought though, I don't like the excuse, "I'm too old to be going out..."

07.01.09

I don't think there's an age limit to partying, and 27 isn't even close to being too old in my opinion. I'd party with a 27 year old. I think there's just a decrease in the number of times your able to do it as you get older.

katenonymous
07.01.09

Maybe you just need to find a different bar.

07.01.09

I actually find this whole conversation ridiculous. There are, after all, different bars and scenes for people of different ages, interests, etc. The place I frequent has people of all ages - college, post-college/graduate, professionals and much older - and it feels pretty inclusive for all.

I know I cannot drink like I used to (and not suffer from a terrible hangover) but really, no one needs to drink that much.

07.01.09

I firmly believe you are NEVER too old to party. I am 24 years old, while my boyfriend is 41. He's not your typically 41-year-old but we can party at the same level, with his friends or mine or co-workers.

I think what changes is A) what you do while you're intoxicated and B) when you do it.

For example, when I was in college still we would be more likely to have a falling down drunk friend that we had to carry out of the bar, or some guys would pick a fight, or girls might dance on the bar. I typically didn't do any of those but the people I was around and the places I chose to socialize at catered to these younger partier types.

Second, like many before me said in their posts, the older you get usually means the more responsibilty you bear. Being hungover on a week night is obviously out of the question, as is being hungover when you have kids to raise or more appealing activities like a day at the beach.

HOWEVER, I strongly believe "partying" is not over until you say it's over. There is such thing as baby sitters, vacations, great events, concerts, and a lot of other reasons why responsible adults can cut loose, drink a little more than they know they should, and have a good time!

CHEERS!

Kevin S
08.11.09

In my opinion, its never too old or too late to party. If your single go out and have fun as much as you can, some people dont ever want to have a family and theres nothing wrong with that. Your only gonna live this life once. As long as its not affecting your personal life or anyone elses you can do whatever you want. Act like a freshmen if thats your thing. HAVE FUN! People who look down on you cause your having fun in your 30's are usually just trying to deal with there own insecurties. If you care what people like that think about you, you will never be happy with your life.

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