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Personal and religious convictions can be a liability when others do not subscribe to the same convictions. It is infinitely difficult to "turn the other cheek," a Christian principle, when you know the next blow will come. In fact, in business, when the entire goal is to make a profit, such behavior is suicidal and against the profit mantra. Here is what I mean:
1. Truly altruistic kindness kills. You and your career/business. Being kind to others sounds nice. It looks ni

Thanks for sparking this discussion, Beth. Without getting into every issue you raised, it’s critical to understand that worldly values and Christian values are almost always in conflict (Sexual Tolerance vs. Chastity; Greed vs. Charity; Righteousness vs. Wickedness; Temperance vs. Excess; Truth vs. Deceit; etc.). And yes, you’re absolutely right that these ideals require the sacrifice of some things (particularly in the business world) that we would otherwise desire.
The question is not whether there IS any sacrifice, but whether one is willing to make that sacrifice and stand up for what’s right in the face of opposition.
(On a final note I’d argue that charity solely “done for a tax break” is not charity at all. In the context you described, it looks a lot more like marketing and very little like anything truly charitable.)

If the teachings and convictions of your faith are that important to you (and I respect that, given my father is a minister), then the best thing to do it find a line of work that is closely in-line with those beliefs. Having to constantly reconcile them will only lead to undue stress, or worse, doubt or compromising those beliefs.
Remember, you'll join them before they ever join you.

I would suggest looking for a company that holds faith-based principals in high regard. You can find it readily in the nonprofit sector, and though it is rarer in for-profits, companies like Merry Maids (a ServiceMaster company based in Memphis, TN) do exist. I think it will take some looking, but I think you can find a company that fits with your ideals.

I disagree with a few of your points... some of them sound more like being a pushover than being a Christian.
Regarding #1 – Managers who let their employees shine might not rise as fast as those who take credit for their subordinates work, but in the circles of people I know these types of managers are better respected from below and above.
Also you can be nice to someone without giving in to a demand that you know is bad for you or bad for the company. You can firmly argue your point and side without being nasty or vindictive (although if you watch the recent political campaigns you might wonder). I think an even greater benefit a Christian can bring to this situation is your attitude when your side does not win, and how you can throw yourself into the work even when they did not choose your idea (within your values of course).
#2 – Charity can be done by the individual or the many. You can be a charitable person with your own time and money. You can suggest ways in which your employer can be charitable without impacting the bottom line. For example what do they do with outdated computer parts? Do they sell them for a low at cost amount? You could suggest they auction them off instead and donate anything above the “at cost” amount to a charity. You could arrange for a local agency to come pick up well used furniture items, saving the company money in disposal fees and helping the environment at the same time.
Regarding helping people who don’t have a way of helping you back, I know many people in my company who make a great name for themselves by being the go-to-guy. Even though the specific person you are helping might not appreciate or care, if you are consistently bailing out teams and people in your area, while getting your own work done your career will be greatly furthered.
#4 - If you get burned because you entered into verbal agreements and the other party did not hold up their end of the bargain, then it would only be FAIR of you in the future dealings to require a written agreement. It would be squandering the resources of the company you work for to do differently. A disgruntled employee would have sued even sooner if the company had fired them.
I am sorry you are having problems at work, but if these problems are tied to not making enough money or to not rising in promotions as fast as your unscrupulous co-workers then I agree with you that this is the price you pay for being a Christian.
If the problems are related to anything else then I find it odd you are blaming them on being a Christian and suggest you look to other causes.

I also disagree with you. I think Christianity is entirely about living the best way we can, and that best way actually makes life better for all of us.
#1: Declining to make a drug that kills people may make money in the short run - even after the lawsuit, but it probably won't make up for the bad PR. So holding firm to a Christian value there has real-world benefits.
#2: Helping people when you don't have to is good for business (people will remember and come back later as paying customers).
#3: Stealing is bad because it impoverishes others, and impoverishing others ultimately makes you poorer. Example: you've got to grow your employees in order to have employees that customers respond to as assets, and that means grooming them and letting them shine. It makes you money to have good people working for you.
#4: 1) I have no idea how an employee can sue for not being fired because they were underperforming. That makes no sense. 2) Written contracts are actually for the benefit of all - it's not a fairness issue.
I don't think you have an issue with Christianity in the workplace, I think you have an issue with douchebags. And the only solution for douchebags is to leave them behind.

I have long believed that American corporate culture is in direct conflict with the tenets of Christianity. Maybe that's why I'm broke. I have a very hard time reconciling my faith with our culture of greed in the guise of ambition.

I guess I understand what you mean, and it's an interesting discussion topic...but it sounds like you're working in a near-evil environment.
I like what Anonymous said up there - you may have an issue with douchebags.
Look at the financial and economic situation that groups of douchebags have put us in. Are they not Christian? They're liars, and greedy scumbags who have been taking your money and gambling and golfing it away; and that's hardly an exaggeration. Mostly Christians, trust me.
Put yourself in a nicer, healthier environment and things will (or may) seem much more religious and orderly.
Well as someone completely non-religious but still very idealistic I continually find myself having a hard time in the business world.
I'm the guy, when I allow myself to be, that can get a sales job and win the sales contest the first week. I don't like that part of me though because I know that I am selling people things they truly do not need. The simplification of life that I desire is not good for a sales lifestyle, so I moved away from sales. It's hard though because now I want to go back for the money and the freedom I could gain quicker from the bigger paycheck!
Life is all about holding true to your ideals and suffering through the tribulations that present. At the end of the day it's yourself you have to live with. Someday I will find the perfect gig that combines my sales personality with my idealistic values. That day will be glorious!