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Posted On 12.29.08

Yesterday, my mother and I went shopping. Not for her, for me. Business Clothes.

At the ripe old age of 22, it’s time to put away the black nail polish, put away the angry punker chick t-shirts. It’s time to not just be a grown up, it’s time to look like one too.

Appearance is important, not just because humans want to be attractive, but from a marketing stand point, how you present yourself is also a message. My main blog is called Tough Girl 101. Does that conjure an image of a girl with shopping bags and stilettos with the perfect sculpted eye lashes? Or does it conjure an image in running shoes, and sweat pants? Or maybe a girl in a tank top and jeans? Sure, I’m not thinking about my blog 24/7 but I do care that what pictures I post makes sense for that blog.

This blog? My tag line is “A Gen-Y freelance writer and professional blogger”, what type of image would make sense for that? Particularly if I start showing up to blog conferences across the country? A writer, a young professional needs to look respectable. What I wear for Tough Girl won’t fly here - I got blazers, blouses and pantsuits. I was specific to get things along a younger trendy clothes, bold colored blouses and figure-hugging suits. It’s appropriate for a soon-to-be college graduate.

I stare at my Happy bunny t-shirts, torn up blue jeans, and knee high black boots and sigh. Fare thee well, old friends, but it’s time for me to move on and grow up a little. The punker girl look pre-poser Avril Lavigne was a look that made me comfortable, but now I’m older, less comfortable, and I stare at myself in the mirror thinking “wow, I don’t want to be one of those older girls who try too desperately to look like they’re in their teens.”

So I hang up the hooker boots and traded them for some respectable high heels.

Along with growing up and dressing up, I also need to start putting away the pizza, burgers and fastfood crash diets. Healthy cooking is now necessary for this new adult body. Nothing like realizing you’re getting older and entering a new phase in your life, right?

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12.29.08

I've been in that category for years, having been in the corporate world since I was 18. I always kept two separate sets of clothes, my "work" clothes and my "personal" clothes. I've found over the years that my work clothes have become more professional (not quite a suit, but almost there), and my personal stuff has become more sedated. Most of my offensive shirts have gone the way of a sleeveless yard shirts or rags. As much as I fought it, it was time to move on from the angry punk rock appearance of my late teens and early 20's, and embrace the fact that I'm a lot closer to 30, and I've slowed down.

Grated, having a lot of tattoos underneath the pressed shirt helps me remember that I haven't lost all of it yet. Just the uniform.

Paige
12.29.08

Great post! I'm not sure about your community, but many workplaces in Nashville are [generally] creative and casual. So aside from your law firms and prestigious offices, the majority of people are showing up to work in a nice pair of jeans and decent shirt. [In some offices, people might actually show up in their PJs!]

Being someone who works in jeans, but raised hearing the phrase, "Dress for the job you want, not the job you have," I am constantly torn between following the denim trend and stepping my wardrobe up a notch... or six. Because I do love any day I get to prance around in my heels [Yes. You can tattoo a giant "L" on my forehead now].

What you said is true. It's never good to be "all grown up" and look like you trying to dress like a teen. But it's also important to be a young professional who doesn't dress like you've got 40 years of experience.

But it sounds like you're right on track with everything. Good luck with your last bit of college and enjoy every minute of it!

Meghan McCormick
12.29.08

I just started my first post-college job and I've recently done the wardrobe overhaul. I've worn high-heels more in the past month than I have my whole life! I love it. There's a confidences that comes with being a working professional, and rocking out in business causal definitely helps.

I work on a web/content team with a bunch of 20 somethings and 3-4 people in their 30's/40's. We work for the government and we've got to dress up a bit since we're often frequented by higher ranking officials. Being one of the youngest and a women in a building filled with older, mostly male government employees, I think having a professional attire helps me get taken more seriously.

At first, I was weary about not being able to incorporate my personal style amidst the "trouser socks" and the "Editor Slacks" but jewelry, fun heels, and bright colors help.

Don't forget the best accessory: a big smile.

Dr. Pepper
12.29.08

I've also heard the same (this past weekend as a matter of fact)...no shopping though ;-)
I've heard the 'dress for the job you want, not the one you have' as well, but the job I would want is totally incompatible with my personal dressing habits. I don't do suits, or go to the barber ever week.

I suppose I have a few years until I hit 30 and decide that I may want to try this dress-up thing :p

12.29.08

I'm in the same boat and am actually really excited about dressing business casual. It is so easy and fun to look professional. However, my main concern is to not be able to express myself through my clothing choices anymore. So I am trying to think of fun things like wearing accessories or colored opaque tights with those pencil skirts and white shirts.

But there is nothing more fun than dressing business casual to the office. It really makes you look like an adult (even if you do not yet feel like one inside). :-)

12.29.08

I'm in the same boat and am actually really excited about dressing business casual. It is so easy and fun to look professional. However, my main concern is to not be able to express myself through my clothing choices anymore. So I am trying to think of fun things like wearing accessories or colored opaque tights with those pencil skirts and white shirts.

But there is nothing more fun than dressing business casual to the office. It really makes you look like an adult (even if you do not yet feel like one inside). :-)

12.29.08

Just promise me you won't do the stuffy/drab Hillary Clinton-style pantsuit number. That wouldn't be a good look for your 22-year-old body...or any 22-year-old for that matter.

12.30.08

As I sit in my hooded sweatshirt and jeans, I realize that I will soon have to do the wardrobe overhaul myself and I share your same quiet sadness about leaving my fun/witty tee-shirts (who wouldn't love a shirt with a hippopotamus holding a microphone shouting "HIPPO HOP" or my slew of rock concert tees?) behind for a more "grown up" wardrobe. My first job post-college was working for a web site and the business attire was extremely casual - jeans, tee-shirts and flip-flops were the norm - which suited my still-college wardrobe just fine. Now that I'm looking for a new job I was forced to go to the local department store and cough up some cash for a brand-new suit.

At first I was wary; after all, I'm the type of person who would rather not wear shoes if at all possible and now I was buying panty hose and heels. But walking into my first interview in my business professional attire with my fancy portfolio I realized that looking the part is definitely a step in the right direction - I was not worried about an "inappropriate" (young and casual, which is what I was used to) outfit distracting the interviewer from my talents. That boost of confidence certainly helped! The kick-ass heels made me feel good too - a pop of color on the inside sole makes an otherwise boring black pump more exciting for me.

Clothes are my first step in the right direction and I've attempted the "healthy eating" you referred to...I've even attempted cooking! I'll admit though, I'm still prone to a fast-food run every once in a while; I can only grow up so fast!

Sara Buth Waire
01.05.09

Great post. I work in HR and I must say that not everyone understands what "business casual" is. I've seen women in tube tops and men in attire that would serve best as PJs. What you wear is a reflection of you and where you want to go.

10.28.09

What you think is appropriate to wear is the result of brainwashing your whole life. If "dressing up" commands more respect than brains, then don't be surprised if your "suit employee" is dumber than a doorknob.

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