Understand That I Don’t Need a Work/Life Balance

I was interviewed earlier this week by Adam McFarland where I was quoted saying:

As a young entrepreneur, you will have NO work/life balance. I am very serious about this. If you want to succeed, you need to be working 24/7 every day of the week.”

I have received a lot of comments about how this is not the way life should be lived and that a person who does not set time to relax or party is not living a healthy life.  They call me a fool because I jeopardize my friendships and relationship because I work 24/7.  They say that I might be able to keep this up when I’m young, but when I’m 50, I won’t be able to keep up the same life style.

Well, I don’t plan on working 24/7 everyday for the rest of my life.  The goal is to build an empire before I have a house and family of my own.  But the theory behind not having a work/life balance has a deeper source.  It’s not that when I plan to have a work/life balance once I hit 30; it’s that I see work being a part of my life.

Seeing my product launch is much more fun and rewarding to me than going out to Hollywood and partying all night.  Working with my team till 3am in the morning is more fun and rewarding to me than going to the movies and watching some flick about someone else’s life.  Reading a book or article online is much more fun and rewarding to me than watching Family Guy on TV.  Meeting new people through Twitter or blogging is much more fun and rewarding to me than going out with the same people every weekend.  I think you catch my drift here.

I think the point of all this is that I don’t differentiate between my work and my life.  That’s the underlying concept.  People have such a negative connotation with the word “work.”  We hear it all the time: “I hate my job”; “I’m so glad it’s Friday”; “Gah! I hate Mondays”; “I can’t wait till the weekend.”  People in our society seem to think that work sucks.  My team and I are of the mentality that work is fun!  So when I say that I’m working 24/7, it doesn’t mean that I’m losing my mind, stressing out the entire time.  It means that I’m having fun 24/7.

When I do an interview, go to a mixer, meet a person online, or blog and tweet, I am working.  This is a part of my job as the Chief Marketing Officer of Future Delivery.  I consider everything that progresses my career or that develops me personally as “work.”  This is where we may argue with semantics, but work to me doesn’t have to be something that makes me money.  It can be something that expands my network, social status, or influence in the Gen-Y community.

I have a great relationship with my girlfriend.  She understands that I have a startup company and that my company is my number 1 priority.  We’re able to keep a healthy relationship because I do set time during the week to take her out on a date.  When she’s watching TV, I’m sitting next to her with my laptop doing work.  It’s actually the best relationship I have ever been in.

I’m not a fool, nor am I crazy.  This is just the life that I choose to live.  You may say, “Jun, stop working so hard all the time.  Take a break and have some fun!.”  I’ll tell you, “I AM having fun.”

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3 RESPONSES TO "UNDERSTAND THAT I DON’T NEED A WORK/LIFE BALANCE"

Jun Loayza

I've been speaking to a lot of people about the entrepreneurial life. My close friends who are entrepreneurs totally understand the lifestyle and you can see the intensity in their eyes. My friends who are not entrepreneurs always tell me to relax and take a break once in a while.

I went surfing today in the morning, watched "So You Think You Can Dance", and have now finally gotten the chance to answer some emails. I feel refreshed, energized, and ready to work the night away.

I think there may be something to this "relax once in a while" mentality.

- Jun

August 29, 2008 10:36 pm
Alaia Williams

@Sean - the work I was doing, when I was working 24/7 was my passion in life. It wasn't always fun, but a lot of the time it was. So what? There are other things I wanted AS WELL. A vacation, a relationship, to spend time with my friends, go for a long aimless walk. That's what work/life balance means to me. Yeah, I loved my work, but I am not willing to sacrifice my relationships, my health, etc for it. Because once day, when I'm beat down, what will I have?

@Jun. Whoever commented on you not "partying" - interesting. Regardless of the amount of work I do, I've never been a partier. I definitely understand what you said, and I agree with you on some of the points (business launch over party) but not all (I don't have a team to work with and I am a cinephile) - and those are just preferential differences. No big whoop.

If you want to work 24/7, and you enjoy it, why change? You have a team to work with. I didn't, and still don't. So I need more than my work to keep me going. At least you have a team to talk to. Even my current day job has me sitting along in a box 95% of the time (no exaggeration). Also, you seem to have found a girlfriend who is fine with your schedule. I'm just personally not willing to (even temporarily) let relationships become broken and possibly fail. Because I spend so much time alone (no roommates, no co-workers, no employers) I have to do other things with my time than just work.

A lot of people don't end up that blessed with a partner like yours. And I don't have much family, let alone family that I talk to, so if my business fails and I'm back to square one, I'd be a sad lonely sack of...stuff.

August 29, 2008 6:59 pm
Sean

You have a very good point...It seems like we've been conditioned to see work as the opposite of "life" or "fun." That's most likely because most people work jobs that bring them little to no satisfaction, but that's great that you've found one that does.

I had a high school teacher who once said that "TGIF" is one of the saddest phrases in our culture. The reason being that it implies that only 2/7 of your life is worth living. Why not 7/7?

August 29, 2008 1:55 pm

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