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I’ve always been one with extremely high goals, and I always believed I wouldn’t settle for anything less than achieving those exact goals. And when it comes to careers, I was always taught to believe that as long as you worked hard enough, there would be no reason to settle — you could get yourself wherever you wanted.
So I didn’t want the beaten path, I didn’t want in on the consulting/i-banking rat race; I figured I’d do exact

Great post, Nisha...I remember wrestling with just that question when I was looking for my first job in '99, when the job market was also very tight. I worked at NPOs all through college, and that was where I wanted to be...but then all the economic fears scared me, so I took a job at an ad agency - good money, "safe," and I hated every minute of it. The job required very long hours, and I missed doing work that I perceived as having value in the world.
And then I made the leap back to non-profit, magically landed a dream job, and never looked back. Sure, life was financially tight for a few years, but I had a great time, loved my job, moved to a city where there was good public transit and plenty of free entertainment. I wouldn't trade my experience for all the consulting money in the world. And at parties...no one is interested in what the consultants are doing, but I get plenty of questions about my work. There's more to a job than a paycheck.

Fantastic post.I’m in the middle of this decision making as well.Being stuck?? In a job that I hate. Do I leave now or do I wait? I’m 28 and married, do I have kids first and use one year of paid mat leave, and “sell my soul” in the process, or do I just go and pursue my passion (what I’m doing part time now)…

This is a question a lot of people are probably grappling with, not just Gen Y. I think it depends on where you are living and what kind of work you are interested in doing. Businessweek just published an interesting piece that talked about which industries are strong, growing and hiring (healthcare, education).
There is a difference between settling and not pursuing your dreams. You can still continue to network into the job of your dreams while working the proverbial "survival job." The reality of having bills to pay, student debt or whatever hits Gen Y over the head like a hammer - a lot of us are just unsure of what to do. If pursuing your dreams involves going into a dying industry, you may want to re-evaluate how you fit into that puzzle.

Interesting conundrum: Do I pursue my dream job, or do I pay the rent and utilities, buy the food and keep medical care for the kids? Hmmm......

Settling should not be in your vocabulary.
Now I am not saying that you shouldn't take that job that seems a bit dully and gray (compared to the green grass of your dream job). The situation is different for everyone. For example if you are married, with kids and your income provides the family with what they need, you need to be responsible to the people that depend on you and stick with that job while actively looking for something better.
If you are single, and are able to rough it out, then waiting around or taking jobs that are close to what you like but don't pay well, may be an option. It really depends! There is no magic bullet.
MY personal philosophy is this:
If you hate your job, really hate it, I mean this job is causing you mental and/or physical anguish, then you should not be there. really, get your stuff and go! Anything is better! There is no reason to sacrifice yourself :-)
If the job you have is kinda dull BUT has the opportunity to grow in some direction and if the economy is bad, stick with it and try to shine. This will give you knowledge, tools and credentials that you will need to land that dream job of yours.
If you are offered a job and you are not sure about, take it anyway. The benefit here is both monetary AND the ability to experiment. A lot of people have gone into industries unrelated to their education and really love it. Initially this may have seemed like settling to them, but they discovered a world they didn't knew existed. If it turns out that you don't like that world, OK - you can get another job, but at least you now will have more experience and the benefit on knowing whether a particular type of job is a good fit. It's been 5 years since I graduated and I can tell you that I what I do has little to do with my BA and I like it :-)

Settle- NO
Comprimise YES
Don't loose sight of your dreams, but pay the bills!!!

@Jenn -- glad you liked it. And it's really great to hear that you valued your experiences in the nonprofit world more than a paycheck!
@Raven -- I'm sure it's an issue to people of all ages, but I feel like it's more so for people who are just starting out in their careers. And, my dad sent me that same BusinessWeek article in an attempt to convince me to go into education or healthcare... :)
@jrandom -- Well, it's different when you're really young, just starting your career, and don't have the responsibilities of a family or kids. And I wouldn't underestimate the value of having fulfilling work. Life can't be much fun if you hate your job, even if it pays the bills...
@dr. pepper -- you're right that it will be different for everyone depending on their situation. And I like your philosophy!

I guess it's just levels of degree. I've had jobs I've hated just to pay the bills. I've also been without a job and hated living out of my car. On the balance, I prefer to hate the job than hate living out of my car.

@Mark F
Sorry to dump on you but "lose" is spelled with 1 "o." Loose is the change in your pocket, which you can then lose when it falls out.
I see this all the time and it drives me crazy!

I've been coping with this same predicament for the last eight months. Only a few months ago it dawned on me that "settling" might be the safest route at this time. As a member of Gen. Y (or Millennial, as I prefer), I'm torn between pursuing my dreams and paying off the debt that a number of people my age are facing. I've stayed part-time with an ad agency for six months because I love the work, the people and what I'm learning. But bringing home less than a liveable wage is beginning to take a toll.
With car insurance, a lack of medical/dental insurance (and impacted wisdom teeth), a cell phone, credit card debt and college loans that I have to begin paying in two months, it's becoming financially dangerous to stick with my dreams at this point. I really want to move out of my mom's house but that's a whole other mess of finances to consider.
For now I'm staying put and doing what I love because there isn't anything wrong with that. I can easily score a job selling toner or doing data entry, but that's my own definition of occupational purgatory. To balance the lack of funds with doing what I love, I concentrate on becoming more marketable by diving into social media via Twitter, blogging and research. Yeah, I can't afford the finest things in life, but when you're young you shouldn't have to. So staying put and staying broke seems worth it.
And to comment on @jrandom's post: If I had children I would put security first in hopes that they could pursue their goals and never "settle." I also wouldn't choose to live out of my car, regardless of my family situation. I think the attitude you bring to your job can determine whether or not you like it. Just look at Pike Place Fish workers; they love going to work everyday to put on a show for passers by, even though they work 12-hour shifts and smell like fish as a result.
Great post Nisha. Seeing that I"m still in the "I work for free" intern phase while bartending to pay rent - I'll have to get back to you on what I actually go through.
Right now, I am thankful that my restaurant is still busy so I can still keep a roof over my head. Once I graduate and look to get a job where I will utilize my degree, I imagine I'll be in a position of taking a large pay cut from what I make behind the bar right now. My first job in PR probably won't pay as well as slingin' drinks - but that's a sacrifice I'll have to make.
Best of luck, and as always, this post was a pleasure to read.

@Scott -- yeah, debt is definitely one thing I think a lot of recent grads and soon-to-be-graduates are worrying about. It's hard to be able to afford that "dream job" when you need something with a steady paycheck to start making loan payments right away. I also agree with your response to jrandom42 -- if I had kids, it would be different, and I'd definitely put their security first. But I don't, so I speak from my perspective of someone who doesn't have a lot of other responsibilities yet.
@Sydney - thanks! I'm definitely still in the work-for-free phase you're in right now too. And I'm not expecting my first job to pay that well at all, but it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make if it's a job doing something I care about.

"I think the attitude you bring to your job can determine whether or not you like it. Just look at Pike Place Fish workers; they love going to work everyday to put on a show for passers by, even though they work 12-hour shifts and smell like fish as a result."
@Scott Lansing, the first sentence can be true, but it depends on the circumstances. The second...how do you know? For example, what's the turnover rate for that job? Maybe people are really enthusiastic about putting on the show, but it gets old quickly.
Passion about work is great, but it's not the only reason to work, and work isn't the only thing to be passionate about.

@KateNonymous Here's a link to "When Fish Fly: Lessons For Creating a Vital and Energized Workplace From the World Famous Pike Place Fish Market," a book written by the owners of Pike Place Fish Market. It discusses the turnover rate for the job, solving problems and achieving goals in the workplace. In case you were interested.
And I don't mean to present this in a "You Got Served" manner, but I personally believe bringing a positive attitude to the workplace can do nothing but improve your occupational setting. I agree there are many reasons to work. There are many important things aside from work. Because work takes up a large portion of many peoples' lives, it doesn't hurt to approach the scenario optimistically. If you enjoy being at work; enjoy the company of your coworkers; and enjoy the work you do, you will have a positive outlook on the experience altogether, which is what I implied in my last post.

Sorry @KateNonymous. Here is the Web address I mentioned:
http://www.amazon.com/When-Fish-Fly-Energized-Workplace/dp/1401300618